AGAIN – it's not his job. You said yourself how immature this is. And you go on to say 'white lies are harmless'. So you just need some mindless noise from your bf to feel better about yourself? That's like a diet of potato chips.
This is very much a You problem and although you admit to that, you still put it on your bf to supply the fix until you figure out how to be comfortable in your own skin.
There are always going to be attractive people in the world. People that your bf (and you!) will notice. No one is suddenly struck blind because they are in a relationship.
I think you are young and have a long way to go, and maybe this is not the relationship for you. Your bf is older and it doesn't seem like a good match for you.
THIS. She's simply finding an excuse to mistreat you OP. The excuse is absurd and ridiculous, but that is part of why it's so abusive: she is making something you have no control over “your fault” and punishes you for it. It as well may be “a woman looked at you on the street”. Seriously, this is abusive.
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AGAIN – it's not his job. You said yourself how immature this is. And you go on to say 'white lies are harmless'. So you just need some mindless noise from your bf to feel better about yourself? That's like a diet of potato chips.
This is very much a You problem and although you admit to that, you still put it on your bf to supply the fix until you figure out how to be comfortable in your own skin.
There are always going to be attractive people in the world. People that your bf (and you!) will notice. No one is suddenly struck blind because they are in a relationship.
I think you are young and have a long way to go, and maybe this is not the relationship for you. Your bf is older and it doesn't seem like a good match for you.
THIS. She's simply finding an excuse to mistreat you OP. The excuse is absurd and ridiculous, but that is part of why it's so abusive: she is making something you have no control over “your fault” and punishes you for it. It as well may be “a woman looked at you on the street”. Seriously, this is abusive.
Yes.