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My friends isolated me. I felt so alone. He was the only one who was reaching out to me. Seemed to care abt me. Trust me I wish he wasn’t the same guy as the bully
Yeah that would weird me out. I'd definitely keep an eye on her when yall are all together. Some people can be nice as can be and you would never know the shadiness behind closed doors.
Go seek treatment at the time of the injury TikTok is a menace
Ain’t no hate like Christian love, bigots have no place in peoples lives.
That only makes sense to people who need religion to make sense of their world.
To some of us the world makes sense as is, without divine anything, so adding extras doesn't make logical sense.
My morals come from within me, being a good person and raised well to be a good person, with no religion or even knowledge of the concept until I was a well established. I feel guilt for things I do wrong and pride for that I do right. No stress no mess just happy.
Talk to her. Ask her why it is important. Explain your concerns. Prioritize the relationship.
If it becomes clear that this is non-negotiable, offer to share the costs (as it is her wish, she should agree to this). If she feels there is not enough commitment to do this, you have your answer.
It seems like this entire paragraph is about your ex, but the problem is with you not being able to get over that bad experience. Either have a direct conversation with your current partner so they can understand and help, OR do that AND seek therapy to help you get over these issues.
Oh poor them.
If they want a Christmas party they have their own. But no reason to invite them considering they didn't do you the same honour.
This is some manipulative, immature and selfish bullshit.
You can do better than this!
“I don’t dare ask my girlfriend” doesn’t bode well for a future. You should be able to communicate your needs and concerns without major conflict.
Tell her you want to spend time at your parents. That’s it. Not very hot. If you want to be at your parents, either go there yourself or go together.
Your daughter should not have to see how her father abuses her mother. She will grow up to think it is ok to be treated like a maid. Have a conversation with him about how the current situation no longer works for you and you will no longer continue it.
Get your financial independence back, make sure you have a check-in and savings account in your name, and transfer only the budgeted amount to the shared account (which should be an account you both have access).
Stop doing anything around the house that doesn't affect your child. No more doing his laundry, no more cleaning up after him, cooking for him, etc. You are both full-time working adults and you should share the responsibilities for your surrounding. And you don't have to ask him or remind him of that, you are not his mum or manager, he is an adult.
You don't have to divorce that man, but be prepared to parting ways with him (by securing your finances and independence).
I would give her help if you can. As someone who lived with someone who was abusing the absolute fuck out of his girlfriend, these people tend to be very good at hiding it, or at least surrounding themselves with people who can be fooled. They put in a lot of legwork to make themselves seem like the absolute last person who would do something like that.
This girl was decieved, and if she's at least apologized, I'd try to help her.
She’s not your experiment to figure things out… yikes.
If she's still like this after 7 years of dating she'll probably be like that after another 7 years. You have to decide if you want to find another gf or accept it. You could also cheat but I don't recommend that. But if you do just be careful and don't leave a trail.
Exactly!!! It's probably good things ended before getting worse. I'm just sad that things were going so well… and now all of our dreams together are just gone.
Better to overdressed than underdressed.
You withheld information you didn't think was relevant. He committed a sex crime. These are not the same thing.
You're the one focusing on all the wrong things with your edits and “clarifications” about stuff that doesn't matter or make it any better!!
I read somewhere that it takes like 18 months minimum for brain to be producing more constant oxytocin instead of dopamine when you’re falling in love. This basically means you’re not going to be as rational and still wearing “rose colored glasses” so proposing before 2 years seems so foolish to me. I made my now husband wait and was like let me know if you still love me when the good good brain chemicals wear off.
I guess I did make a right call I'll definitely safely move on thank you 🙂
keep this to yourself it would destroy your marriage, be an adult and stop drinking entirely because it seems like you can't handle it
Just be careful dude. Only you know how she’ll react to you wanting her to change the way she expresses herself. Maybe alcohol might help.
I say this with kind intentions but you can’t say it’s a dealbreaker and then be looking for ways to modify that statement. If it truly was a dealbreaker you would be gone.
Of course it’s understandable that you want to work it out given the circumstances of having a newborn, but let’s be real here. Your husband trickle-truthed you and you know in your gut that he’s lying about the lap dance and he’s done absolutely nothing to warrant you continuing to have trust in him. Also, why is he paying for his friend?? Guarantee he spent that money on himself.
Your husband is a liar and you need to figure out if THAT is the dealbreaker because it sure should be.
He doesnt see the point because i seem to enjoy it enough lol
You could tell him a story about a friend in this situation, and depending on his reaction, disclose the truth, or leave him.
He definitely deserves the truth or to be free.
Umm… You are so obsessed with productivity that you are completely missing the point of being an artist and what is going to make you good… Inspiration. Inspiration does not come from being holed up at home and shutting people out. Inspiration and creativity come from being mindful of the world's beauty, unique experiences, laughing with loved ones, travel, and pushing yourself outside your comfort zone. You are missing out on all of that.
There is no difference between working yourself to death at a 9-5 desk job and being a loner in a basement making music.
Yes I don't really want to but my partner is asking me for advice and I don't know what to do since I feel like it was my fault that she's being mean to him infront of all his friends.
Oh honey, just understand that those thing were important to you too. This wasn't just your daughter being upset, you're upset too.
You've missed huge moments in your daughters life but now you're overcompensating and missing huge moments in your life.
Have you talked to a therapist on your own? You're going to be stuck in this purgatory forever if you don't make a choice.
You need to choose to live! your life in a way that makes you happy. You can't keep trying to please everyone around you, that's how you got into this mess. Be kind to yourself. Your ex was an adult when you had your daughter, was the relationship always so one sided? She sounds like she's been poisoning your daughter against you for a long time. Love can't fix that. Hope can't fix that. Your daughter has to believe that you are doing the best you can. I'm sorry honey. A good therapist can help you navigate this in a way that doesn't harm those that you love. You're going to lose your wife if you haven't already. Everyone is suffering right now, enough is enough.
You deserve a soft life full of love, no matter what mistakes you've made. Forgive yourself for not being perfect.
wow, thank you for your comment. It has been the only one with reasonable advice.
your right about that, its just if we were living in any other country i wouldnt think about it twice, but over here this sort of stuff matters a lot as people talk a lot and word spreads and its really that aspect I don't like, part of me feels i am being paranoid, and part of me feels like im being justified.
I dont think am judging her, as I dont think what she did is wrong or right, and lord knows i have a lot to be judged for myself. but its just this one thing, also though I have a very very poor dating history.
Tell him you're struggling with this. His reaction will show how much he cares about you. Does he take your feelings seriously and address the problem or does he dismiss it and decide not to show you respect
Go on your trip. I missed out on some experiences because of an insecure boyfriend when I was your age (I’m 46 now). I regret not doing them then because of some guy. I wish I had a better reason than some guy. I did them eventually but I did wonder how much better it would’ve been when I was younger. I’ve been lucky that I’ve been given the opportunity to go to those places but if I hadn’t, I can’t imagine the level of regret that I’d feel now.
I reluctantly agreed to a last chance. So far, mixed reviews. It's really too early to tell, but I'm struggling big time. ?
spoiler alert: he’s gonna keep denying, so if you’re sticking around to hear him admit to it….you’re letting him waste years of your life
Amen!
Who “diagnosed” him as an “anxious love avoidant”? This doesn't sound like a clinical diagnosis…
Your request for advice and your comment responses sound like you are very open to trying to understand other people's perspectives. This is a double edged sword because it results in a situation where you often deny your own boundaries and desires because you are more worried about other people's feelings and treading on their boundaries.
Your boyfriend is not seeing a therapist. She is some sort of healing guru who sucks people in to her bullshit. It is unprofessional of her to have a romantic or physical relationship with her clients. This is clearly a boundary for you and makes you feel uncomfortable. If this “therapist” and your bf truly care for you and your feelings, they will respect your boundaries when you say you are not comfortable with his sessions continuing. I suspect they will choose their own comfort over yours and try to make you feel that you are doing something wrong by being jealous or trying to set boundaries within your relationship. That's manipulative and a terrible way of cutting someone down and gaslighting them.
Boundary setting is healthy. You are allowed to do it. And if a relationship that your bf has with someone is making you uncomfortable, that's ok. It's ok to request that he not see her anymore. Relationships are compromise and that has to come from both parties.
Go to surviving infidelity.com. It helped me with a cheating wife. I am so sorry
That’s a lot. Like a whole lot. Multiple times a week?
I might vent to my partner a few times a year. If you have so much to complain about in a week, maybe you need to make some changes.
Man I want to do it to know the truth but I feel weird doing it, it's crossing a line but also so is cheating so I dunno man. Could u message me my dms are broke
How do you need advice on this? How is it not plainly obvious that this person is not a good fit?
Seriously, how the hell do you get through life with zero preservation instinct?
Lol…why y’all get married so young?
These weaklings and their need to stay friends with exes. Lmao it alway backfires.
My wife: chocolate, midol ( regular and caffeine free), ibuprofen, feminine hygiene products (because she usually forgets to restock beforehand).
Lots and lots of chocolate.