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Date: October 22, 2022
Lucy, 24 y.o.
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As someone who has worked at an addiction treatment facility, I can say this relationship is all kinds of wrong. You two should both be focusing on your recovery. You’re both distracting yourselves from recovery with a new relationship. I’m sorry you feel you’re a broken girl. You need to work on yourself. This guy is doing you a major disservice by running out of rehab with you. This guys anger issues and substance abuse issues combined with the age gap are going to create major problems. If you’re ever curious if it’s too much age gap, take the oldest age and divide it by 2 and add 7. 30 year old can reasonably date a 22 year old. 40 can reasonably date 27. 50 can reasonably date 32. 60 can date 37 etc.
My mother has BPD and growing up with her was a NIGHTMARE. I do not know your relationship but you are young and have plenty of time to grow and see professionals. Please do why my mother did not and do not give up on getting better. BPD can be extremely very hot to handle for the person with it and those around them. Good luck to you!
Funny enough, the solution to a lot of the problems I've seen people post on this subreddit is communication. Thats really it.
Notice she never said he apologized…
OP don’t drown in that marinara sea
Love of your life. If you marry someone you don't love you will miserable anyway. Do you think it is going to be healthy?
Besides you need to decide for whom you live! your life. For yourself or for your parents. IF you think pursuing your personal happiness in somehow unfair to your family then ask yourself this. Do they actually love you if they would choose to completely ruin relations with you, because you have chosen to marry the woman you love? No at this point it isn't love it is possesion and valuing cultural norms more than loving their own child.
The natural order of things is parents choose to give birth to children, and have responsibility to raise them, but they do not own them. Children are free to pursue their own way of life.
Of course since you have free choice you can also choose to be miserable, so there is that.
You shouldn't want to fix this because the longer it goes on, the worse it will be for you. Get out of this relationship.