Meet in the New Year. It's enough time for her to try to rationalise SOMETHING and you'll have a better ideas, whilst still putting a short time frame on it.
He's always told me that I overreact over everything and maybe this is one of it too.
Nope, this is not an overreaction on your part, and he is 100% gaslighting you. And gaslighting is part of the abuser's toolkit, and is usually a precursor for the even worse things to come (like uh, burning down your family's home or killing you).
Social work won't help me. I get 130 Euro a month for carers and those don't even cover four hours a month. Unfortunately, if my father doesn't do it, no one will (unless I suddenly become a millionaire and can pay out of my own pocket, then it's no issue). Mental health issues get usually no “level of care” at all, the fact that I get level 1 money is already rare. For more care (several hours a week), I would need more physical disabilities. The higher levels go to people who can't clean or cook on their own.
I’ve seen porn that starts like this
If she gets stuck in a washing machine it’s over
Meet in the New Year. It's enough time for her to try to rationalise SOMETHING and you'll have a better ideas, whilst still putting a short time frame on it.
He's always told me that I overreact over everything and maybe this is one of it too.
Nope, this is not an overreaction on your part, and he is 100% gaslighting you. And gaslighting is part of the abuser's toolkit, and is usually a precursor for the even worse things to come (like uh, burning down your family's home or killing you).
Social work won't help me. I get 130 Euro a month for carers and those don't even cover four hours a month. Unfortunately, if my father doesn't do it, no one will (unless I suddenly become a millionaire and can pay out of my own pocket, then it's no issue). Mental health issues get usually no “level of care” at all, the fact that I get level 1 money is already rare. For more care (several hours a week), I would need more physical disabilities. The higher levels go to people who can't clean or cook on their own.
Its time to call it quits