Why would you expect the child to have your last name when you’re not married to the mother? It’s well within her rights to give the child her own last name lol
If you aren't “enough” for him as you are, then you never will be. There will always be something for him to find wrong.
There are a LOT of red flags in your post.
– It seems I disappoint him constantly.
He knocks you down. Gives a compliment. Then knocks you down. He's been emotionally manipulating you and tearing down your self-esteem.
– I wasn’t mature enough to handle all of that.
You're 23 years old. You're more than adult enough to handle things.
– I make one mistake he says that he can’t rely on me
More emotional manipulation. Do everything as I want or you're useless.
– his excuse is that the world will eat me up otherwise
This is the kicker. He's the savior. He's just looking out for you because you're too weak to handle life without him.
Seriously? Run.
– I don’t think I’m good enough. I don’t think I am
THIS is the result of his emotional abuse; you have ZERO self-esteem. You need to dump him, get your life back on track, get your self-esteem back, and find someone that appreciates you for who you are.
What they don't know won't hurt them.
Why would you expect the child to have your last name when you’re not married to the mother? It’s well within her rights to give the child her own last name lol
It’s clear y’all can’t trust each other right now. Maybe taking some space would be wise.
If you aren't “enough” for him as you are, then you never will be. There will always be something for him to find wrong.
There are a LOT of red flags in your post.
– It seems I disappoint him constantly.
He knocks you down. Gives a compliment. Then knocks you down. He's been emotionally manipulating you and tearing down your self-esteem.
– I wasn’t mature enough to handle all of that.
You're 23 years old. You're more than adult enough to handle things.
– I make one mistake he says that he can’t rely on me
More emotional manipulation. Do everything as I want or you're useless.
– his excuse is that the world will eat me up otherwise
This is the kicker. He's the savior. He's just looking out for you because you're too weak to handle life without him.
Seriously? Run.
– I don’t think I’m good enough. I don’t think I am
THIS is the result of his emotional abuse; you have ZERO self-esteem. You need to dump him, get your life back on track, get your self-esteem back, and find someone that appreciates you for who you are.