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Date: October 5, 2022
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The comment it replied to is a bot too lol
He's being controlling and gaslighting you by saying it's your fault. This is shitty behaviour on his part. So is the stalking (showing up at the gym) and pushing things like cooking him dinner each night as opposed to self care for yourself (gym) and making you feel bad. Can he not cook dinner himself? Just bc he did well in grad school… i mean do you not deserve a nice meal cooked for you?
The first thing you need to do is acknowledge your responsibility here. Using passive language like ‘my words shoot to kill’ have an implication that you’re not making a choice to say what you say. Unless you’re running around uncontrollably shooting off at the mouth to everyone when upset, you chose to let your emotions get the better if you with him.
Also the things you learn in therapy need to be constantly worked on – it’s not a surgery that fixes an issue and requires no further work from you. Obviously it’s been beneficial if things have improved – screaming abuse at someone instead of communicating like (I assume) you learned in therapy isn’t going to help
I’m laughing that you think you’ve got better relationship advice than your husband, meanwhile you’re pouring gas on your marriage and lighting it on fire ???