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If you had broken up when y'all were disconnecting, it wouldn't have been anything, just a good move for your happiness. But because you kept making the choice to stay with him AND made the choice to be basically with the other guy, you were.
I know you have been down voted, but I wondered sort of the same thing. Why tell him? Why does your partner need to know your sexual preferences, when you are already with him and want to stay with him? I'm confused.
If it's a hormonal IUD, it can be rendered ineffective by other substances just like the pill. Maybe you have shit luck. Maybe you had a drug interaction. Or maybe you need to check your house for a bottle of St John's Wort.
Does she have an alcohol problem? I can't wrap my head around you thinking the only reason she hasn't cheated on you thus far is because she hasn't been drunk enough or far enough away.
He has told me about his health issues. It's not about that. Yes he said to me that he needed some time to get his head round things but he didn't say what things. We normally do not have any issues whatsoever communicating but each time a hospital is involved then it becomes difficult. I am giving him space. I know when he feels better then his normal way of communicating returns.
Glad you’re keeping it. By the time you’re 40 the kid will be brown up and off to school and you’ll be chilling while all your friends are dealing with their kids. Having kids later in life is relatively new. The ideal time is when you’re young and have the energy
There is likely nothjing you can do about him and his new gf no matter how disgusting it is.
There is however something you can do in regards to your ex telling your kids to keep secrets from you. This is a huge major issue and 1 you need to sit and talk about. If he didn't want the kids telling you then I hope they aren't around her. A parent should be teaching their kids to be open and honest and as soon as you go down the route of telling them to keep secrets then that's a red flag. If you are both sorting out custody then I would raise this.
Boy will she be surprised to find out that people who wear suits to work often wear sweatpants at home. I’m… not sure why you wearing comfortable clothing at home is such a dramatic secret. I’m so confused as to why this is a problem unless she’s equating wearing a certain type of clothing at home with cultural values… which would be odd and a stretch, but not unheard of if she’s sheltered. It’s not like people who wear kimonos to lounge are secretly devout shintoists. This is… such a weird thing to be upset about.
I'm not sure it's testosterone related like alot of the other commens are suggesting.
From OPs post, it sounds more psychological than physical. Think maybe more time on foreplay and spending time “getting to know” each other and building comfort, I think the rest will happen naturally.
OPs boyfriend is stuck in the loop of focusing on the ED now which in turn creates a higher level of anxiety and so forth.
You'll be so much more of a jerk if you bother your ex again. Let her go. She has finality right now. If you love her, like actually care about her, you'll let her keep that. If you tell her what you did she has to deal with the heartache of knowing you cheated on her, and deal with the emotions of your breakup all over again, and be saddled with the baggage that is your feelings. Just. Leave. Her. Alone.
Girl, red flags. Red flags. Do you care about how he treats the rest of the world?
How is he supposed to teach your child how to be kind? It’s good to feel empathy for people. You can’t ONLY feel empathy towards family. That makes it super easy to be a dick and extremely selfish.
Explain how I have not justified her side? She's allowed to change her mind and he's allowed to be frustrated with that. Period. Funny you're saying I'm the one taking sides, yet you're active like you've never gotten upset when plans were suddenly canceled lol
You're right to be mad, but I wouldn't get mad until you ask her if she's willing to reimburse you or split it some way somehow? Yeah, she created a problem. If she's not willing to help you solve it, then get mad.
This is interesting. But the ‘based on income’ is already an attempt at working as a unit, right? I’d split 50/50 (with adj. for room size) with a roommate, as individuals. So, I just feel like here, that considering savings and debt is part of working as a unit in a more complicated situation.
You need to get over it and leave it in the past or go and get some help to deal with YOUR issue about this. Punishing her or yourself based on something that happened before she knew you is absurd.
If you had broken up when y'all were disconnecting, it wouldn't have been anything, just a good move for your happiness. But because you kept making the choice to stay with him AND made the choice to be basically with the other guy, you were.
I know you have been down voted, but I wondered sort of the same thing. Why tell him? Why does your partner need to know your sexual preferences, when you are already with him and want to stay with him? I'm confused.
If it's a hormonal IUD, it can be rendered ineffective by other substances just like the pill. Maybe you have shit luck. Maybe you had a drug interaction. Or maybe you need to check your house for a bottle of St John's Wort.
Does she have an alcohol problem? I can't wrap my head around you thinking the only reason she hasn't cheated on you thus far is because she hasn't been drunk enough or far enough away.
He has told me about his health issues. It's not about that. Yes he said to me that he needed some time to get his head round things but he didn't say what things. We normally do not have any issues whatsoever communicating but each time a hospital is involved then it becomes difficult. I am giving him space. I know when he feels better then his normal way of communicating returns.
Tell her & ask her if she`ll guide you thru it.
No one said all women are bad. They said women like OP's girlfriend exist. Not that all women are like OP's girlfriend. Please read.
One of the most telling things about someone’s character is their ability to genuinely apologize and amend their actions.
Glad you’re keeping it. By the time you’re 40 the kid will be brown up and off to school and you’ll be chilling while all your friends are dealing with their kids. Having kids later in life is relatively new. The ideal time is when you’re young and have the energy
There is likely nothjing you can do about him and his new gf no matter how disgusting it is.
There is however something you can do in regards to your ex telling your kids to keep secrets from you. This is a huge major issue and 1 you need to sit and talk about. If he didn't want the kids telling you then I hope they aren't around her. A parent should be teaching their kids to be open and honest and as soon as you go down the route of telling them to keep secrets then that's a red flag. If you are both sorting out custody then I would raise this.
Boy will she be surprised to find out that people who wear suits to work often wear sweatpants at home. I’m… not sure why you wearing comfortable clothing at home is such a dramatic secret. I’m so confused as to why this is a problem unless she’s equating wearing a certain type of clothing at home with cultural values… which would be odd and a stretch, but not unheard of if she’s sheltered. It’s not like people who wear kimonos to lounge are secretly devout shintoists. This is… such a weird thing to be upset about.
When was the last time he called you, just to talk or hear about your day?
I'm not sure it's testosterone related like alot of the other commens are suggesting.
From OPs post, it sounds more psychological than physical. Think maybe more time on foreplay and spending time “getting to know” each other and building comfort, I think the rest will happen naturally.
OPs boyfriend is stuck in the loop of focusing on the ED now which in turn creates a higher level of anxiety and so forth.
You'll be so much more of a jerk if you bother your ex again. Let her go. She has finality right now. If you love her, like actually care about her, you'll let her keep that. If you tell her what you did she has to deal with the heartache of knowing you cheated on her, and deal with the emotions of your breakup all over again, and be saddled with the baggage that is your feelings. Just. Leave. Her. Alone.
Girl, red flags. Red flags. Do you care about how he treats the rest of the world?
How is he supposed to teach your child how to be kind? It’s good to feel empathy for people. You can’t ONLY feel empathy towards family. That makes it super easy to be a dick and extremely selfish.
Explain how I have not justified her side? She's allowed to change her mind and he's allowed to be frustrated with that. Period. Funny you're saying I'm the one taking sides, yet you're active like you've never gotten upset when plans were suddenly canceled lol
It sounds like you are still in high school? Tell this guy to grow up and date someone his own age.
What she gets for lying is a way to manipulate you. JC.
You're right to be mad, but I wouldn't get mad until you ask her if she's willing to reimburse you or split it some way somehow? Yeah, she created a problem. If she's not willing to help you solve it, then get mad.
Do not do it. It’s extremely selfish. You are only doing it to make yourself feel better. Learn to manage your own feelings. They aren’t her problem.
This is interesting. But the ‘based on income’ is already an attempt at working as a unit, right? I’d split 50/50 (with adj. for room size) with a roommate, as individuals. So, I just feel like here, that considering savings and debt is part of working as a unit in a more complicated situation.
You need to get over it and leave it in the past or go and get some help to deal with YOUR issue about this. Punishing her or yourself based on something that happened before she knew you is absurd.
Right!? Like I have to figure out my life for him to be able to continue the relationship … what?
You don't, also therapist is a paid actor.