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Date: October 15, 2022
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Is your brain fucking broken?
LISTEN TO WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING.
I would agree with you and some of those points but I feel like that's more of a church standing rather than the real belief of Christianity. The problem is people confuse church with their beliefs. I grew up in a Catholic household and I knew for a fact that the Catholic church was complete shite. Jesus was not a six pack having blonde haired blue-eyed savior. Do I necessarily truly believe that he was the son of God honestly no. I do think that he was a good man who stood by those that everybody else ignored and crapped on and treated like crap and tried to teach to be better. And the OP's supposed friends are intolerant jerks that hide behind their church's beliefs. And I will agree with you that most people that scream I'm a good Christian are really crap people. But just like all walks of life there are really good ones too. And in a world full of increasing hatred bigotry and evil being pointed out sometimes they're harder to see.
Just attention seeking and trying to insert himself back in the picture. Just ignore and move on.
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Ah, so your fear of being alone and being a burden to your friends is causing you to settle for crap. So the solution is to expand your social support network. Make more friends. The more you feel connected and valued by others the less you’ll settle for crap and the better yourself esteem. If you’re not sure how to make more friends, search past posts on this sub, lots of ideas and info on that is available.
Also, you may want to look into how you pick and attract partners. When you don’t feel that you’re valuable then you try to attracted partners by doing things for them and not asking for much in return. It’s a strategy that works to get a partner, but after awhile you’ll end up feeling like a parent more than a partner. And often decent people don’t go for relationships like that. Most people want to be helped but also to feel helpful. So it may seem odd, but learn to ask more for what you want, and know that you deserve that because you give back and reciprocate. Anyone who has a problem helping you when you help them, not worth your time.
Don’t get me wrong, the reason you’re concerned is 100000% valid and that whole situation is gross and icky and makes me want to vomit a little. But for me, the biggest red flag is him disrespecting your boundaries and him continuing to ask even after you showed discomfort. And then during the sex, I can’t imagine you were too into it? If I had sex with someone and they looked uncomfortable, I would stop immediately. It seems like he isn’t checking in with you to see if you’re enjoying yourself. You shouldn’t be with someone who is willing to make you uncomfortable for their pleasure
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Do not move to another country for a man who would cancel your plane ticket, for a trip you were invited to, because his parents said so.
If after 3 years he cannot stand up for you to his parents and listens to them about situations that have nothing to do with them (i.e. this trip) then your future isn’t looking good. How can you be happy in a relationship with someone who will never prioritize you and who doesn’t take your feelings into consideration?
You can either sit down and have a very blunt conversation with him about your future and how his parents involvement in your relationship/their treatment of you and his lack of boundaries are jeopardizing your relationship or you can just walk away.
Good luck!
Get the money he owes you then block his sorry ass
1) Contact your friends and family and let them know you want to break up with him. Say the same things you said in this post and say you might need some emotional support during this time.
2) When you break up, be assertive and do not fall for any guilting/negotiation/etc. Tell him you’re ending things and it’s final. Do NOT phrase the break up as an attack on his character. He WILL try to tear you down to make it seem like you’re just as bad as him. Phrase the break up as things just not working out and you’re no happy anymore.
3) give him a timeline to move out. Contact your landlord as well. If he or his family start to harass you, CONTACT THE POLICE. Have some kind of record of it. This doesn’t mean anyone will be arrested. This will provide evidence/documentation in case you ever need to get a restraining order.
4) after he leaves, change all locks or passwords- anything he has that can let him into your life. Block him and his family on everything.
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I think it’d be better if you found a new place to live and just packed your things and left. That way he and his family wouldn’t know where to reach you. I know that’s nude, but please consider just leaving him the apartment and having a fresh start away from him.
Dm her on IG. And then just sort of ask how she is. Then quite quickly in the conversation let her know that you are single again as your last relationship didn't pan out, you would love to catch up. That's how I'd go. Good luck OP.
So your professor is a creep and a predator who preys on his students. Repeat the previous sentence if your feelings come bubbling to the surface or you will be the next one he cheats on.
Oh your serenity in the face of aggression has shown me the error of my ways. Surely if you remain peaceful during a discussion there cannot be a flaw in your logic. Truly a higher being. [five minute long fart noise]
You have the emotional IQ of a cactus, don't you OP?
I'm going to be blunt here. It sounds like your wife doesn't give a flying f*ck about how “nice” the life you are supposedly providing is, if she is doing it alone.
Both my mom and mother in law live with us so she has plenty of help
She doesn't want help from your mother, or hers. She wants help from YOU. You know, her husband & the father of her children? The person who she committed to doing all of this with, and who has now abandoned her for a job?
But it sucks because all I want to do is be excited about this new job
In all your excitement for your new job, where is the excitement for the birth of your sons, and for their recovery from what would have been some terrifying health scares for your wife to navigate?
this lead to an argument where I told her I felt unsupported and that she doesn’t view my work as a significant contribution
Cool. You feel unsupported. So does your wife. Maybe it's not logical to you, but emotions aren't logical. Hormones are a total b!tch to deal with. Your wife is currently learning the nude way. And she is having to do it without you around.
the entire reason she can stay at home and doesn’t have to work and the reason why she has the life she has is because I work the way I do.
And what is the point in having a “nice” life, if she has no one to share it with. Your sons are going to grow & change so much in the first year of their lives, and you are missing it all. So you might think it is a “nice” life because you can provide material goods, but for your wife, who is going through a life-changing experience, and having to do it without you? Not so much.
I obviously didn’t say this last part to her but it feels like shit to provide such a nice life for someone who clearly doesn’t appreciate it.
It probably also feels like sh!t to go through what she has gone through, and end up in a position where her husband is never around to give her support as she raises twins as a first time mother, who also had to endure multiple health scares for her newborn babies, is now dealing with PPD, navigating a completely changed identity (and probably body), and having to do it with two interlopers in her home who she also probably feels the need to always be “on” for and may or may not be more of a hinderance than a help.
Can't imagine why she is treating YOU unfairly.
Do you have a friend that knows her/ a friend that has ha friend that knows her? If you can get a 3d person to tell her some vauge “someone saw your husband being lovey dovey with a woman”.
I'm thinking the grape vine might be a safer option
Sounds fake
I asked him to stop, which he said he did. It has to do with his escort fantasies. Meeting up with strangers etc.
To clarify, I wasn’t hiding these dinners from my wife. Strictly post work and home
Sex is a healthy and normal thing:) When we agreed to this type of relationship there were certain aspects about it that I thought would be beneficial to me. But don’t worry, I’ve taken the necessary precautions to avoid getting pregnant!
Cut him off altogether and rethink your relationship with your boyfriend because he was so important you wouldn't have cheated
They don’t. She wants to but he doesn’t talk to her. He feels really bad about everything
I dont know. I am slowely starting to realise how blind i was. Sometimes he also doesnt understand what the word “no” means in sex. I suffer from a disorder where sex can be more painfull then normal, and he never had understanding for that. If i say no, sometimes he becomes mad or really pushing it.
I can confirm I was David. All of the conversation was done at the bar. I was never supposed to be more than a one night stand, maybe a matching one for the other side. Things progressed and made it more complicated.
That age difference is creepy. He is also a good bit older than you. I think you should consider yourself lucky you found out before marriage.
Who he's only been on one date with! What is this world where one date is so important
no more than what you’d put in soup and for three days he didn’t eat at all, I just find it concerning that after a week of dieting something like this happened
Just block her