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Probably just distancing yourself from him and if possible spending more time with your boyfriend and attempting to relight the flame that may have started to dim recently.
When you have a crush on someone, spending a lot of time around them only really amplifies that crush, so spending some time away from him will really make or break the deal because either you’ll succeed in killing the feelings eventually and things can return to normal or you’ll miss him too much and realise the feelings are stronger than you originally realised, which again takes you back to the original questions about what you want and what the best decision for you is.
As your boyfriend lives hours away spending more time together may be easier said than done, but spending lots more time with Friend is probably going to just make this issue worse because your already confused feelings will just get more tangled. If you feel that telling him you have feelings for him could jeopardise your friendship or relationship with your boyfriend and you think you’d be best keeping either of those, don’t tell him.
What he doesn’t know can’t hurt him, you make a point of being honest about feelings and such and that’s a great mindset to have mostly but if you don’t tell him he probably isn’t going to know, so he’ll be unaffected whilst you work on getting rid of those feelings, whereas if you tell him (but you also say that you don’t want a relationship) that could complicate things more as he might want one, which would then put an awkward strain on your friendship with him and relationship with BF, but also with his friendship with your BF, so I think you should only straight up tell him you have feelings for him if you reach the conclusion that you are CERTAIN that you want to be with him, which right now doesn’t seem to be likely.
These things can take time to figure out, so it’s okay if you don’t act immediately and think about how to act about it. It’s better to plan your course of action carefully to ensure you know what you want than to rush in thinking you know what you want then to later realise that you jumped the gun and made the wrong choice and are unable to fix the damage it caused.
If your attitude is that you’re losing nothing if you guys break up then why are you even with him? You obviously don’t trust him so again, why are you with him? Very predictably everyone is saying you’re doing the right thing here but I disagree. If you don’t trust him and you don’t feel like you’d be losing anything if he left, then just break up with him now so he can o on his awesome trip that he should totally go on without having to feel guilty and worry about you while he’s gone? Let the man live his life and learn to trust your next partner. Or wait to have a partner until you’re able to do so.