Honestly, its the huge lie that is a red flag. He hid this from you for so long and even if he was scared you’d reject him, he shouldve mentioned it way before you started anything sexual, not just the day of.
This is something that needs to be discussed. Tell her how you have been feeling and communicate with her to divide up the chores. She is an adult. She needs to help with chores. Make a chore chart if you have to. If she doesn't help after communicating it really says how the rest of your life will go … being exhausted and full of resentment.
If you don’t want to do poly/have an open relationship and she’s forcing it then that’s the end of the relationship. Full stop.
Honestly, its the huge lie that is a red flag. He hid this from you for so long and even if he was scared you’d reject him, he shouldve mentioned it way before you started anything sexual, not just the day of.
America would be a guess.
This is something that needs to be discussed. Tell her how you have been feeling and communicate with her to divide up the chores. She is an adult. She needs to help with chores. Make a chore chart if you have to. If she doesn't help after communicating it really says how the rest of your life will go … being exhausted and full of resentment.