Imo from the context, it’s that he’s happy he has some time off, nothing much to read off of that emoji really, but from the text that followed, he does seem to care about you tho
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It sounds like you both loved your wife and are grieving (both the loss of your wife and, for both of you, the loss of the futures you both thought you had-you because you lost your wife, her because she divorced her husband) and needed each other. Hopefully this experience will help you both moving forward.
You deserve to open up about your past and be listened to and validated. It’s awful that she didn’t do that for you. What can you do? Realize that her true colours came through and it’s over. Get a therapist to help you process all of the trauma in your life. You deserve to be listened to with compassion.
Yikes. I’ve been out with my husband’s face hurt before (he’s a boxer) it’s really not a big deal. We would joke that I was his boxing partner (I’m nearly 75 pounds lighter than him)
'Woman's Day' is an observation not a gift giving “holiday”. But high maintenance people like your girlfriend will use any occasion to try to separate you from your money. The simple (and unfortunate) truth is that you're dating a gold digger and you can't afford it. You're never going to have a “stable life” with this person as long as she cares more about what's in your wallet than having a normal relationship with you.
Yep, my bf was nude when i first met him, but now i see him sitting on the end of the bed like a fucking goblin eating cheese off the block in his boxers and i think, damn, that's the sexiest man I've ever seen.
I've fallen more and more in love with him and his body each day. And every time i see a physical “flaw” it just reminds me of how his body is the vessel carrying his mind, and each bump, scar, dent, they tell the story of who he was and who he will be, they tell me about his wellbeing, his falls and climbs, and i love each and every “flaw” because theyre part of him.
Like the thing where you fix pottery with gold, the flaws make it better.
Does your gf and daughter on-line with you? If not tell your gf she can’t come over with her kid cause the minute those dogs snap and bite her daughter that’s gonna be it.. keep the kid away from the dogs
Next time he asks you to get on the scales you should respond with “You first, let’s see how fat you’ve got”. See how he likes it. This is controlling behaviour and it’s not a sign of a healthy relationship.
With all due respect, people who made up the rating system for looks didn't make it by those stats qualifications. They literally made it, so 5 is average as it's in the middle. This bullshit rating system wasn't developed by scholars. People who use this rating system also don't use it by yours/books definition.
Absolutely. But she has to make that choice. If you want more of the empathetic voice, and a place where there is more than one possible outcome, go post in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity now. You’ll need a user flair – Considering R is right for you.
Set that limit with her now though. She is done at that workplace. It’s not compatible with the marriage. She has a whole lot of people who need cutting off and she has to do it.
Get the book Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass. It outlines how affairs of familiarity happen, especially in the workplace, and what must be done to prevent them in the future and recover from them.
Two things from her right now:
No contact. That’s why the job has to go.
Full disclosure – warn her that she must tell the full truth now because future disclosures will further destroy trust.
You’ll need a lot more later. But you can get that advice in AsOneAfterInfidelity.
I’ve also got more for you to read for when you are ready for it. But it all depends on the choices she makes in the next day.
Well he should because he knew that would hurt you and he did it. He could have slept with anyone else. Honestly he sucks and she sucks. But you took him back, so idk how to help. I just think you need to put yourself first idk how though.
That's a lot of 'I's. “I don't know how I could on-line.” You're saying that her being assaulted would upset YOU. You don't say a word about how it would affect her. You need to come clean to yourself that assaulting her wasn't for her own good, it was for yours.
This has been toxic and abusive since day 1 and it’s stolen nearly all your twenties from you not giving you any time to yourself for your ow pin growth and happiness. Don’t let it steal your thirties too
So you're marrying this woman….to stay in the country??
since you're dating this girl and you trust her so much
you are fine
I look forward to many updates in the future
Challenge him to do it
Does he not own a headset? What does he say when you've asked him to put on headphones?
Sure, but wouldn’t the difference be scale as opposed to the type of reaction?
Imo from the context, it’s that he’s happy he has some time off, nothing much to read off of that emoji really, but from the text that followed, he does seem to care about you tho
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It should.
Have a conversation about safety and expectations during a calm time.
If it happens again. Immediately turn and walk away. Don’t humour bad behaviour.
OP you did nothing wrong
Your wife’s sister did nothing wrong
It sounds like you both loved your wife and are grieving (both the loss of your wife and, for both of you, the loss of the futures you both thought you had-you because you lost your wife, her because she divorced her husband) and needed each other. Hopefully this experience will help you both moving forward.
I’m a little confused here. He follows new people, or specifically only girls? Girls he’s friends with or girls he’s romantically interested in?
If he hasn’t posted anything in years, why do you think he “actively uses social media”?
You deserve to open up about your past and be listened to and validated. It’s awful that she didn’t do that for you. What can you do? Realize that her true colours came through and it’s over. Get a therapist to help you process all of the trauma in your life. You deserve to be listened to with compassion.
How were you 21 nine months ago, my guy stepped in the hyperbolic time chamber. r/quityourbullshit
Just a few says back I had a dream about my husband marrying a second time.
We both laughed about it.
Coz dreams are just that. Your gf is unreasonable if she is mad at you for something she dreamt.
And how often she dreams about you. What are the odds that she dreams and remembers them everytime….
So what are your boundaries here OP?
She either (a) is craving more emotional intimacy than just sex, (b) has caught feelings, or (c) both
You need to decide what you want from this and communicate openly and honestly with her
Yikes. I’ve been out with my husband’s face hurt before (he’s a boxer) it’s really not a big deal. We would joke that I was his boxing partner (I’m nearly 75 pounds lighter than him)
Your girlfriend is shallow.
Or the rapist that got custody of the child then raped the child. Louisiana I think.
'Woman's Day' is an observation not a gift giving “holiday”. But high maintenance people like your girlfriend will use any occasion to try to separate you from your money. The simple (and unfortunate) truth is that you're dating a gold digger and you can't afford it. You're never going to have a “stable life” with this person as long as she cares more about what's in your wallet than having a normal relationship with you.
Yep, my bf was nude when i first met him, but now i see him sitting on the end of the bed like a fucking goblin eating cheese off the block in his boxers and i think, damn, that's the sexiest man I've ever seen.
I've fallen more and more in love with him and his body each day. And every time i see a physical “flaw” it just reminds me of how his body is the vessel carrying his mind, and each bump, scar, dent, they tell the story of who he was and who he will be, they tell me about his wellbeing, his falls and climbs, and i love each and every “flaw” because theyre part of him.
Like the thing where you fix pottery with gold, the flaws make it better.
Does your gf and daughter on-line with you? If not tell your gf she can’t come over with her kid cause the minute those dogs snap and bite her daughter that’s gonna be it.. keep the kid away from the dogs
Next time he asks you to get on the scales you should respond with “You first, let’s see how fat you’ve got”. See how he likes it. This is controlling behaviour and it’s not a sign of a healthy relationship.
LOL If I were him, You’d never hear from me again? I’d be soooooo embarrassed!
No, thank you.
With all due respect, people who made up the rating system for looks didn't make it by those stats qualifications. They literally made it, so 5 is average as it's in the middle. This bullshit rating system wasn't developed by scholars. People who use this rating system also don't use it by yours/books definition.
Absolutely. But she has to make that choice. If you want more of the empathetic voice, and a place where there is more than one possible outcome, go post in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity now. You’ll need a user flair – Considering R is right for you.
Set that limit with her now though. She is done at that workplace. It’s not compatible with the marriage. She has a whole lot of people who need cutting off and she has to do it.
Get the book Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass. It outlines how affairs of familiarity happen, especially in the workplace, and what must be done to prevent them in the future and recover from them.
Two things from her right now:
No contact. That’s why the job has to go.
Full disclosure – warn her that she must tell the full truth now because future disclosures will further destroy trust.
You’ll need a lot more later. But you can get that advice in AsOneAfterInfidelity.
I’ve also got more for you to read for when you are ready for it. But it all depends on the choices she makes in the next day.
That’s not ADHD, that’s just a selfish guy. Dump him.
Well he should because he knew that would hurt you and he did it. He could have slept with anyone else. Honestly he sucks and she sucks. But you took him back, so idk how to help. I just think you need to put yourself first idk how though.
That's a lot of 'I's. “I don't know how I could on-line.” You're saying that her being assaulted would upset YOU. You don't say a word about how it would affect her. You need to come clean to yourself that assaulting her wasn't for her own good, it was for yours.
If you’re almost 30’and he’s only 20 and this is a long distance thing? He’s not mature enough to argue with you. Get an older man.
If you date babies you get baby behavior
This has been toxic and abusive since day 1 and it’s stolen nearly all your twenties from you not giving you any time to yourself for your ow pin growth and happiness. Don’t let it steal your thirties too