The thing I noticed was OP doesn't mention a single thing his girlfriend likes, though. So I feel like neither of them are taking interest in each others hobbies or passions. He goes on about movies he likes or has seen. He talks about his passions. But he makes no reference to things she enjoys. Which might be a clue as to why she's not trying to be interested in the things he likes.
I had a partner once that was super into table top games like DND. I had every intention of letting him teach me how to play. Until I realized that he made no effort to ask me about the things I'm into and show interest in being included in my hobbies. I don't think he cared to know about the things I was interested in.
I laughed at this and then got worried I might be even more racist for laughing aah
The thing I noticed was OP doesn't mention a single thing his girlfriend likes, though. So I feel like neither of them are taking interest in each others hobbies or passions. He goes on about movies he likes or has seen. He talks about his passions. But he makes no reference to things she enjoys. Which might be a clue as to why she's not trying to be interested in the things he likes.
I had a partner once that was super into table top games like DND. I had every intention of letting him teach me how to play. Until I realized that he made no effort to ask me about the things I'm into and show interest in being included in my hobbies. I don't think he cared to know about the things I was interested in.
She wants to be on her own before moving in with me…
I can see she's on by my messenger app, which I use for business purposes.