So I totally get why this is all upsetting but pregnancy hormones truly are something else. Look at it from her view. It was on her due date, then she was in pain from the starting of contractions, then she was drugged up, she was in the hospital in a stressful situation and going though an extreme medical process. Giving birth is a lot. I highly doubt she was in the right state of mind. What she did wasn't right but to be told something like that during all of this probably made everything so much worse. Giving birth is scary and painful. I understand your hurt and angry but try to look at it from a different point of view. Maybe go to counseling
I don't have my wife's phone pin. She doesn't have mine either. We use our phones to talk to other people, people who might be going through messy crap that they don't want shared. It's not just her own privacy involved.
Sorry but I'm super worried about this comment. I really want to understand why you're saying this. I do love my cousin and want to be there for her. I'm not sure if it came across like I have never been there for her? If you have time, can you please tell me what more I could have been doing for her over the years? I actually was prepared that I was wrong for this situation but not for the previous years and now I'm questioning everything.
It may not be your aim, but it reveals that she always has security net that does not involve her having to support herself. It's your life, I'm just trying to draw your mind towards the truth that she's not going to be self sufficient until she has to be, and you're going to be on this ride for awhile.
So I totally get why this is all upsetting but pregnancy hormones truly are something else. Look at it from her view. It was on her due date, then she was in pain from the starting of contractions, then she was drugged up, she was in the hospital in a stressful situation and going though an extreme medical process. Giving birth is a lot. I highly doubt she was in the right state of mind. What she did wasn't right but to be told something like that during all of this probably made everything so much worse. Giving birth is scary and painful. I understand your hurt and angry but try to look at it from a different point of view. Maybe go to counseling
I don't have my wife's phone pin. She doesn't have mine either. We use our phones to talk to other people, people who might be going through messy crap that they don't want shared. It's not just her own privacy involved.
Sorry but I'm super worried about this comment. I really want to understand why you're saying this. I do love my cousin and want to be there for her. I'm not sure if it came across like I have never been there for her? If you have time, can you please tell me what more I could have been doing for her over the years? I actually was prepared that I was wrong for this situation but not for the previous years and now I'm questioning everything.
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It may not be your aim, but it reveals that she always has security net that does not involve her having to support herself. It's your life, I'm just trying to draw your mind towards the truth that she's not going to be self sufficient until she has to be, and you're going to be on this ride for awhile.