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Date: October 9, 2022
KoronaExtra, 25 y.o.
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I tried that many times but I seem to be the one that suffers when I do. I like showing my feelings to people around me..
You don't. And if his friends have done this before and he's aware of it? Honestly that's even worse, IMHO.
He should have set his friends straight about interfering in his relationship a long time ago. And after they didn't heed that warning, he should have dumped them. You don't keep friends who tear down your relationship.
This isn't on you and him being impressionable isn't either. He went nuclear dumping you. Let him live! with the fallout, bc his reason for nuking your relationship is so dumb, you will always wonder when and what will set him off again.
11 weeks old, and a little under two weeks before she goes back to work.
Why did your friends all think she was trying to baby trap you?? Did this not concern you at all while you were sleeping with her?
Oh I missed that part then. Interesting
I respectfully think it was wrong to lie and hide the relationship due to financial reasons.
I do have to say your Mom is throwing a tantrum similar to a 5-year-old threatening to “run away”/“throw up” if she doesn’t get what she wants. As naked as it is, I would not give this attention behavior or enable more of it.
I think it will be a process, but they may come around eventually. You’re obviously not killing her or causing her any mental illness, let her know she is doing this to herself. Same with your dad, treat them like kindergardeners for now, because honestly how they are behaving – tell them you will speak to them when they have calmed down and will be nice with you.
It’s always easier to say all this as a third party perspective, there are a lot of emotions involved when parents act like this towards someone who we have grown with and love.
They probably grew up with the same cultural stereotypes, but it doesn’t excuse them from acting this way. Be firm with them.
Wish you the best of luck!
That’s crazy when you take it out in your own child, and threaten to cut off contact if they don’t pick a side. Don’t be parent if you can’t keep your kids out of your personal problems.
How do I get her to stop asking??
You act like a grown up, and sit down to have a face to face with her about both of your expectations of the future of your relationship. Then you stop flipping stalling and get married. You know it's what she wants, you claim it's what you want. You've been together for five flipping years. What are you waiting for????
Okay then answer this question that I gave you earlier. What human avoid something that they actually enjoy doing?
Does your wife wait for you to initiate every other thing in life that she enjoys? Everything that you are describing is your perception of how she views sex. You think that she's having a great time. You think that you know when she's not just doing it to get you off her back. And you are not the only man in the world who does these things.
And if you won't believe me that this isn't a healthy situation then we can't help you.
Your parents failed you, OP. Not because of who they were having sex with but because you were clearly not well and they did not get you the help that you needed. Ignoring your teenager having constant panic attacks is just shitty parenting and they should have gotten you a doctor and a therapist immediately so you could have worked through this trauma with a professional. I hope you go to therapy now as an adult so you can address these traumas from your childhood so they cannot affect your adult relationships.
Hi, thanks a lot for responding, and sharing your story. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year, and I love him, oh so dearly. He’s just everything to me. And I hate to put this on him and be that abusive girlfriend I never wanted to be, so I’ve decided never to talk about this again, and he knows that.
I have every reason to believe that I am the main lady in his life. He tells me that the ex doesn’t exist for him anymore, that I am the love of his life, first “true” love, that he has never been as invested in anyone as he has been with me. I have been his firsts in so many things, including his future, which he sees with me, and only me. He told me in retrospect, it’s for the best that he didn’t work out with her, because he feels like I am an upgrade.
Yes, I may be rambling right now, and these facts above should be enough for me to believe I am his main lady and not her, and yet I don’t feel it in my bones.
Again, I hope that I can eventually find peace, and have booked a therapy session this week. I hope I can focus on the love between US, and water it so that it grows into the best tree it can
He will never stop! You know why? Because he went through something in the past that won't allow him to move on mentally.
I've been in situations like this and trust me. He has major trust issues. And you will only waste your time trying to change him. Six months from now, you will hate yourself even more for putting up with it. This guy sounds super insecure.. This relationship is a waste of time. Find yourself someone who won't make you feel weird and anxious to be around…
Our bodies don't lie! You are feeling weird for a reason and it's your body's way of telling youz this is not for you.
Sorry this does not sound good. There is another sub for Infidelity, to get ideas. But…
Take pictures or make copies of the bank statements showing the money transfers. This goes the same for Instagram. Keep hidden in a safe location he can't find it.
You may need this in the future. This is also your money he's spending. Get an STD test.
You can also check his cell phone while he's sleeping. Or use an Apple tracker or phone locator, to see where he is going.
Make copies of everything. Including backups. In case you want a divorce in the future.
Honestly, I'd ask innocently if he forgot yall share locations and reiterate the question of if he's sure he made it to work on time.
No if I end it is precisely because i don’t want him to change because of me, and it is one’s of the reasons I’m thinking about it because sometimes i feel that he wants to change because of me and to fit more
He's had the ability to get the help. Plus I've tried for years to get him to see a doctor in general about his health overall, least of all getting to get him to see a therapist or anything of that sort. If my comment came off as a personal attack, that was not my intention just me trying to educate someone who may not know or may try to use diagnosis as excuses. My mother is a narcissist with hypochondriac issues so it's something I live! with and see constantly.
You did nothing wrong. Alice even said Bob is overreacting. That seems like a pretty mature and direct way to bury the hatchet while also ensuring he wouldn’t cause problems for you at the wedding. Bob is a bitch and has always been a bitch and seems content to always be a bitch. Also, why is Alice friends with Bob after what he did to you? Seems like the trash is taking itself out. Problem solved.
Nah but he might fade away.
Well it’s not like you’re hitler incarnate here, but it also would not have killed you to use your words like an adult. The anger is oozing off of you here, I wouldn’t be surprised if you gave off a very angry vibe without realizing it then, and it is rude to act that way to a guest. All you had to say was, “I wish that I could talk longer, but I feel ill with a headache and need to rest. Have a fun visit!”
Part of growing up is learning to grin and bear it through social pressures, and learning how to politely bow out when that’s impossible. ESH but why is it getting blown up still into a big thing? Did you double down and not admit that her point was valid, or did she not accept your apology and explanation? This shouldn’t be a big deal, but one or both of you, seem obsessed with being right rather than hearing your partner and learning to do better in the future. If possible your wife should have given you a heads up, but everyone gets headaches and has bad days, it doesn’t excuse taking responsibility for how you act when you have one.
But, from his comments, she kept giving her consent I thought. And what if she's actually upset at the realization that she's not as physically strong as she thought she was. Being “strong” and fearless may have been a defense mechanism for her and she was forced to face the truth and her humanity. She's taking it out on him, but I think it's possible it's more about her and her perception of herself. She used that perception to make fun of his strength maybe to feel better about herself and now she sees that it's not true.
Why are you refering to her as your gf? She broke up with you already
Just yuck. Why are you still there? The 10 year age difference was the first red flag and it just went downhill from there. Please respect yourself, and get the hell outta this toxic relationship. Run, don’t walk away from this guy. He is changing you and destroying your self-confidence every minute. Get out. Get out now.
we definately have some other issues, especially with the possibility of me moving for college…I just think i may be overthinking this because we had a really big fight the other day. thank you for your response:)
There is so many things wrong with this I’m not even going to bother
You’re out of your mind if you do this
She's made her wants known.
You have made yours known.
Neither of you want each other's choices.
If you force her to move she'll likely resent you and end up back where she wants to be.
If you stay there for her you'll likely resent her and up being her third parent.
Sometimes love is enough to keep a relationship going.
Yes. ?♀️
She just wants to have an evening to do a hobby of her own. She has repeatedly commented that she likes having a job outside of the home.
Yes. ?♀️
She just wants to have an evening to do a hobby of her own. She has repeatedly commented that she likes having a job outside of the home.
Actually, considering intimacy is a huge part of most romantic relationship it absolutely is worth ending it over. You can’t beg someone to give care and consideration to you. It extends so much beyond that moment of sex. It extends go basic curtesy and respect to your partner.
You’ve been there a year, right? Making friends as an adult requires some effort because it’s not like when you’re in high school or college and make all these friends due to proximity.
Put you, your daughter and your needs first.
Your mother sounds like a shit person to be honest. SHE'S embarrassed and trying to make you feel the same when in reality, THE PEDOPHILE UNCLE SHOULD BE. He should be left to the curb and never spoken to again.
The fact your mother thinks poorly of you because when you were a child, a helpless child that she failed to protect, says everything you need to know. She's selfish and isn't thinking of you or your daughter's best interests.
I think a lot of people experience guilt going against their family, or going no-contact but honestly it's personally the best thing I've done for myself. You don't have ANY obligation when you become an adult to even associate with your “family”. You choose your family. Just because someone may have give birth to me doesn't mean they own me, my life and my choices. Just because someone is related by blood doesn't mean I owe them anything, not even my time or energy.
I urge you to talk to your husband and be firm with what is best for you, even if that means isolating yourself away from these people. It sounds toxic to begin with and you aren't required by law or moral obligation to like or associate with 'family'. It's your life.