Well, you married him. What has changed in the relationship? Why is there no intimacy? Also, you don't have to “just let it out.” You don't “just let out” every emotion you have to people at work, right? No. So, you can watch what you say and how you say it if you want to.
My point is people take vows and say those words. But, they'll break their most sacred vows if “they're not happy.” So, don't take the vows unless you mean it. This goes for everyone, not just you. This is also why I'd never get married again. There's no value in it – at least for men. Our society no longer frowns on premarital sex or cohabitating unmarried partners. So, why get married at all? It's just a way to feel stuck, let one or both parties get complacent, and then the breakup (divorce) is an ugly legal issue.
When you just stay BF/GF then both partners know that the other can leave quickly, easily, and cheaply any time they want. I think this keeps people working on the relationship harder.
She's lying and probably cheated. Find out who's house it is and then tell her you know what happened.
Well, you married him. What has changed in the relationship? Why is there no intimacy? Also, you don't have to “just let it out.” You don't “just let out” every emotion you have to people at work, right? No. So, you can watch what you say and how you say it if you want to.
My point is people take vows and say those words. But, they'll break their most sacred vows if “they're not happy.” So, don't take the vows unless you mean it. This goes for everyone, not just you. This is also why I'd never get married again. There's no value in it – at least for men. Our society no longer frowns on premarital sex or cohabitating unmarried partners. So, why get married at all? It's just a way to feel stuck, let one or both parties get complacent, and then the breakup (divorce) is an ugly legal issue.
When you just stay BF/GF then both partners know that the other can leave quickly, easily, and cheaply any time they want. I think this keeps people working on the relationship harder.
I feel terrible for whoever you're dating. Your views are out dated and sad.