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Not sure if you are going for some cutesy story here, but you are coming accross as one of the “he is perfect, except that he doesn't listen to my advice and this leads to massive and potentially expensive issue. giggle!”
Whether I would move on and not reconsider everything depends, did he fully fix the issue himself? In whatever way would be appropriate, from organising, budgeting for and taking off time for a plumber and flood remediation service, to grabing some towels and wrench, fixing it himself and then washing the towels? Why would I be inconvienced by something he wilfully ignored my advice on? Because I absolutely do think that a partner that messes up like that and then puts the fixing of the mess up on the other partner should be chucked out. I am perfectly capable of making and then fixing my own disasters, I refuse to on-line with another adult that puts more responsibility and more work on to me.
And yeah I have been married for a lot longer then 2 years. Communication doesn't go far when the other person can't be bothered to listen, even when it is an outright physical warning to turn a tap off.
I know it’s difficult to imagine but you will heal eventually and also find someone more compatible. I had a somewhat similar experience. I’m a 37 M and my then spouse (34 F now) cheated on me. Then we kinda opened our relationship but she eventually got pregnant.
It was a devastating ordeal for the both of us. However, years later, we still chat and have mature conversations, essentially themed we have no regrets having a relationship and then also ending that relationship.
She’s now a single mom and seems more content than I’ve ever seen her. I dated around (difficult at first) and then found someone I’m compatible with again. We are now engaged and happy.
Due to my family experience , my philosophy is that many relationships are temporary. Who knows if my current one will last the rest of my life or not. That’s actually irrelevant-the important factor is we are supposed to be together at least for now.
Your emotional wounds will heal eventually and you’ll discover an eventful and fulfilling journey/trajectory. In the mean time, perhaps talk your feelings out with a professional. That was the only time in my life where I did and it was far more valuable and effective than I predicted.
Yeah lab created diamonds are ethical and often look better than “real” and even experts can’t always tell the difference. So it’s reasonable to get a wedding band designed to fit in with the engagement ring so she gets the diamonds but ethically.
Cool so you're just gonna bottle and bury it til you subconsciously resent him. Great plan. Beautiful “communication”.
Re-evaluate if you want to be with someone that stomps on your trauma like this.
Probably guy number 101s child. OPs husband is number 100
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He’s visiting family atm so he’s a couple hours away
If they did divorce, the mistress spot would need to be filled
Jeez I struggled so much harder to have my 2nd child at just 30 although I’m sure he just doesn’t want to tell you he’s against it completely. I hope you have family that can help you out because it’s clear you already know what you want to do. Imagine if you lived until you were 90 and looked back at a life wasted on shitty sex with a man that took your chance to have a baby away. Don’t on-line like that.
Also do everyone a favor and keep her behind closed doors. She shouldn't be out dealing with service workers if she can't behave around them.
Wow, that's a terrible experience to endure. As much as it might hurt the most important thing to do is gain clarity. Blindsided means either your partner is a terrible person, or you are the terrible person.
Ask your friends and family how things looked from the outside and ask for honesty.
Something was very wrong in that relationship and you need to figure that out first.
After that, talk to a lawyer, your wife might be the nicest person in the world, but the courts will still eat you alive. If you don't want to leave the relationship embittered get a lawyer.
Then decide how you'll divide assets and get it writing and get it signed by both parties and a witness.
Then move on.
Okay
Love is never enough. And after years of being disregarded, disrespected, and disappointed you’ll realize you don’t love him and that you’ve wasted years.
Touché.
I guess I was just thinking down the line, as we all know, new tech comes up, old tech goes obsolete, and things are sometimes lost.
With this being a rather unique situation it may or may not cause hurdles but I get where you're going.
Ughhhh I’m so scared lol I was thinking about writing my number down but what if he has a gf or wife lmao won’t it be awkward to see him everyday
Thank you a lot. I can absolutely answer your last question with a firm “No, I will not!”
Having it take longer will just prove it to them
This is ridiculous. He lied more than once. He knew he was hurting you and repeated the behavior anyway. He is not trustworthy, and you are right to be hesitant to believe he has changed. I bet he still has those videos.
As someone who grew up with this issue I would give my family one chance. I would explain the situation and calmly tell them they can take your side or that they are dead to you and will immediately vanish from their lives.
Then do just that for a couple of weeks.
You thought you were not getting back so it is in no way cheating.
Now, he may be displeased by you, being the kind of person who has casual sex with newly met people. Except that is not true either, and the thing you have laerned from it is that you need emotionsl connection to feel good about sex.
There is literally no valid reasoning to scrutinise you here.
Why in the hell did you go with him on his motorcycle when he was drunk driving?????
You would divorce him because you're a basic B and don't understand how it feels to be put in that situation, therefore you only care about yourself lol.
Take screenshots and send them to yourself if you want a divorce. Otherwise confront her.
Sit him down and have a conversation.
Look up Financial Counselors in your area. Make an appointment for you and your husband. You need an objective third party to explain the reasons you should both be working, especially with a baby. They can also help you with how much of an emergency fund and savings you should have behind you before adding that new family member.
Your husband is suffering from tunnel vision based on past trauma and how he wants life to be better for his family. He needs someone to show him in detail what is truly best for his family in today’s economy given your finances as a couple.
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It's NOT something you “bring out in him”. It's not your fault.
Please remove yourself from this man. Move out or kick him out. You deserve much better.
Your kids and your rent are obviously more important to you than your partner. You've made your choice. What's your question?