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Room for on-line sex video chat Lexy_lo
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Date: October 21, 2022
I have videos of you being physically violent with me
I feel like you slid past this pretty quickly. Was the physical violence before or after the baby?
You’re 18, still in high school, and are currently experiencing a life changing event with the only person behind you being someone who doesn’t seem to care how you or others feel and you don’t even really like. Being scared and wanting to run does not mean you’re going to be an awful mother. It means you’re human and experiencing a very real and normal human response to the situation.
I’m 28, and 18w pregnant. It’s the first pregnancy out of 9 that’s ever surpassed the 8w mark. Believe me when I say this baby is very much wanted by both me and my OH. And yet I still had the same feelings as you around week 7. I still considered a termination. I’ve got awful HG that hasn’t gone away and at the time, I physically felt like I was dying.
Pregnancy, childbirth, and becoming a parent is no fucking joke. There’s not been a day so far that I’ve actually enjoyed this, between the vomiting and the pain in my hips and back. Even after this pregnancy, childbirth is a medical procedure where things can go wrong. I’m then tied into this kid’s life for the rest of mine.
Fuck what he thinks and wants. Fuck what his family thinks and wants. This isn’t their decision; it’s yours. What do YOU want? There’s no shame in having an abortion, for any reason. If you chose to have one, I’d recommend having some form of long term contraception fitted at the same time like an IUD – especially if you’re planning on holding off on having kids until you’re a little bit older. There’s also no shame in keeping this baby – but only if you really, truly want to.
Sometimes, being the best parent you can be is admitting that you’re not ready to be one yet and taking steps to resolve that, whether it be adoption or abortion. Having a child can be one of the most rewarding things a person can do in life, but it can also make your life a lot harder than it needs to be especially at your age.
If you decide to keep the baby, you don’t have to stay with him. You can just coparent and that’s fine too. If you decide to go ahead and abort, I recommend telling him that it was a miscarriage, ectopic, no heartbeat, an empty sac, etc. All of these things can happen in the first 12 weeks, and all of them would result in no baby through no fault of your own.
Let him go? I don’t know how much clearer he can be that he is done. I’m sure that if you’d be mad if you were the one that wanted to break up but he didn’t and he constantly pushed you to reconcile. And you acting like you know better than he does what he really wants and he just needs to stop being silly doesn’t help.