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Get over yourself! Find out what is wrong and help. Do not scream to the world, my friend has some troubles and has a abandoned me to work on them. It ain’t always about you.
I want her back because I love her. This has happened in the past, and I haven't thought twice about any other ex. It's different this time round. This wasn't what she wanted and she's working nude to show me how much she wants to work on things. I haven't made it easy. I'm more concerned with reconciling the thoughts I have because we weren't together, but it still bothers me
This seems nice
She’s not wrong. It’s a little gross to non dog owners
I tried and he ended up being so controlling I couldn't. Even had me stop my morning runs because a male friend accompanied me, and yet he couldn't do it because he doesn't wanna run and it's unsafe for me to run alone. Had issues with me spending time with family, hated my boss. Didn't want me in sexy clothing, didn't like his friends complimenting me. I could go on. Draining!
Cut it *ff, I mean cut this person outta your life.
Then just leave your GF to find someone better because it's obvious your never going to stand up for her
Dump your brother and his gf.
saw the same thing happen with my ex wife. Not a co worker. A dude from the gym. All of a sudden, mulitple likes on the guys page. Guess what happened next? lol
I don't really know about that, I don't think one thing leads to another. I don't think breaks are bad if they're like, one day long without texting, but I do believe this is too much too soon.
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He wouldn’t have lied to you if he wasn’t doing anything he thought you wouldn’t be okay with. Cmon
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Should I even say anything?
I agree with this, OP could try saying something like,
I would really like to spend Christmas Day at my parents this year. I would especially want you to be there too but if you would rather spend it with your own parents without me I don't mind.
That possibly solves this Christmas issue, but not your overall communication issue or the fair divide at time spent at each others parents.
Hi, I’m Indian (fob) and my partner is White. I had to deal with something similar and after a year or so compromised. I feel your pain. My mom would cry like I told her I’ve committed murder and how I’ve brought shame to the family. She would then pick on things like “who’s more important, your mom who raised you for 30 years or this girl who you met yesterday?”. My dad told me that I’ve deprived him of the joy of setting me up and finding an Indian daughter in law. Soon after, my “progressive” relatives who have lived in America would chastise me as well saying things like “white women divorce you, they’re going to take all your money.” Or “is she divorced? Is this the first time she’s getting married? Wow she’s old”. She was just as old as i am. My parents then tried to guilt me about financial obligations that I owe them like student loans and such, for which I then paid off. There was a point of time, I was mentally prepared to lose my parents. I’ve seen friends breakup with their long term partners just because of similar situations because of the high pressure and anxiety this causes and their parents have successfully emotionally manipulated their kids.
I think it’s super important to disengage from the conversation itself and be firm about what you want. Like if your mom says “she’s sick cuz of the relationship” I would say something like “do you want to see the doctor? If you’re sick you need to see the doctor”. If you’re dad won’t talk to you, I wouldn’t force it, but let your stance be known that this is the person you love, nothing can waver that and your parents are still important to you. I would from time to time message my parents about things my partner does for me like if she made dinner, I would send them a message saying “hey look at this, My partner made it” or if we took a trip I would casually send pictures of us together.
Your parents racial bias isn’t going to go away overnight nor is it ever going to go away, but what could change in a while is recognition that their daughter has grown up and she’s made the right choice for her.
I’m sure she had someone in mind to sleep with in this open relationship. She probably tried him for a month and it didn’t work out. Now she’s back.
She definitely meant it. You don't randomly throw “let's open the relationship” out there and see if it floats.
Way to stand up for yourself and what you want. Don't start backsliding now. She got what she wanted — a wide-open relationship.
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So. What kind of car does he drive, and how many plane tickets to exotic places has he bought you?
You're in some old rich guy's harem, just be honest with yourself.
You don’t want to be his backup plan. That response from him just shows that’s he is indifferent. You should move on. You will feel much better.
Yea I know all of these things and I would say that too if it was for a friend of mine, but being in it myself its so difficult.. I just dont get why he would show me to his family if he aint actually trying to get himself to work on it. But ye. U might be right, which is my worst fear with this shit
I'm 40 and my Lower range is 35. Any younger than 25, and I have probably worked with them or their friends, so that's a definite no
Call her out!!
Tell her she isn't your Dr and she will have a problem in her future sharing medical information and going thru someone's prescription drugs!
“You're my mom and I love you very much. What happened between you and Dad was between you and Dad and I had nothing to do with it. It is both unfair and manipulative to expect your own child to choose one of you over the other.
I'm sorry you're hurting. But asking me to cut ties with my own dad is not a healthy recipe for healing for either one of us.
If you continue to try to force me to choose between the two of you, you might not like the results.”
You should cry a little, then count your blessings. You dodged a major bullet. It will hurt for a while, but you're better off without him in the long run. He wouldn't make a good partner. If it helps, imagine yourself 10 years from now, when he's a vague memory, and you can't for the life of you understand why you wanted to be with him.
You should cry a little, then count your blessings. You dodged a major bullet. It will hurt for a while, but you're better off without him in the long run. He wouldn't make a good partner. If it helps, imagine yourself 10 years from now, when he's a vague memory, and you can't for the life of you understand why you wanted to be with him.
I cannot, I am locked in my apartment and don't have a key. I also don't think we have anything called instacart here in Germany, but I assume you mean a delivery service. Since I can't open my door, that's also an issue (though others mentioned me using a bucket with a rope, which might work).
If she cares so much about it, then have sex with him. If she doesn't want to have sex, he's fine with it since he has porn. She made her problem of not wanting sex his problem of wanting to get off.
I think there are some things that you take with you to the grave and this is one of them. You’ve matured and changed.
Advise your friends that your relationship with him is not in any way a joke. Invite him to meet your family.
Treat the new year as a new beginning.
This guy is going to make your self esteem worse. Yes it's a red flag it sounds like he was looking to spark a conversation and not the just as friends kind.
I don’t think it has to be a requirement to visit a place before you move there. It’s adventurous – and your comment reads like a jealous high school friend
just FYI, OP would not have to go through a birthing process to abort the child. it would be a two-day procedure. on the first day, you would take a medicine to start opening your cervix. a device might be placed in the cervix to help with this process. on the second day, they would do a D&C. no labor necessary.
the resentment is real, though. and the years of therapy. not “for the rest of your life” level, but many years level.
It is not that I don't wanna do, normally I would love to do it. But it reminds me her experince. She don't push me and I want to be able to do it.
Still an asshole. She is making it seem like he did something wrong.
Is there any reason you can’t hire people the way everyone else does? By Googling the service you need?
I suppose it’s not a huge deal, but I can’t imagine asking an old FWB for something so many people are capable of doing.
Congratulations you found the same 5 people telling me to break up with her without doing anything first. You're disrespectful, not empathic whatsoever, and are clearly missing something. You're speaking on behalf of everyone, do you think you're apart of some greater hivemind? It's you and a couple other guys mate, you haven't stumbled into some greater collective here. You speak like you're not even human.
Read my final thoughts comment. ?
What do you mean by “28 is almost at the end of The line for giving birth”?
Beat his ass
You got a few different ages and circumstances listed through your history. Cool story though.
What does he say when you speak to him about it?
still trying to figure that out honestly! we joke a lot and sometimes yes he is dead pan but this felt… different
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I have been dating my gf for about 8 months now, and things are going well for the most time. We normally meet once for dinner during the weekdays and then spend the weekend together. But the last time I saw my gf was 2 weeks ago and since then my gf has not wanted to see me because “she needs some space”. The reason she needs the space is because she was hit really nude by the news of her ex getting married.
She dated her for 9 years, from the age of 18 to 27. From what she has told me they broke up because they were not on the same page about the future of the relationship. My gf wanted to get married and he never wanted to get married. So eventually they broke up. Its almost been 4 years since they broke up. I never even suspected my gf might still be having feelings for him, but after watching her strong reaction to his marriage I cant be so sure of that. They guy is getting married to someone he has dated for less than a year, and yes its weird but I dont think it really deserves that much of a reaction. Unless she is still in love with him.
I am at a loss on how to proceed Reddit. Any advice will be appreciated.
Edit/Update- I have decided to breakup with her. But I will wait two more weeks before telling her, hopefully she will be in a better headspace by then.
So is she. If she moves in, it’ll be her home too. He doesn’t need to wear, as he said, “super tight boxers” around an unrelated child. It makes mom uncomfortable, you know, his girlfriend he’s supposed to care about and want to be comfortable. He can compromise and throw some shorts on. I don’t think he’d be unreasonable to not want hear to walk around in “super tight panties” if he had a 14 year old son around.
If she goes to school telling people that her mom’s bf walks around the house swinging his junk around in tight boxers in front of her, you’re going to be in a LOT of trouble.
Don’t you dare apologize. She was repeatedly rude and insulting, and since you stood up for yourself she’s tried to reverse it and guilt you into thinking you were the one at fault. Why are you worried if she forgives you? She doesn’t care about you or your feelings at all, she is not a friend.
You really need to get therapy. There's plenty of places that offer it on a sliding scale fee.
“pedophile” has lost all meaning
Yeah she's not the one for you. She's saying you manipulated her kindness, I don't think so. She's a not a good person.
If her boyfriend sucks she can dump him. You don’t even know that dude from what you say, for all you know she’s full of shit and just wants to fuck around.
You could risk being the next boyfriend she’s trying to cheat on, or you could communicate that you’re uncomfortable pursuing this while she’s in a relationship and maybe she’s being honest that he sucks and leaves him and you guys live happily ever after.
we use the pull out method very very carefully.
You know who else says this? Parents. Wise up.
So, he doesn't havevan opinion on birth control, doesn't want a baby, doesn't believe on abortion, and tells you there are relationship issues but won't discuss them.
Not sure why you're with this dude.
he was too drunk . period. has nothing to do with you.
You better get a lawyer like yesterday because you're probably in common law territory and effectively married. Depending on the state you could end up paying alimony and other expenses. Be kind but firm and hit her nude and fast with legal to bury her. Show kindness by abiding to the agreement of your parenting plan for the benefit of your daughter.
No, it’s definitely common sense that you shouldn’t post thirst traps when you’re in a relationship lol. That being said, i definitely should’ve set boundaries in the beginning but it only started making me feel disrespected as we became more committed to eachother.
This sounds like the plot of a horror movie about being human trafficked off of instagram.
If he says “I have a gf.” All you need to say is “Oh, okay, sorry.” And walk off. That’s not awkward, it happens all the time.
I have to shower daily. She may need to shower daily also. I also can't get away with washing my hair once a week. Maybeee every 3 days but not a week.
It sounds like your spouse is not your partner and has no intention of being a parent either. You and your kid deserve better than him.
The only “fucking scumbag” is you. I’ve met a lot of unattractive people who are the fucking worst. Also attractive is subjective, there’s a lot of people that are considered “cute” that I think are meh and vice versa.
Also you’re almost 40 fucking years old and have the demeanour of a 4 year old. I hope your cousins tell the rest of your family what a vapid, misogynistic twat you are.
Use what as a learning tool? I’m not going to go against the advice of a medical professional based on a strangers comment on Reddit. I know the list was a good idea. It’s fortunate you dont have to do that but I do.
Anyway, you stay away from them, and may be report it . Is there any chance you could share that post with your boyfriend?
I'd say he's objectively a shit person. Being somewhat sweet with his kid doesn't redeem the rest. A pizza with dog shit on it isn't saved by adding more toppings.
Because mentally stable grown adults in their 30s have next to nothing in common with someone barely out of high school. They’ve spent the last DECADE working, dating, traveling, trying new things, building their careers, and developing skills and a true sense of self. A 20 year old looks like a kid to a normal 30 year old. Why? Because they are in completely different life stages developmentally. College kids are still developing their prefrontal cortex, figuring out who they are and what they want out of life. To interrupt that as a grown ass 30 year old who already had those years is morally ambiguous at best.
Oh same here, but I’d rather hear it from her than find out later once other people at work hear a rumor
Ah yes of course she is just gonna tell her daughter she is the product of rape, because that's not like it's gonna have the same effect as it has now. Why would the reaction change when she was younger? It would be worth, because they would probably have a harder time coping with the truth.
It's not the same at all as telling someone they are adopted at all. I can't even fathom the daft logic you just tried to use
That’s totally fucked up.
I did tell her how I felt as nicely as I could. I said “Hey not picking on you, but I felt a bit uncomfortable about your behavior today. I've never been aggressive towards you in any way so it bothers me that you felt like you needed to cower away from me. Why is that?” and she said something like she knew I was angry and she “just wanted to stay out of my way”. I told her I wasn't angry, just tired, and I asked her why she felt like she needed to get out of the way. She said “I never used to make you depressed so I feel like you hate me now” to which I spent awhile trying to explain that isn't how it works but she didn't seem convinced otherwise.
This is a victim blaming mentality. You wouldn’t (or SHOULD NOT) say this to a woman if she were assaulted, so why are you saying it to OP? If he were assaulted, it’s assault whether he reports it or not
Is it worth reaching out (after a month or so) to apologize and try to have a conversation?
No. Leave him alone. It's utterly disrespectful to read someone's personal journal without their permission. You fucked up.
Thank you, I will buy this tape regardless of husband. I have been very tired lately,
How so? 40% of married cops openly admit to beating their wives.
If he doesn't understand how to gain respect from an animal, then he doesn't understand how to gain respect from people. Take a look at one of your sentences that I rearranged to be from the perspective of anybody, you or the dog or a child.
When I get annoying he SCREAMS at me and when I don’t listen he has hit me in the head, kicked me in the side, and flung me around.
This is how he lives life, through domination and control. If he refuses to learn how to better treat the dog, you'll eventually be the one saying that sentence. Toxic masculinity. He probably treats people better than animals, but only because he has things to gain from befriending people. He hasn't needed to put on the steel toe shoes for you, yet. You beg all you want but never do anything about it, not much different than the dog in his eyes. He completely disrespects your opinion and emotions when you try to reason with him, that will NEVER ever change girl.
he doesn’t seem to care.
That right there is all the answer you need, to get out and take that poor dog with you. You have the potential to be a great dog owner, but you aren't right now because you allow this abuse.
Why would you be embarrassed by blowing your nose?… for any reason?… he either did coke and acted like an AH for being called out, or he is an AH for treating you like that because you thought he did… either way you look at it he screwed up. Honestly, leave him. If he flips out like this over “allergies”, can you imagine what it would be like if it were a more serious situation?…
Textbook gaslighting
I'd invoice for the cleaning at 50%.
Probably because of how their marriage began. You can’t deny that the way she got pregnant isn’t ideal. I’d assume when she first moved here it was a closer time period to the beginning of their marriage. Which op admitted getting pregnant wasn’t a fun experience and it hurt her so bad her husband promised not to touch her again. The goal was to get her pregnant. It happened and then he stopped. Talking about this topic to any specialist would give the impression that he’s an abuser.
there's this book by Stephen King where there's a part when the main character's FIL offers him a hefty bribe of a full ride through university to break up with his daughter
It's just been 1.5 months. What should be my line of action?
Talk to a lawyer, get your ducks in a row and let his ex have him!
Thank you. I thought I was alone in this, which is, uh… something
I mean even at the point – the reality TV angle is “who the hell is writing this shit for fun”
im just noting hes not the problem is a real sweet dude, def a push over
How long have you two been married?
This is a huge red flag, especially since 2 of the people are his siblings, and one is his ex. You’re not good enough to go dinner with him and his family and ex?
You have to be a good little wife and just sit at home? You don’t deserve to be taken out?
But maybe I’m missing part of the story here?
Have you two been fighting? Have any issues cropped up? Do you drink too much?
He's a liar, why do you think it's you?
He's a known liar. Been lying, stayed lying. Nothing wrong with you, but your dude is a liar.
The why doesn't matter. That fact that he did it does. Don't ask him why did you, ask him how could you .
He is 100% correct
Get out! Leave! It won’t get better.
Are you so desperate that you’re willing to have someone so toxic in your life? What’s the point? Cut him out of your life.
He sounds like an arsehole to be honest
He asked about you doing him a sexual favor instead of how you are. And it was about how YOU wanted to please him.
RUN.
I'd swap your games for his console and let him sort through it. If you paid for the games, they are not his to because he has the console.
So it's all based on something she witnessed that day. Did she come in at all or just left after seeing you two without a word?
Unless you want to be doing his buddy nightly, say no. The buddy lives with you so aren’t going to be able to treat this as a one-time experience.
If you decide to try a three-some, find someone that you don’t know well and use the three-some to have sex with someone who you find hotter than your husband. It will keep you motivated if you normally need an emotional connection with a partner.
Finally, if the two bros put too much pressure on you, tell them to get a room. If your husband’s sexual fantasy is so detailed that it requires his buddy to do the act, then the fantasy may be less about you and more about his buddy.
Unless you want to be doing his buddy nightly, say no. The buddy lives with you so aren’t going to be able to treat this as a one-time experience.
If you decide to try a three-some, find someone that you don’t know well and use the three-some to have sex with someone who you find hotter than your husband. It will keep you motivated if you normally need an emotional connection with a partner.
Finally, if the two bros put too much pressure on you, tell them to get a room. If your husband’s sexual fantasy is so detailed that it requires his buddy to do the act, then the fantasy may be less about you and more about his buddy.
Unofortunately, a lot of single mothers are looking for a provider, not a boyfriend. Giving the rest a bad rep.
Ok… 3 days…. yea… f her. Id send her on her way.
But suffocating your partner will never bring joy
Can you give an example of a situation you misunderstood?
Look, you're not stupid for not seeing it before. But now that you do see it, you'd be stupid not to end this travesty of a relationship immediately.
You work past it in therapy.
It sounds like he handled a mistake he made with honesty, and as importantly, told you moments after he lied. People make mistakes, and being completely honest in a relationship takes some courage.
It seems like you aren’t fully recovered from a toxic relationship and his lie triggered feelings from your past. It also seems like you have a good deal of mistrust about his “work wife.” Maybe it’s reasonable, maybe not. Talking about it is the only way.
Because he’s going to figure out that you’re immature and don’t care about his privacy. Seriously do you think this is the start of a fairy tale? Because it’s not. At all.
Well, what would you think if another girl was sending your boyfriend love songs? Reverse the situation and see if you can understand his perspective.
As a woman, even this seems obvious to me that he's trying to tell you something.
1) Split the bills between you two.
2) Split the housework to include cooking the meals
3) Have some good boundaries.
4) It will be uncomfortable the first month because you are still thinking this is my space, but that may change as co-habitation goes on.
5) Expect the dynamics of your relationship to change, good or bad only time will tell.
6) Mutual respect, good communication between you and him will go a long way.
Cuz he calls himself straight and refuses to acknowledge his other side. But this is his way of basically admitting it without saying it aloud, hence “indirectly”. Lol.
Why is it on mothers? Are you expecting them to do some kind of demo? And how does looking at a vagina on screen help you understand a uti? I mean I would check the Wikipedia page. When my friend got cancer that's what I did, when we all got covid that's what we did. And no, it doesn't fall to girlfriends or any other random women because the entire knowledge of the human race is now available to all of us on the internet. Men need to stop pretending to be helpless idiots and help themselves.
I had 14 UTI’s in one year one time…. Literally some women are just prone to them. You’re not gross. Pee after sex and drink lots of water.
He does not work which makes it worse, he can’t bc he is sick, not from anything terminal. I am the only one working a full time job at a brokerage firm.
I wholly support your decision to leave
Ask him how he'd do it and I would bet $$ he has a response locked and loaded.