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Lain, 99 y.o.
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Date: September 29, 2022
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You have some misconceptions here. The foreplay thing is super significant, and this right here tells me that you don’t understand women’s physiology either.
Some women are more “wet” than others. It’s not necessarily an indicator that she’s turned on or even that she enjoyed the sex. There’s a lot of reasons for this, but that’s not really important right now.
I’m not trying to be a jerk when I say this, but you clearly don’t know enough about sex to fix this on your own. You need to talk to your wife and find out exactly what she likes and how she likes it. If that doesn’t get you anywhere, you need to talk to a sex therapist. I would recommend doing this regardless.
If you’re just here to vent and not actually take any advice, that’s your choice, but it’s not gonna get better by doing nothing.
You saw the red flags from the beginning. You stuck it out for a year hoping love would be enough.
It's not.
You don't love him anymore. He sounds irritating tbh; I don't blame you. Leave him and find someone who can and wants to communicate.
Definitely the horniest
If you feel it say it but it’s always better in person.
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Your dad's an asshole . Does he also use someone else's car with no regard to the owner?
Where in the Bible does it say that the sanctity of marriage includes ignoring your wife and child, neglecting your duties to your family, abusing your wife financially and emotionally? Jesus was about action, about compassion , and if he came across such a useless husband he wouldn’t say stay. He’s an exploiter, not an husband.
You don’t have to stay living in the house with such a man to be a Christian. You don’t earn extra tickets to heaven by suffering to a useless man who has abandoned his family in every conceivable way except leaving, because then he’d have to put effort into his life. That’s why he won’t change he confidently believes you have no options because of your belief system. You’ll stay until you were broken sad and have no hope for yourself. Your child will grow up thinking this is what a marriage looks like it looks like you have no self-respect.
Well that’s true, thanks for the answer
It's extremely common for victims of abuse to roleplay similar situations later on. Some people can't get off any other way. It is thought abuse causes a rewiring of the brain. As long as neither of you do anything you're uncomfortable with, it's probably okay. She must trust you a lot to share this with you.
Please be safe and look after yourself and your own mental health-it’s never easy leaving an abusive relationship
It’s actually a good idea if the kids into it me and my son play video games together all the time and it’s our way of hanging out when he’s at his moms
Fiddle with your girl's favorite spots as she's stroking you just enough to keep you naked. Tell her to slow down if she gets too close. Once she's close, get in and go at it until you both cum.
If that won't work, then you're just gonna have to have to get her to cum first before you pound away. But as long as you both get there, it doesn't really matter how long you last.
If you engage a lot, it'll be more fine-tuned. If you just pop in there sporadically, you're going to get the trending stuff from the wild west.
Meh. Yep, poor judgment and low maturity. But he didn't cheat, and no one was injured. Just a very bad decision that he will surely regret (I'm betting he does already). Sometimes our spouses behave in incredibly thoughtless and idiotic ways. In sickness and in health, and all that.
I think you’ve raised the issue with her and she’s oblivious. As her friend you’ve done your part so either be there for when things crash or take a step back if seeing her get hurt is tough on you.
Wow – if I was your friend I would tread very very carefully.
Dude, we do understand. I’ve done the same: used validation outside my relationship to strengthen it: but I don’t kid myself that my spouse most likely would not thank me for jt; he’d be hurt and pissed off. All my claims that “we’re so happy because of this” would fall on deaf ears, because his experience of happiness was a lie. I don’t know why that’s hot for YOU to understand.
Well at least you'll probably have a roof to sleep under if you cause them to divorce.
But seriously, not your relationship. Keep your nose out of it.
The thing is she immediately regrets she did that, and like a i said she is pretty sweet when she is not angry. I know that you can't justify physical abuse, but i mention that she also had some childhood trauma. So part of me wants to stay with her and heal her wounds, another want to give up because im so stressed about this constant fights.
You've been dating almost a year and have allowed him to believe you haven't been with anyone else before… you kind of deserve to be broken up with…. not because you should be a Virgin, that's ridiculous, but you're a straight up liar
Can someone explain to me what an “unsent message” is? I’ve had an iPhone half my life and have never seen this on my phone or anyone else’s. It’d really help me paint the picture here as to what he did.
I know you can delete messages in conversations, but I’ve never seen an “unsent” message before
If he’s been lying it’s a major red flag. There could be many explanations, maybe your partner is obsessed with her, or maybe he’s just a fantasist who wanted a more colourful past.
But whatever the reason it looks like he’s been lying to you for years. If so what else has he been lying about? Can you trust him in the future?
You should talk to him. There’s a chance that maybe she was lying and your partner was telling the truth.
That’s not true at all unfortunately
This is an absolutely terrible suggestion. Therapists can have friends and can give albeit shitty advice to friends. They are not required to be on for anyone that is not their clientele.
This is a disgusting and dangerous suggestion shrouded in “advice”.
To add, we are only hearing OP’s side of the story and it’s very common for details to be obfuscated and manipulated to support their own narrative.
This is such an immature argument. A breakup over not liking TS concerts, really???
People in this sub are too simplistic.
I've been through a similar situtation over the last years. I (23M) am in my first relationship ever. My girlfriend (25F) has A LOT of experience and has been in a huge amount of bad relationships. I've known that from the begging, but I still have some naked time every time she talks about her exes. But it's my problem and I know I'm the one who has to deal with it. I just try to set some boundaries and be always sincere about it.
But there's an ex-boyfriend specifically that caused me some trouble since the beginning of our relationship. They ended their relationship 2 years before we met but my girlfriend constantly cried over him. It was an abusive relationship. She told me the details and and I was completely supportive, told her that I'm different and that I would do everything to make her happy.
But one year later, despite she has shown some improvement, she still used to talk a lot about him. I even remember one day when she saw the girl with whom he cheated on him at college and got a little messed up. I felt bad about that amd had a conversation with her. I asked her clearly: “Are you sure that you got over your shit?? I was supportive when you told me how bad the mf has been to your life, but I can't stand this. We've been together for a reasonable time and I think that's enough to get over this. If you still think about him, I don't know if I want to be with you anymore”.
It was a naked conversation, she got defensive, didn't accept my arguments and called me immature. But since then we had some other conversations and apparently she is waaay better. The guy lives nearby and everytime we see the mf she doesn't give a fuck anymore. I think that's a clear sign of improvement.
So, be supportive. She is clearly traumatized. Be supportive, but never forget about setting your boundaries. By the way, you are in this relationship too. Your feelings also matter.