He may be a good man but SHE sees him as HER good man and will run any other women off until “he realizes it’s been her all along” and they on-line happily ever after. He is blind to her behavior because men refuse to believe how manipulative and backstabbing women can be to each other and are oblivious to their signals. He’s never seen her manipulation with other gfs so why should you expect him to see it now? They are a package deal. If you want him, you’ll also have her and she will ramp up the BS if she senses you and he are getting closer.
I was in a long term relationship as a teenager too. I also dumped my BF after 6 years. Before that, I contemplated ending it for about a year. He was a great guy, but I realized I just wasn't ready to settle down. I was ready to date very quickly, because I did the emotional work of ending the relationship while I was still in it. That was hot on my BF, who was blindsided, and also not fair, but I couldn't do it any differently at that time.
Maybe it was somewhat similar in your relationship?
Honestly j get a new one this one seems broken
He may be a good man but SHE sees him as HER good man and will run any other women off until “he realizes it’s been her all along” and they on-line happily ever after. He is blind to her behavior because men refuse to believe how manipulative and backstabbing women can be to each other and are oblivious to their signals. He’s never seen her manipulation with other gfs so why should you expect him to see it now? They are a package deal. If you want him, you’ll also have her and she will ramp up the BS if she senses you and he are getting closer.
Good luck!
Please !UpdateMe about how it turns out.
I was in a long term relationship as a teenager too. I also dumped my BF after 6 years. Before that, I contemplated ending it for about a year. He was a great guy, but I realized I just wasn't ready to settle down. I was ready to date very quickly, because I did the emotional work of ending the relationship while I was still in it. That was hot on my BF, who was blindsided, and also not fair, but I couldn't do it any differently at that time.
Maybe it was somewhat similar in your relationship?