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I am sorry he is a best friend. It hurts to find out you are attracted to and best friends with an asshole.
It’s not stupid at all. It’s how you feel. I wouldn’t be happy sharing a bed with a child that’s not mine,in fact, I don’t particularly like sharing a bed with my children either. You need to be clear with your girlfriend that it makes you uncomfortable having a child in bed with you and it’s nothing against him you just don’t think it’s the right thing to do. I don’t think there is anything wrong with that.
Literally this^
You take the cake for advice here today.
Exactly, nothing about what she is doing sounds faithful. I honestly wouldn’t trust her.
Gosh this is honestly what I worry about too, that I’ll spend lots of time and effort and we’ll just break up and it’s wasted anyway.
If you’re not happy then why stay? Aren’t relationships suppose to be happy and fun? Aren’t you suppose to think of your partner as nice and supportive? Do you know what to do when you have a partner that treats you poorly? You leave. It sounds like your thinking is “well he’s not violently raping me like before so it’s not that bad, I should just stay” honey that is no way to online. Leave this loser. Being alone is better than being less abused than before.
“There is a timelimit” nope this was alwqys the plan you are just amusement until then unfortunatly.
That he just states it this just shows how awfull he is
Unfortunately this is just going to go into Murphy's Law territory.
Nah, this isn’t on you. He’s enmeshed and unwilling to stand up for you. That’s not cool.
Have to say that even just admitting she would like an open relationship i would be gone . This is a huge red flag.
stop playing the fool
OP your husband is spoiled and a complete brat. What a child
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You should go for premarital couples counseling, because you need to be able to talk freely with her without worrying about her self esteem.
I think 2 days is reasonable. It’s not a big ask. If he’s living with his mother idk why he would be dropping the kids off to your house – wouldn’t he need to be there too in order to watch them. In which case it’s like living together anyway??
Moving in and taking majority care of the household and the kids is waaaaay too much. Even if they were all both of your kids. It’s an unfair division.
Inappropriate dealings with children is never ok – especially so when they have extra needs.
Nothing about the situation sounds like it ever worked and it does sound like he is unreasonable.
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She seems to default to cheating in times of boredom or stress. I guarantee you, that hasn't changed in the past three months. So if you take her back, I hope you're ready for more of the same.
My ex did the same thing and we were living together. Had to break a lease and everything. When her new man turned out to be the asshole I told her he was she tried to come back and I told her to die in a fire. You’re lucky he even speaks to you honestly. Honorable man, you messed up.
She had sex with her boyfriend multiple times!!!!!
How dare she. Isn’t that what couples do.
You are far too immature to be having sex.
You say you are 23 but you sound like someone who is 13.
This is scary AF. You need to leave, but you need to be smart. This is a situation where ghosting is an excellent option. As well as informing close friends and family that your situation could turn violent and people shouldn't talk to him about you.
Except, he is believing a “test” that OP says his brother orchestrated. With no proven chain of custody. Believing the brother who she says he had an affair with her and she says is a lie. So, if she knows the test is fake and she knows the brother is a liar, in her shoes I would definitely file for divorce.
Alternately, and playing the devil's advocate, what if it's all true and it's not her husband's kid. Time to get a divorce, anyway. Because, in this scenario, the marriage would also be toast.
She gets to make you confused, possibly ruin your female friendships and mess with your head.
Stop taking to her.
Tbh I wouldn't still have your items if I were her so it's possible that she got rid of it and has decided not to speak to you again.
Unlesdls he changes its either that or a lonely life where you get accused of being a cheat/disloyal.
Does he have friends that are girls btw?
Not everyone loves their kids. You can leave a spouse if you start to hate them. You can’t really leave your kids.
Ask her when you are together next. Communication is crucial to any good relationship
Directly or indirectly?
How do you not see he is the problem? He is the reason you are depressed! He has completely isolated you and has to know what you are doing every second like an abusive psychopath. Get therapy and learn to love and respect yourself and for goodness sakes leave him and get some friends.
How can you not be racist against white people? I am genuinely curious.
Google “the importance of validation in relationships” and “defensiveness in relationships” and solutions for it as this usually happens when one or both people defensive in the arguement and fail to validate each other. In general, when in conflict, each person’s feelings/perspective should be treated as just as important, not more than, not less than, but just as important. So one side shares their perspective, receives validation, then the other side shares and gets the same. After that, solutions that work for both are explored and then implemented. You want a friend and want to be a friend that looks for win/win solutions, not one who looks to win at the others expense.
Also, important to note, validation is different from agreement. If you have trouble separating the two google how to validate even when you disagree and six levels of validation to help address that issue.
Why don’t you take her name?
I could never do this with my ex, towards my current partner. Keeping someone around that you had very vulnerable and intimate moments with is so disrespectful. I loved my ex dearly, but he also dated someone else after me, told her we were just friends and I had no idea how serious they were and him and I were still hooking up and still very much in love. But he did not have the decency to tell her until after the fact. What you’re boyfriend is doing to you sounds very familiar to what my ex did to that poor girl he had been dating. I’m afraid you’re the other woman in this scenario. As much as I absolutely hate to break it to you. Unless he absolutely does not decide to see her, he’s outright disrespecting you because you already said how you felt about it. Don’t ever ask a person twice. If he’s so tied up in property with her and “stuck” with her, is that something you really want to be stressing about 24/7? Girl, we’re 30, come on. We don’t have time for this. Get some self-respect and leave. (I say that with love) I know it’s going to be hard because the blinders are on, and you have all of these feelings but you’re better off finding a guy who listens to you the first time around. The fact he didn’t even want to hurt her after he’s moved on with his own life? Eww. Red flags all over the place. Leave before you get your heart broken.
she has explicitly said that she expects this from me now.
Ask her parents what they think
No-one can tell you if this is true for her and it has nothing to do with her being avoidant.
If she is an introvert, she gets her energy being away from people (including you), if she's an extrovert, she gets her energy from people.
Personally, if I have an intense few days of being around people, I literally need alone time and avoid my phone a bit to recharge. I online with my husband but when I need to recharge I even avoid him.
He thought I was crazy for counting them but I did it because his answers were silly. He even admit I made him nervous when I was asking which is why it didn’t make sense.
He said he tried them out again after we did it and even tried them out before we used them together. So let’s just say 1-2 are missing after we used them. I know I sound crazy but his answer and reaction made me question him. He thinks I’m not allowed to ask questions and has acted nasty to me before too.
My husband is a very private person and that means he doesn’t post anything at all on Facebook – not even his own picture – and has no other social media profiles at all. He and I aren’t even “friends” on Facebook either because I don’t care about it and don’t post anything either (my main platform is Instagram). That’s what being a private person means.
However OP’s situation is completely different. More like she is his dirty little embarrassing secret he doesn’t want people to know about. Because he’s either (1) ashamed, (2) doesn’t really love her, (3) has a wife, (4) has more than one “little secret” and can’t have them find out about each other.
Seriously, OP. If he hurts you intentionally (including if he keeps saying things that he knows hurt you), then he is a shit partner. Don't sleep with someone who can't show empathy or kindness. He doesn't deserve access to you if you feel bad every time you give him access to your body.
What does “too busy to deal with a relationship” even mean? He’ll be on vacation, away from you. A few texts and occasional call are “dealing” with you?
It’s obviously a cover to let him have sex down there. There’s no reason to start with that versus “I might not have time to call a lot.”
I’d say just end it with this jerk.
But if you want to be petty… play along! Smile and tell home to have fun. Then date like crazy while he’s gone and make sure to tell him all about it after. Then double down and tell him you saw the light and how great other guys are and you don’t want to get back together. “So thanks for suggesting the breakup, it’s been great!”
Get over yourself.
You are together for two years and have a second baby in just a month? With all the problems that arose after the first one was born? You do know that there is something called 'family planing'?
Your partner needs therapy alone and you need couples counceling together and when you are at it: get a therapist of your own to learn to deal with all the stress because it won't get better with the second child. Do this ASAP.