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Date: October 6, 2022
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Nah that seems ok
Just tell him that you are not prepared to add on more debt and pressure at this moment and you will be happy to spend Christmas next year but cannot afford it this year as he knows already that you’re struggling
Look into solving your codependency after you get out of this toxic relationship.
There is no advice that's going to help you other than leave this leech. It's not going to get easier, you have to do it anyway.
admittedly on and off
I'm more interested in hearing about this. A one-time mistake with someone hell never see again and was immediately honest about is something a long-term couple in love can potentially work on. But this is another in a series of issues in your relationship.
Are those issues just life stuff (job opportunities pulling you apart, family stuff, etc ) or were these issues caused by him or the both of you together? Why was it on and off?
thanks!
I end quick conversations with acquaintances I pass in a grocery store once a year with “see you later”
They are both being disrespectful to you. Say something.
Never assume that a relationship only 8 months in is going to be someone you spend the rest of your life with. Especially at only 18. Those are your “learning what you want in a partner” relationships. Plus you mentioned being long distance, 8 months is hardly enough time to have had enough experiences with him to know that.
You are and have been in an extremely abusive and controlling relationship. Your partners extreme reactions are both childish and manipulation and she knows from past arguments that you will give in and continue to allow you to be controlled. I get she may have insecurities but people who know they have them don't get upset when told they need help, not then make you feel guilty for suggesting it.
Get therapy on your own please and have a back up plan to leave or you will forever be living your life on eggshells. Your attraction to others is completely normal.
No, leave him.
perfect solution. OP should have suggested they build shed toilet just for him.
probably 20 yrs too late. lol
I agree with you, its been tough she's explained to me that she essentially doesn't feel a single emotion for anyone besides her grandmother. I even tell her “hey are you not feeling ok?” or “do you feel this way because of how your grandmothers situation if so I understand.” but she just gets annoyed by the concerning questions because I ask her frequently whenever I get worried or overthink.
About last month was the last time I went to the dentists. No cavities
Again, I didn't ask for you to clutch your pearls over me. I asked about dating an ex's sibling. Get a life, loser.
Have a candid discussion. Explain that this is nothing you can help or control. You can focus on her pleasure through things like oral sex and fingering.
Oh buddy, you are in for a world of hurt. Wish you all the best, honestly.
Maybe you should report that insta page.
Imagine someone who is allergic to peanuts trying that exposure therapy..
I love how it's also somehow only on the parent to provide this info in these people's minds. Everyone in these comments going “I'm childfree, so this would be a deal-breaker” is asking like they can't ask the person they're dating if kids are something they want. Like…it's just as important to state early on that you don't want kids, as it is to state you do, or that you have them. But nooooooo, not in these commentors eyes!
Just going to counselling is not enough. Also, your dad’s advice sucks. Yes, hold off on the marriage, but break up? Really? During a pregnancy? This should really be a time for her to be enjoying the process, gearing up for the baby, and instead you are dropping the emotional support you should be giving her and upsetting her.
Think really hard about why you are doing this. You loved her enough to make a baby. This sounds more like commitment issues.
And if you do break up, for heaven’s sake don’t start dating immediately. Just focus on yourself and being a good father to the child.
He seemed like you just told him his whole family was just shot to death. I know his crying wasn’t fake and I can understand having pent up emotions but it’s hard for me to see how hugging up on my best friend was the best reaction to that. In a conversation we had early about this he said one thing that stood out to me which was that he was having a nude time and just needed anything from anyone that was closest at that moment(even though I was there the whole time). That didn’t really help ease my thoughts although the took it back pretty quickly as I got upset when he said that. I just don’t really know how to feel. I try and be as supportive and caring as possible but if he can’t control his actions what does that mean for the future?
You should have been honest from the start, I wouldn't trust you either after that.
What does it have to do with your DIL? Why? Cuz it's not yours, youre not entitled to anything.
Take it as a red flag. You can find better
Could be how he really feels. Maybe there's some marital tension. He'll be fine.
Because if they don’t i don’t know what I’ll do with my daughter
Wait, so you think your daughter is doing normal kid stuff and your wife is being unreasonable, but if your wife doesn’t figure it out, you’re going to abandon your daughter?
Please tell me I’m misunderstanding.
Have you asked him if he physically cheated with this person? Please get an STD test for yourself.
If you want to save your relationship, he needs to go completely NC with this person. Find a new job. Get into both individual and marriage counseling. Block the AP completely. Give you an open phone and technology policy and social media access. He needs to provide you with location sharing.
If you want to leave the relationship, first get a consultation with an attorney for both alimony and child support and to set up a parenting agreement. Get an STD test. Get yourself into individual counseling to help you heal.
I am sorry OP that you are in this positive, I send you a big hug and my best wishes for you.
Oh damn. I’m sorry. Better to know now though. Sending love ?
You have a FOUR MONTH OLD and no help! Give yourself a break
Too bad it wasn’t iPhone, they had that new update, where when you delete messages, it puts them under a new deleted messages area, instead of just deleting them right away. Most people did not know that…
But yeah, he’s definitely lying. Or dumb.
Stop talking to them about what you’re doing. It’s your inheritance. It sounds like they are maybe upset they didn’t get money and watching you spend it makes them more upset. It’s not your job to make them feel better but you need to place boundaries and start holding back what you are doing.
Focus on your new family for now.
Discuss with your gf how you tell them the good news (congratulations to you both!) and when would be a good time to set some boundaries.
I believe you need boundaries to show them that your situation isn’t sustainable without them. It’s absolutely ridiculous that you’re being ‘blamed’ for the natural end of a relationship, that they’re not willing to find a solution that benefits all, so you may need to lessen your time and expectations with your family.
Offer no ultimatums but settle into a low-key relationship with them while you both prepare for the wonderful, but demanding, tasks of parenthood. Good luck!