It just becomes a huge mess that really affects kids if things go sour. Your example is a perfect scenario of disaster. It's why I tell people if this conversation comes up just be prepared to divorce rather than open the marriage. That way it saves a lot of mental and emotional health.
Maybe they already had plans.
The man's choice is not have sex. He always has that choice. Otherwise, he risks becoming a father.
Don't say men don't have choices. They very well fucking do.
It just becomes a huge mess that really affects kids if things go sour. Your example is a perfect scenario of disaster. It's why I tell people if this conversation comes up just be prepared to divorce rather than open the marriage. That way it saves a lot of mental and emotional health.