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Dance for your song [Multi Goal]
Date: December 24, 2022
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Same with clothes, they aren’t custom made you aren’t the only one that wears that brand ?
I can understand your boyfriend, i also share only need to know basis, outside of that, i don’t see any point or relevance in talking about anything…if someone doesn’t like it, they are free to leave…
He pushed you to have a child that you adamantly told him you didn’t want. You, against your better judgment, put your wants and needs aside to give him his dream of fatherhood and he agreed to not hold you responsible, but it sounds like he really thought that he could guilt you into changing your mind.
Your ex clearly got in over his head and didn’t think about his difficult it is to be a single parent. You shouldn’t feel bad for not wanting to be involved. Make sure to save any texts, emails or voicemails where you discuss this because legally, in most places, you can’t just “walk away.” Legally, he can most likely take you to court to force you to pay child support. It’s better to be over prepared than underprepared.
Context is good, so adding it helps. Context is also very very relevant. “Nice shoes” to a friend at a party carries an entirely different message than “Nice shoes” when your friend or partner is standing resplendent in front of you in their wedding attire 🙂
Umm. First, you need to stand up for yourself and tell his brother to stop touching you without asking. And you also absolutely need to tell your boyfriend and talk to him.
It wasn’t implied. It was outright stated. ‘I’m upset that my boyfriend didn’t pay for the bill that is fixing my car…but I don’t expect him to pay my bills.’. Those two things are mutually exclusive and cannot online in the same space.
And none of that addresses MY dealings with MY significant other…which is what YOU commented on.
Sit this one out.
You’re right, it probably won’t end well and isn’t worth the trouble. I guess I’m just tired of being so reserved and wanted some advice on whether this is one of my “reserved” moments. Thanks
Have you tried asking her how she feels about your marriage ? Asking her if she’s content with the way things are ? Have you expressed to her your need for an intimate relationship ?
Yes to all of these question. She said that we are fine and that we should focus on our child right now. The excuse about intimacy is that she doesn't want another child right now and she doesn't want to risk in case the contraceptive failed.
If you proceed with divorce, the best gift you can give your son is a respectful coparenting relationship.
I can't do that. In my country there is a huge bias in divorce, to the point where even if the father is a saint and mother is mildly abusive, the judge will give main custody to the mother. I prefer to be unhappy but have an happy family where I can see my son grow up than divorce and risk seeing him maybe once every other week or not at all.
What do you suggest?
People do have sex on their periods so not physically impossible.
Honestly, it isn't even if he did drugs or not that would bother me, it's the complete lack of respect towards you. I wouldn't want to be with someone who did something like that to me personally.
This is classic, textbook, “I want to fuck other people but you can’t do the same” energy. As others have said, both your husband and his colleague are selfish cake eaters who didn’t think one nanosecond beyond their desires to fuck each other without consequences. Now, they’re trying to make their jealousy and the consequences of their actions your fault. Stand firm, OP. You did nothing wrong.
Better now than in 10 years.
I'm extremely passive aggressive with a hefty dose of sarcasm, so I'd tell her that I'd seen a photo of her dress, and that I am SUPER proud of her for deciding to wear it despite the fact that other people will be SO embarrassed for her, what with the social expectation of guests not wearing white to a wedding. I mean, it's not like anyone would think she was a bride or anything (laugh hysterically here) but honestly, it's just so BRAVE.
Then I'd very hot stare at her for just a touch too long, and walk away.
Tell your sister you cannot be in the bridal party. Don't cut the trip short.
I had a very similar experience recently and also found it very offensive, although upon reflection some of that was my own insecurities. Hearing this kind of opinion made me doubt the person had been honest in their previous compliments and made me feel judged; it also felt unfair and inaccurate because even though I could lose 15-30 pounds, I’m not unhealthy and I walk all the time. I think it’s especially very hot to hear from a new partner because it does not feel possible for it to come from a place of love and care, since you don’t have that trust and commitment, but only from a place of judgment and trying to change you. I think one incident can be forgiven as a poorly approached way of discussing health/activity preference; if it becomes a pattern, I think it reflects the start of an unhealthy relationship
Yes. Someone who takes marriage seriously. Unfortunately, women today don't which is why marriage is off the table for me. I'm happy just having a girlfriend.
I do wish I could spend more time with him and see him more (despite being able to see each other 1-2x/week) … this does help me simplify the matter in my head. Thanks for the perspective.
It sounds like maybe she is mad for some perceived slight by you. Maybe it looked like you were talking to another girl or something along those lines
Sorry, I don't have the energy to read through everything, but, please, this is not a situation you are comfortable with. I believe you genuinely love her, but it is time to move on from the situationship with her and become truly happy.
Wheres the original post?