Yes. Otherwise your relationship is a dishonest one. Would you want to know? If you care about her tell her. She’ll eventually find out. Something will slip. All it takes is one fight between the roommate and his GF and your GF will become collateral damage.
It’s okay to make space and take time to lick your wounds. You don’t have to shut down your emotions to support her. You take the time you need and when you want you can look to heal the friendship with new boundaries. You shouldn’t be her only support you need support to.
The lying would be it for me. I wouldn't be able to look past that.
Yes. Otherwise your relationship is a dishonest one. Would you want to know? If you care about her tell her. She’ll eventually find out. Something will slip. All it takes is one fight between the roommate and his GF and your GF will become collateral damage.
It’s okay to make space and take time to lick your wounds. You don’t have to shut down your emotions to support her. You take the time you need and when you want you can look to heal the friendship with new boundaries. You shouldn’t be her only support you need support to.
If he’s always been like this why did you tie yourself to him with a baby?
You know the saying: you’ve made your bed now you must lie on it.