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Kony, Nicole, 20 y.o.
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Date: October 11, 2022
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A couple that isn't married but have a mortgage together are having issues! Wow. Surprise.
When you skip the steps where people have to face lifelong commitment or else legal intervention, then you're more likely to have an issue with the joint thing you buy.
It's easier for her to lie because she knows she doesn't have to commit to get what she wants. She already got your money tied into a house without a true commitment of her life. She feels like she can push that.
She's the one in the wrong. You should stop enabling. Is there a way out of the mortgage since the finances changed? Likely you'll be out the earnest money.
Well said.
And if a woman, for instance, wanted to wait until marriage, a guy would be perfectly justified in saying the relationship is not working for him.
30 isn't a high number for a 35 yo woman. Hell, most 15 yo girls have about that these days! Lol!
Yeah but do you put it on paper and physically sign it ?
Please try to find a job and new friends so you have some stability in your life, and leave him as soon as you can. Try to get in touch with your parents.any step away from him is a step in the right direction.
Just from that tiny bit of information, it appears that he is at bare minimum psychologically abusive. You should leave him for your own safety. If you desire, you can ask the police to come check on him. However, if you go to him, he would probably try to hurt or even kill you. If in the US, the police will probably put him under a 72-hour psych hold. This will give you time to safely get any of your things and get out of there, but please do not return.
They seem to have more issues than just groceries
Updateme!
You’re 23 and barely support yourself. I would get away from her ASAP! She is at a different stage of her life and she wants to settle but I feel you should wait until you find the right person. This girl has too many red flags on her.
Being an emotional person doesn’t mean your feelings are invalid or that you are the problem. Someone who cares about you puts in effort to communicate so you aren’t worrying if they’re breaking up with you or why they’re not contacting you.
This might sound shitty, but it has to be said – you’re 19 years old dating a man 6 years older than you, and I won’t get into whether that’s appropriate or not, but at this point in your life, you don’t have much in common with this person. It doesn’t sound like he takes you or your feelings very seriously and he’s not putting in much of an effort to actually date you, which makes it sound like he’s not interested in you for the right reasons.
Do yourself a favor and move on. I promise you there are many other people out there that would actually put effort into dating you.
Only if you’re respectful and take whatever she has to say at face-value. Don’t go arguing or explaining yourself.
Cheaters don’t grow up they just get better at hiding it. (Generally, I’m sure there’s a few rare exceptions to prove the general rule.)
Once the games start they never stop. the relationship is over.
My guess is, that's the wrong call. You should see other people. If it ever comes to a decision point – her or somebody else – you can let her know where you are. You can also see her occasionally. Just protect your heart here.
3 years is a very long time to make your partner wait. Especially in your 20s…you don't get that back. I harbor a lot of resentment for someone who waisted 4 years of my 20s.
Sounds like you're depressed or struggling with burnout. Wanna talk about it?
It is a big deal for some people. Everyone isn’t the same and your acting like full nudity between friends is a common social norm everywhere, it’s not.
We get it your super progressive and nudity isn’t a big deal for you. That’s your opinion and your life, for a lot of people, majority of people their partner being fully nude with other people is a dealbreaker
Honestly, I've known more than one couple that did this. The relationship is bad, but they stay together because it's either easier or the are codependent. Then things get even worse, things really start breaking down in the relationship so then they go get married because they think it will be a fix.
That and the staying late every night at work for overtime where she’s not getting paid extra? Ask the BiL.
Do you want the unrealistic internet advice or the real advice?
Lol, welcome to being the man in arguments. Winning them is never going to be worth winning them.
Twice or thrice a week before. But i stopped recently when i realized it was just me initiating, and sometimes when i ask, he’d seemed not into it, so i stopped. I told him i understand that he may not wanna do it all the time and its ok he jerks off on hiw own, but also told him that we need to meet that need of each other too. Weve had this convo for probably 3x already. He’d be sorry, then tey to initiate, then forget about the whole conversation again
I can only go off what you tell me, and you declined to answer whether you've adjusted your strategy with your son. Again, actions speak louder than words. You telling me or your wife that you're not invested in going hot means a lot less than you repeating the same shit that's crushing him.
Actually there is a heartbeat.
You ain't going anywhere and she knows that
Ain’t no doubt about it
no way! what is this bitch on?
Give her space like she needs to process and continue working on you. After a little time, reach out to her and ask to talk. Prove to her you’ve been working to be better and you’re going to continue regardless of what happens. Probably good or discuss it and clarify now that time has passed and she’s processed it.
IUI is significantly easier. Significantly. To bypass it when she doesn’t seem to have any issues to mind-boggling, honestly.
Bachelor and bachelorette parties are antiquated. I wouldn't put up with this.
Why can’t/won’t be attempt to make friends where you all online now?
The problem is his and his alone. IMO it sounds like he consumes wayyy too much porn and masturbates just aa often. He can’t finish because he has death grip, no woman will ever be as tight as his hand and because porn can be so extreme and unrealistic, it ruins the perception of ‘normal’ sex and ‘normal’ women.
He either addresses this by stopping his consumption or you really need to move on from him to someone who respects you.
Please tell her, she deserves to know. I was very grateful when a fee women exposed my cheating ex. If you were in her position, wouldn't you want to know?
Friend, you're in your 30s. This full-grown, fully brain developed, adult man has weaponized his incompetence. He doesn't create a safe space for you to even talk about your feelings, and he's content with you being his mother. This behavior doesn't change unless he wants it to, and he clearly doesn't. He doesn't even admit there's a problem. So take stock, if zero things changed, is this the online you want for yourself? If the answer is no, then it's time to go. You brought it up, he dismissed it and attacked you, and he's not looking for a solution. He dismisses you on every level, including your very real chronic illness. You don't have a partner. You have a selfish child.
Absolutely this. Pot meet kettle.
Lots of people meet at the gym.
My advice is to not take relationship, financial, legal, or medical advice from Redditors.
Hey! Thanks for your reply stranger. We’d both been in LDRs previously and it just not for us. But again, we’re keeping an open mind. I think I’m just gonna do my best and also continue my prep for further education. I’ll see what happens when the right time comes. As they say, if it’s meant to be then it’ll be.
Thanks again!
The wife is obviously more responsible but that doesn't mean Bob is not responsible too.
One message, and one only:
“Get yourself a bathroom conduct for your next girlfriend. I have no need for a man who gets me embarassed over natural body procedures, laughs at me with the bullies and then tries to gaslight me into believing that I am in the wrong.
Actions have consequences, dear.”
The fact that he didn’t close the door first thing is wild. But then after, when he left, kept it open.. what the actual fuck!? Boyfriend or not that’s just the decent thing to do for another human. Then continue to laugh at you with all his friends, while you’re still sitting there, door open.. why would he be ok w his buddies still being able to look at you while on the toilet?
Also, fuck that chick. I wouldn’t blame OP for wanting to leave so she wouldn’t have to deal with her, but then on top of it, the rest of the friends, and the worst of it her boyfriend.
Like I’ll be the first to laugh at farts(bc comedic gold), and poop jokes because everyone does it, and they’re funny, and there’s no telling me any different. Except this isn’t that. This is seeing someone in a literal vulnerable position, and laughing at their embarrassment, and further humiliating and ridiculing them. And not one of them thought to close the door.
He’s going to say it’s fine and it was all jokes, but the second he saw you were upset and in an embarrassing situation should have been when the jokes stopped.
As OP’s significant other he should be her biggest defender and supporter- her best friend. And even if he can’t understand why she’s so upset(dk how), or thinks she overreacted shouldn’t matter, it should be enough that she was and continues to be, bc her feelings should matter to him.
Sounds like he’s 19 at college and not almost 30, and cared more laughing with his buddies AT OP when she was clearly uncomfortable and upset. It’s telling that even after she left he’s still being an ass. Hope it was worth it to feel cool with his buddies for a few minutes, who are guna be gone after the trip to wherever they online, and hopefully she’ll have left his ass.
We’re making the assumption that this has been discussed before. Judging by how they just communicated with each other in this scenario, I doubt it has. He could have been more forthcoming about having a rough day, she could have informed him she had a friend over and also was way out of line for saying he didn’t deserve dinner.
She lied about you not being invited. Who is to say that she isn't lying about her brother's gf ? Maybe your gf is the one causing issues.
I'd be honest and say that I have seen the message and prepare for open combat. It is 1 year and, if you guys online together, there is no reason for you to be her secret.
No there is no teaching that you or anyone else needs to do. Get bent
That was hot to watch but you powered through it. Big man.
Not reading this… NONE!
Holy fuck…
As someone who’s been through a few surgeries, this girl can fuck right off.
Please OP post a question in r/legaladvice to see how you can evict her. The level of stress she causes you will cause long-term health issues. PLEASE put yourself first and kick her out. Please.
This is awful advice. Whether you're exclusive or not at this point, own up to what you did OP. Give her the ability to make an informed choice about where the relationship goes from here.
Do you actually like your girlfriend?!!? I cannot imagine receiving something someone put so much love into and being like “eh no thank you I'd prefer a basket full of body care products”
If the issue is actually you have no more space…. Tell her that. Just say “darling I don't have any more space to hang your paintings, is there something else you could pivot to gifting me?”
I literally feel like such a piece of garbage.
You are.
She’s been cheated on once.
And now she's been cheated on twice.
how do I go about telling her?
The Nike way, just do it.
when I see her in person she’s gonna be driving 1.5 hours
She's probably not if you tell her before then, which you should. She could forgive and forget, but I wouldn't hold my breath.
“Oh, you’re sick. You want tea?”
“No I just need help cleaning my pussy”
Yep this happened to a friend of mine, her bf preferred porn to sex with her and she's an attractive woman. It can change how a man perceives women with real bodies, real sex, and it reprograms their brains as well.