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KISS MY ASSHOLE OPEN CLOSE UP //@EACH GOAL//HALLOWEEN MONTH, how do you want me to dress up? [GOAL MET]
Date: October 8, 2022
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I don’t see what’s so nude here.
She’s a drug addict All the things you posted that she did / does She’s a drug addict Same as #2
You get the picture.
Time to move on. As a former recreational drug user I had a gf of over two years tell me after I got clean that she didn’t want to be with me anymore because I decided to be clean. That stung pretty bad. I never said she had to stop. I just wasn’t going to.
Anyway, move on and find someone with less issues to deal with. You’ll be better off for it.
No, I understand what you’re saying I’ve been in recovery for over 20 years. And when you’ve dealt with some of that slightly dysfunctional for a while, you develop coping mechanisms that are like ticks.
Rage bait
Everyone wants nonstop sex until they actually get it and realize that it is physically emotionally and mentally demanding in a way they were not prepared for. It’s not that different from someone claiming there so kinky, wanting to be spanked her choked but panic and get mad when it actually happens.
The best advice I’ve ever been given when it comes to high sex drive that no one person can keep up with , get a second person. And I’m not talking about cheating I’m talking about an open and or polyamorous relationship no lying no sneaking around!
Definitely a red flag, if you like him you can try having a conversation and making it clear what you find reasonable with texting and that you are not going to be replying constantly. If he doesn’t get it, or freaks out then you definitely have your answer. In my experience with guys like this it never went well and ended up blocking them in the end because they were so fucking needy and didn’t understand what I needed at all
Idk I was hoping someone would say something about this is how guys for xyz reasons sigh. I can’t understand him.
If she’ll be part of your family eventually, you’ll likely want to be able be comfortable around her rather than stressed and secretly not wanting her there.
This might get worse before it gets better. Meaning she may be angry at first, but then hopefully she’ll realize how inappropriate she really is and want someone to help advise her.
I think if I were you, I would take her to lunch and bring this up again. Sarah has already admitted to you that she knows she does this and is “working on it” but it seems like she’s really not putting in any effort. So perhaps you can spin it in a way where you can offer to help her when you’re in situations together. Maybe you can come up with a code word and if he interrupts or makes an inappropriate comment, you can tell her the code word so she can assess what just happened to try to learn from her mistake.
Worst case scenario, you might just have to try a few times of treating her the way she treats others. Maybe she won’t like it and will realize finally how inappropriate she can be.
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Dude..
He could ALSO be feeling very insecure about not pleasing you, or making you finish.
You’re looking at this very lopsided.
I’m not sure how much you have healthily communicated with this guy. But that will ALWAYS be the best advice.
Can you take some time to think this through and process it?
Can you meet up with one of the other friends to ask them for their opinion about what was going on and why?
I would hesitate to get rid of friends. Are there any of those friends who might want to get together with you sometimes without the rest of the group? Either as couples or girls night just two of you?
Hanging out with the ex sounds horrible though.
Don’t know why your giving a cheater a second chance to break your heart but we all get blinded by love at some point. Plus do not move in with someone if you not able to put by yourself especially with a BF your going to trap yourself and will have no way out
It seems a little odd that an AP would be dumb enough to leave his underwear there though. Just saying.
She can’t admit it because you’ll tell your son and break his spirit.
I understand that monogamy is something that is highly impractical
What?? That’s a pretty big leap.
Your gf wants to fuck someone else. And not just because she wants an open relationship. She just wants to fuck this one guy. Well, at least for now.
And wow – they have such amazing chemistry! Doesn’t that make you feel secure that she’s being super truthful and doesn’t that make you feel great??? /s
So ask yourself, can you be in a relationship with her while she goes and fucks him and builds a relationship with him?
Your old relationship is effectively dead. It died the moment she approached you. You know this isn’t some philosophical ethical non-monogamy she is approaching with. She is trying to convince herself she’s been faithful by manipulating you like this. It’s not ok or fair to do that to a partner.
Let her go fuck this fuckboy. But let her know she will be single when she does it. Don’t wait around to see if
Everyone knows single people in there late 30s going to 40 are just off. Your friend shouldn’t have highlighted something so obvious and you responded like the off person.
This wasn't betrayal. A child's relationship to their parents is separate from their marriage.
It's deeply unfair, and borderline abusive, to ask someone to choose between their parents, at any age, barring extreme cases.
Yes he was open about it and a while back i tried dating others as well. I will think about what you are saying because it's a good point
You took her iPad. Then went through it.
You wanted to find a problem. You found it.
Lmao
“Loaning” money to friends or family is a gift. Something you don’t expect to see again.
You’re not compatible. Just end it. He doesn’t want any type of commitment other than having a fuckbuddy.
Um, it wasn’t your birthday. I know you’re young but the night before is really irrelevant. Also, creepy age gap.
Many won't terminate rights just restrict them, a lot require a conviction to do anything.
Holy hell, are you saying that a rapist might get visitation rights or even shared custody? That's crazy!
Y'all seriously in your late 20's? Damn. Sound like HS drama. lol
I’ve used the “Brazil” line before as well…
She shouldn’t be upset about loosing those people. They AREN’T friends. I know it sucks and hurts now, but all the “friends” I lost along the way have only been for the better. I lost a small group of friends and was devastated, but it turned out to be the biggest blessing. I didn’t realize how unhappy I was before with them and how they tore me down. How I was oh staying friends, because I had known them for so long. I’ve met a new group of people and I’ve never been happier. The people I’m with now lift me up and make me better.
If he has depression, he may not even understand it but I will tell you what a friend of mine said and it’s always been true. Sex is 10% of the relationship but when it goes bad it’s 90% of the reason why. He may not understand that himself.
You're probably going to get a range of responses because it's not clear what's going on for him. One possibility could be that, because of your past trauma, you pushed him away a lot and at some level he feels rejected by that. He might have checked out already, but it's worth having a very open conversation around that before you give up on the relationship so he really knows how you feel and that you do want to be with him.
Not, it is infantile.
Okay then where tf do I post this because aita told me to go here????
Report it to your lawyer and file a police report in case you need it in court stay safe
Men literally get upset with women for not wanting sex all the time…. Hell, a guy buys a drink for a woman he just met and gets pissed if she doesn’t want to put out. And they get plenty of empathy and excuses made for them – this has kind of been an accepted widespread male behavior for a long time. This isn’t an “if the genders were reversed” situation.
You sound super worn out to be honest. Don’t overthink it – try remember, if he didn’t care about you, he wouldn’t buy those things for you. If it’s really stressing you out, you could talk to him and ask why he bought you the soap and shampoo. I think the candle is probably more of just a nice gift – maybe he’s seen you’re stressed and someone suggested “nice smelly things and candles” as a gift to help you relax and that’s how he interpreted it.
I realized it was borderline abusive when I knew I couldn’t tell my family about it, one Christmas Day this year we had a bottle of wine and we’re having a truly nice time talking and shooting the sht about stuff we haven’t ever talked about before, I was truly happy. Then he had one glass too many, we were talking about his dog that had died ( prior to us ever meeting- this was 3 years ago) He said- ya know what you’re lucky you don’t know how it feels but soon you’ll know since Bella is 13. So you can feel how I felt
I was devastated… I started crying, walked outside When I came back in his tried chocking me out. I kept trying to get away from him but he had me on the ground at that point. Finally he stopped and I ran into the bedroom and locked the door. He came in around 6 am and apologized said he didn’t remember what happened but he knew it was bad. Said it would never happen again and to this point. It hasn’t. I have never spoken about it since then. And I have never looked at him the same since. I think that was the day that I fell out of love with him. I’m a chief of police daughter… I know better, I’m not one of those girls I told myself. Yet here I am, pathetic. Still, I pray that he changes, that soon he will see my worth. I don’t know how I’ve gotten so broken and started excepting so little. I moved to be with him, I’m 6 hours away from anyone I even know. Got a job here, live with him. The whole 9 yards