Just from the information, I know I'd be annoyed if the only take away from therapy was 'do what your spouse wants'. How often do you initiate intimacy? Is she responsive to that? Does she have the time/energy for intimacy? Do you show her love in the way she needs it?
I know my questions are focused on you, but that's because you made the post and that's the only source for questions. It does sound like she needs to communicate her needs better and make an effort to meet you in the middle.
I've had a similar thing happen; please don't get back together with him. If you do, you will NEVER be able to trust him again, and that will eat away at you. You deserve someone who doesn't dump you every time they want to get their dick wet.
Hopefully you guys stay broken up – because really- do you want to live! the rest of your life always being scrutinized like that? False accusations all the time? Good luck!
Just from the information, I know I'd be annoyed if the only take away from therapy was 'do what your spouse wants'. How often do you initiate intimacy? Is she responsive to that? Does she have the time/energy for intimacy? Do you show her love in the way she needs it?
I know my questions are focused on you, but that's because you made the post and that's the only source for questions. It does sound like she needs to communicate her needs better and make an effort to meet you in the middle.
I've had a similar thing happen; please don't get back together with him. If you do, you will NEVER be able to trust him again, and that will eat away at you. You deserve someone who doesn't dump you every time they want to get their dick wet.
Hopefully you guys stay broken up – because really- do you want to live! the rest of your life always being scrutinized like that? False accusations all the time? Good luck!