Just want to give you some respect for your maturity. I was nowhere near as mature at your age, or 10 years later for that matter.
Thank you for acknowledging her feelings, your feelings, both ‘readiness’, and how impactful abortion* can be. I respect your approach to care for both of your feelings. I recommend you talk to your doc as a trusted source on birth control, often trusting one source is easier than looking at a poll of random people.
*I’m pro choice with awareness of impact.
P.S. I do offer a sarcastic and dirty answer, but respectfully only offer if you ask for it thru DM.
You don’t even listen to your own writing but hey keep staying with this alcoholic who blatantly tries to cheat on you constantly but somehow you think this condom story she is telling you is true. Sometimes I wonder if people brains just don’t work like Jfc she has laid out red flag after red flag but you decide to stay and marry this women who has no problem kicking you out, trying to cheat on you, probably is emotional manipulating you because you don’t even listen to your own dam writing. How many more signs do you need to hit you in The face before you realize
the doctor has heard it 1000x from 1000x clueless men. tell him you can't have sex until after 6 weeks and to shut it.
Nope!
Just want to give you some respect for your maturity. I was nowhere near as mature at your age, or 10 years later for that matter.
Thank you for acknowledging her feelings, your feelings, both ‘readiness’, and how impactful abortion* can be. I respect your approach to care for both of your feelings. I recommend you talk to your doc as a trusted source on birth control, often trusting one source is easier than looking at a poll of random people.
*I’m pro choice with awareness of impact.
P.S. I do offer a sarcastic and dirty answer, but respectfully only offer if you ask for it thru DM.
you should walk away
there is no such thing as pre cheating
that is right up there with the whole how dare you have not been a virgin when we met??
neither makes any sense
Please don’t get married at 19 and 20. Let your frontal lobes finish developing.
You're young and so is she. Don't spend your emotional energy over her. There's a lot of women out there that wouldn't do that to you.
You don’t even listen to your own writing but hey keep staying with this alcoholic who blatantly tries to cheat on you constantly but somehow you think this condom story she is telling you is true. Sometimes I wonder if people brains just don’t work like Jfc she has laid out red flag after red flag but you decide to stay and marry this women who has no problem kicking you out, trying to cheat on you, probably is emotional manipulating you because you don’t even listen to your own dam writing. How many more signs do you need to hit you in The face before you realize