You've caught him multiple times, so you'll likely never overcome the fear, because you don't trust him.
It sounds like you went through his phone before to read his messages. If that's the case you should have ended the relationship on the spot. If you ever need to go through his phone, or if he ever needs to go through yours, the relationship is already over, because the trust has already been destroyed. It doesn't matter what you find, or find nothing at all. You have no trust, and you can never really have a happy and fulfilling relationship without it. Trust is next to impossible to restore once it has been destroyed.
You've caught him multiple times, so you'll likely never overcome the fear, because you don't trust him.
It sounds like you went through his phone before to read his messages. If that's the case you should have ended the relationship on the spot. If you ever need to go through his phone, or if he ever needs to go through yours, the relationship is already over, because the trust has already been destroyed. It doesn't matter what you find, or find nothing at all. You have no trust, and you can never really have a happy and fulfilling relationship without it. Trust is next to impossible to restore once it has been destroyed.
Found 70 deleted messages this way. Husband of 7 years and 2 kids. I feel apple probably revealed thousands of affairs with this update
Thank you for taking out your time for this ?