You are making assumptions of your family and your gf.
Part of being your own man and having your own self-respect is making decisions for your own well-being.
Your family deserves the opportunity to decide if they like or can be okay accepting your gf. Your gf deserves to be able to decide if complexity there is okay for her, make a good impression on them, and to see if she can make it work so you can have a relationship there.
If you give people an opportunity, they might happily surprise you.
Until you’ve done that, you are making assumptions.
We live in a really weird society that validates behavior like this from women sometimes. If you tell her to stop talking to these guys then you will be labeled as a crazy controlling boyfriend for asking her to do something reasonable.
Because at the end of the day the reason that these guys are hitting on her is because she's creating an environment where they can get on her by staying engaged with them.
We've all done stupid cringy shit before. So, he was a horny dude. Nothing new there lol
You are making assumptions of your family and your gf.
Part of being your own man and having your own self-respect is making decisions for your own well-being.
Your family deserves the opportunity to decide if they like or can be okay accepting your gf. Your gf deserves to be able to decide if complexity there is okay for her, make a good impression on them, and to see if she can make it work so you can have a relationship there.
If you give people an opportunity, they might happily surprise you.
Until you’ve done that, you are making assumptions.
I would just end this relationship.
We live in a really weird society that validates behavior like this from women sometimes. If you tell her to stop talking to these guys then you will be labeled as a crazy controlling boyfriend for asking her to do something reasonable.
Because at the end of the day the reason that these guys are hitting on her is because she's creating an environment where they can get on her by staying engaged with them.
I wish people spoke like you on Reddit. Thanks for your advice