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Just remind yourself that, if he will treat an animal this way, he will also treat you this way eventually, and you’re right – he will treat children that way, too.
If she's ignoring you then it's time to take the legal route. Send her a letter and pre-warn her. She can't keep what's not hers so do something about it.
Is there really any use of trying at this point?
We skipped the wedding and put in our savings into a down payment for a house. Zero regrets.
Find a man who wants kids before it's to late
I'm not gonna win against a feminist on here lol.
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Your bf is taking the piss, and so is your dad for making a jackass comment like that. I ask my husband when he’ll be home all the time, and we have our own cars. It’s simple; I’m not setting a curfew, I’m planning my own day. I want to prep dinner before he gets home so we’re not waiting till 8-9pm to eat. I want to know when I can hand over my baby so I can do some of the extra hands-on chores that are difficult when I’m home alone with her. I want to know when I should be worried if he doesn’t show up because it’s snowy outside and accidents are super frequent. I want to know because I freaking love him and want to know when I’ll see him again. It’s not an interrogation, it’s part of being in a partnership. We lived together for 6 years before we got married and nothing has changed. If he’s going to use your car, that’s appalling behavior. You might need your car. You have stuff going on too. You have a boyfriend problem, and frankly, your dad needs to butt the hell out too.
Things have gotten better since the situation she respects me more and have been honest with everything
Well I asked for advice and you gave it, so i thank you for taking the time.
Waiting on the results from his covid test. He can even take one at the last minute, so you didn't lie.
An expensive collection of turtlenecks and polos?
This has to be a shitpost, right?
That's called “love bombing,” google it.
He's already abusing you. It's only a matter of time before he starts breaking your things. Then he starts hitting you. Then he starts choking you. Then he kills you.
Aaaallllll the while, he'll be sweet and loving every single minute of ever single day — until he isn't. It's classic abusive behavior.
When will you make it stop?
This is not your fault.
You deserve better.
RUN
My dad's an alcoholic, 15yrs+ sober, I was close to him when he got sober and went to a few of his AA meetings. It's really impacted how I consume intoxicants, even years later. My main thing is – what's my motivation for consuming? A single beer because you enjoy the flavor and bubbles is vastly different from a single beer (or a “single” beer that's actually 3) you drink to get drunk. I try to take stock of the situation before I grab a bottle opener or a doob or whatever.
Sometimes I “check in” before having a drink and realize, yeah, I had a rough day and I want a tasty beverage that will make it easier to laugh about. I'll acknowledge that, make a mental note, have the beverage, and if I find myself in that situation again in the same week or so, I'll find something other than alcohol that will make me feel better. I also won't have more than one drink under negative circumstances. Sometimes I'll take a bath or watch a comforting TV show instead. Those are just my ways of setting boundaries. Intention and the ability to tell yourself “no” make for healthier relationships with anything potentially addictive – shopping, food, video games, whatever. Honestly, to me, your habit doesn't sound concerning on its own, but setting your own boundaries & intentions might help you feel in control of things, and your partner might feel more at ease (so you can keep having your occasional after-work brewskis). Just my experiential two cents!
My dad's an alcoholic, 15yrs+ sober, I was close to him when he got sober and went to a few of his AA meetings. It's really impacted how I consume intoxicants, even years later. My main thing is – what's my motivation for consuming? A single beer because you enjoy the flavor and bubbles is vastly different from a single beer (or a “single” beer that's actually 3) you drink to get drunk. I try to take stock of the situation before I grab a bottle opener or a doob or whatever.
Sometimes I “check in” before having a drink and realize, yeah, I had a rough day and I want a tasty beverage that will make it easier to laugh about. I'll acknowledge that, make a mental note, have the beverage, and if I find myself in that situation again in the same week or so, I'll find something other than alcohol that will make me feel better. I also won't have more than one drink under negative circumstances. Sometimes I'll take a bath or watch a comforting TV show instead. Those are just my ways of setting boundaries. Intention and the ability to tell yourself “no” make for healthier relationships with anything potentially addictive – shopping, food, video games, whatever. Honestly, to me, your habit doesn't sound concerning on its own, but setting your own boundaries & intentions might help you feel in control of things, and your partner might feel more at ease (so you can keep having your occasional after-work brewskis). Just my experiential two cents!
My dad's an alcoholic, 15yrs+ sober, I was close to him when he got sober and went to a few of his AA meetings. It's really impacted how I consume intoxicants, even years later. My main thing is – what's my motivation for consuming? A single beer because you enjoy the flavor and bubbles is vastly different from a single beer (or a “single” beer that's actually 3) you drink to get drunk. I try to take stock of the situation before I grab a bottle opener or a doob or whatever.
Sometimes I “check in” before having a drink and realize, yeah, I had a rough day and I want a tasty beverage that will make it easier to laugh about. I'll acknowledge that, make a mental note, have the beverage, and if I find myself in that situation again in the same week or so, I'll find something other than alcohol that will make me feel better. I also won't have more than one drink under negative circumstances. Sometimes I'll take a bath or watch a comforting TV show instead. Those are just my ways of setting boundaries. Intention and the ability to tell yourself “no” make for healthier relationships with anything potentially addictive – shopping, food, video games, whatever. Honestly, to me, your habit doesn't sound concerning on its own, but setting your own boundaries & intentions might help you feel in control of things, and your partner might feel more at ease (so you can keep having your occasional after-work brewskis). Just my experiential two cents!
it’s your wife’s job?
With a different girl or same one?
Next time it will be a murder or murder/suicide. Block all strange numbers and don’t speak to his family/friends or any relatives about getting back together. I don’t know if it was a super serious attempt where he almost died or a ‘cry for help’ where it’s unlikely he’d die but either way I’d put my own safety and mental health first. Go back to school and don’t come home for a break for a while. Good luck
No abortions are available after 12 weeks at all. If you want one, you have to fly to another country.
That's three words.
Brother, if she threatens you that she will commit suicide if you break up, it is first and foremost a way to manipulate you. She'll break you this way using her issues as something you might find pity or sympathy in. Take care of yourself and bail out of that terrible relationship. It is highly unlikely she'll follow through especially knowing that she cheated on you. She'll definitely have a “back-up” guy shortly after you've broken up.
Source: my ex was kinda like this
You don’t have to apologise at all and I know it’s difficult to see a different perspective and I don’t think he has bad intentions as I will assume that he is always telling you how much he loves you and that he has always been there for you which is true but he is also saying that without him you would breakdown and be unstable to get a job and on-line independently. Of course he will say that you don’t have to do anything and he will do it for you but what about what you want? Surely you didn’t picture this as the rest of your life? Hiding away being told constantly that you are to weak or ‘fragile’ to cope with the activities of daily living- you are unhappy
Everyone has their own preferences in relationships. It doesn't make you a bad person if you truly cared about his health and wanted him to be healthy. But you don't say that, you say it like your feelings are all that matters.
You knew him at his biggest, the only thing that changed was his size, not his personality. So if you didn't fall in love with what's inside, do him a favour and leave. Let him find someone who truly appreciates him for who he is. Not who you want him to be.
Why did you date him instead of a guy who would treat you right?
You brought this on yourself.
No one just moves on after deciding to take someone back after cheating. Trust doesn’t appear overnight, it has to be built again and saying that, he might never get over it. You’ve done the worst thing you can do to a partner; so it’s not just a case of ‘getting over it’.
OP, you wanted a cuddle buddy and bought a puppy. You trained that puppy to sleep in YOUR bed because you wanted cuddles. Your boyfriend made it very clear that the dog IN THE BED is the issue.
You don't have to re-home the dog, you need to stop letting it on the bed. Period.
You have put yourself in a position where you are choosing between a cuddle buddy or a romantic relationship with a person unless you make changes.
Train the dog to sleep in a dog bed. Invite your boyfriend back to his bed. Look on-line for cuddle pillows, some of them are even heated to help your brain think it's a person. Ask your boyfriend how you can make it up to him.
My friend, log off for a while. The internet is too dangerous for you.
This is middle school shit. If you want to talk to him then talk to him. Although imo too much texting before the date is no good. Leave som for the date!
And if u wanna test if he’s a player and just wants to get in your pants don’t fuck him no matter how bad u want to.
30, put together and wanting you to engage in a fist fight. Hmm one of these is a lie lol.
I’ve heard and seen first hand many college age girls using their sexuality to make money to on-line on. Stripping and being a sugar baby aren’t unheard of and nobody’s jaded for life if they get out of it. Honesty is best and will take a weight off your mind. If he’s accepting of your admission he’s a keeper, if not it was never meant to be.
12 years is a big age gap… not major big deal but think about that. When he was your age… you were 13. Maybe it’s Time for a background check. And maybe do 2-3.
so you’re saying nothing can fix this?
Alright so then what’s the plan here? What’s the solution?
Make one and message me when shes legal. Raise her to be good for me.
I know what you're saying is true. But i don't want to be alone. We have plans together. Beautiful plans. I don't wanna throw away what i have with him because of 4 days in Vienna, u know…
How can you walk away if you still on-line together?
I’d ask him to be respectful and not take any dates home as you still share a home.
Ah, the classic “look what you made me do” line…
I never plan to get pregnant again and still take prenatal vitamins. I’ve been taking them over seven years now, since before we started trying for our now 5yo. They do amazing things for my hair and nails!
Damn you are an idiot.
She is finally showing her true self. In the beginning she was willing to do all of the things that you wanted to do because it was all new and exciting. There may have been occasions in which she took part against her personal wishes. No amount of conversation will help this situation. IMO it's take it or leave it. Sexual incompatibility can only get worse when each person is behaving in a matter consistent with their own desire. You should seriously consider moving on. Do whatever you think will lead you to the happiness that you deserve. Best wishes.
Borderline Personality disorder. He has no sense of self. A trait found all too often these days. If you cannot trust who he is due to inconsistencies in whi “he” is on a day to day basis, you can't have a relationship.
The metaphor of him being a pliable amorphous substance is apt and should be a sign. People should be open to new concepts and curious, but he sounds like he is just a follower with no defined sense of self.
He's the kind of person who finds themselves in a cult during a midlife crisis when they suddenly need meaning.
Okay so if he reports it stolen what will happen
He’s been married 4 times for a reason.
Lets think of the best scenario that she tells you the truth. Cheating can be emotional, just because they don't have does not make her faithful.
Part of relationship is not only being faithful, but acting like a faithful person. Sharing bed with her friend is not acceptable whether he is gay or not. In fact them having intimate connection in general is unacceptable.
You can try to convey this to your gf. Personally I would just break up with her in your position, but that is just me.
Is staying insane? Probably, but there are things you can try to establush to make staying acceptable. She needs to stay in seperate rooms from her “friend” is a first. Secondly, I do not know details of your relationship, but she should share intimate emitional conbection with you her partner not him. If she isn'0t willing to be “emotionally faithful” then there is hope, and you need to break up. What I mean by that term is that her “friendship” shouldn't interfere with your relationship. She should spend more of her time, and events with, her partner, not some “friend”.
In general you shouldn't have to compete with him for her affection.
Btw, if she does hold romantic feelings towards him, she needs to cut him off completely. It doesn't matter thst they don't have sex.
RUN
Honestly there’s a lot to the story I’m missing out, I wasn’t checking for infidelity I was trying to check out if he was lying about something else. Neither option is great but I never thought he actually cheated on me and he’s never given me a reason to think he has.
I’d be reconsidering my relationship OP. God forbid, you fall on hot times, what will she do? How would she take it? I’m getting the feeling she’ll leave the moment the burden of providing fall on her shoulders, even if it’s partially on her.