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Date: December 12, 2022
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You shouldn't do either, you should leave. No one deserves to be second place in their relationship.
Probably should have shown him before to see which side he picks and if he would do anything to defend you. A bit late now a few months later, but it would bring some closure to you both
Good…hope you and the cats will be safe. This is not normal behavior.
The only person verging on abuse here is her. I’m sorry my man but she’s not functioning enough to be in a relationship.
Okay so genuine question : what are you here for ? What do you want from this sub ?
You seem to be thinking far too directly, in moments like this you need to be thinking hypothetically. If you find yourself second guessing your actions then run through a few hypothetical situations in your head first – if X did Y, would I still be OK with it? – then maybe you could start to see just how poorly you behaved in this particular situation.
Did you ask him these questions? Also, if you don’t or can’t handle the answer, don’t ask.
i just feel like this is the equivalent of asking your partner what their body count is because like literally it’s not your business. if you’re both tested for stds and in the clear and she is aware she left that life behind why would she feel the need to share any of that information with you?
“had therapy” ?
When? When did you stop? Other comments are right that you're a serial cheater and you need help.
If you really want to stay with her, better to be honest. Tell you you've been cheating on her, that you're incapable of monogamy, and you want an open relationship. Maybe she's down!
Fuck yeah. Women who love sex and know what they want >> Women who don't. I know it isn't a guarantee but the chance is just higher.
So he slept with 10 times the amount of people you did, and yet he's judging you? He has no right to judge you.
He has you feeling bad about yourself and like you're not good enough for him. In reality, he is not good enough for you. He's too full of himself and judgemental to be good for anyone.
And the ridiculousness that he can't be “special” to you because you have 30 previous partners? Well obviously you're not special to him either, because he's comparing you to 300 other women and claiming that his ex was better. So again, he's not good for anyone with that attitude.
It was either a joke or he was just nervous, I mean I’m 26 and have a hard time talking about my personal life, at 19 it’s even harder, he was probably just being stupid and said that so to not have to dig into it more, he probably hasn’t thought of that moment since, I mean he’s been with you 7 years and asked you to marry him, honestly I think you’re just overthinking it, but what do I know, I’m just an Internet commenter. Good luck with your life, hope it all works out!
Yeah he's definitely sleeping with her.
She listed more than one reason? My guy, just leave her alone.
Leave her! She’s disrespecting you when she follows her AP. She gave you an STD and was treating you without you knowing. You said the trust isn’t the same. Ask yourself: will you ever rebuild that trust again even if she deleted the guy from social media?
Side note: do not stay in a marriage because of your kids. If they grow older and find out what happens, what will that teach them? Also you love the old version of her who did not cheat on you. The person in front of you now betrayed you.
I have to look out for my own well being
I believe that you are confusing sterile and infertile.
People who are sterile have 0 possibility of having children.
People who are infertile have an extremely low possibility, but there could be a slight chance.
I think I was looking for maybe how people would feel or handle things had they been in a situation and in my shoes or his shoes so that's why I said most will probably be saying they would ridicule me because most would agree it's a deal breaker
Half and half when we were friends he was much more open after dating less so
Tell her You are used to tighter pussies but her movements really Made up For it.
Yeah it makes people who are actually poly have a bad name, it’s not the poly communities fault that cheaters exploit it as a way to cheat ?♀️
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I have a machete lol
Yeah I'm pretty sure this is just a troll.
So I'm not the only one who noticed this post is basically a r/relationship_advice BINGO card of rage bait?
Good to know.
Honestly curious if this was partially written by AI or something.
Your con list shouldn't be longer then your pro list regardless. To many of those things on your chin list are non-negotiable anyhow, this relationship is well past over. Best of luck in the new year, start fresh.
If he can’t move on, you need to.
Darling, you wrote that you previously broke a knee (or something in your legs?) and I can assume he knows about it. Running is a BIG NO for you because it can be consuming, charging everything on the joints and on the long run creates hormonal issues and high level of stress hormones too. Heck, even professional runners advert normal people not to run consistently. No matter what he say, you are at risk of having to substitute it for pure caprices.
Second. What is his problem? Is it because you have to put a swimsuit and be half hot to swim?
The friends I asked, had been married for years so I thought they had the wisdom I needed. This is the first long-term relationship I’ve been in.
Leave that man alone. You’re terribly immature and childish. That man deserves someone better. As for you OP my biggest piece of advice is GROW THE HELL UP.
Ah, the call of a man who has literally no legs to stand on in an argument.
“He said i could have the cat” he doesnt even ON-LINE WITH YOU he doesnt get a say on whether or not you can adopt a cat!!! Tf??? This is controlling behaviour. The cats make you happy, and this is their home now. To get rid of any of them would be heartbreaking because they might have to be surrendered to a shelter if you can’t find a new home for them, and then they’d be at risk of euthanasia. It’s not as simple as just “getting rid of” an animal like he seems to think it is. I’d dump him tbh, a good boyfriend would love the cats because you love them.
Your partner is rude and creepy. I’m guessing the only thing that “suddenly” happened is that your daughter is now old enough to not accept it anymore.
A lot of people don't use condoms perfectly. Second, the probabilities of getting pregnant using each method aren't completely independent, it's not necessarily fair to assume that and multiply them together. Third, while the probability is low for any random time people have sex, people have sex more than once and this applies at a population scale. If they have sex 100 times there's a 99.5% chance that it succeeds given the probability of 0.0006. When you consider how many people there are doing this, it's not totally unbelievable for a story or two to come up totally innocently.
It's also important that everybody understand how these probabilities work. People don't properly calculate risk and it can really hurt you.
There is likely nothjing you can do about him and his new gf no matter how disgusting it is.
There is however something you can do in regards to your ex telling your kids to keep secrets from you. This is a huge major issue and 1 you need to sit and talk about. If he didn't want the kids telling you then I hope they aren't around her. A parent should be teaching their kids to be open and honest and as soon as you go down the route of telling them to keep secrets then that's a red flag. If you are both sorting out custody then I would raise this.
Yeah, pretty difficult. But I would tell he that you seeing your friends is also important to you and that she just has to understand that you want to be friends with them almost just as much as you want to be with her. And tell her that she is always able to join you if she does not trust it.
I used to be a bit like this. I was afraid of being taken advantage of financially (due to a previous relationship where that happened) and that's why I was really mindful that I never paid more than the other. For some reason this only happened in one relationship though, I guess I was still processing the previous one. I'm good now.
Most women share their sex lives with their friends. And, oftentimes they'll share that with their partner. For example, I'm not supposed to know how big my ex's friend's boyfriend's dick is. But, I do. So, my only reasonable inference is her friend knows how big mine is, too.
At least half of it was.
Yes you should leave.
Not because she is really to blame for everything. Her family dynamic is so toxic its probably a coping system and even if she is really never sexual assaulted (wich is doubtful if he Sa'd every other of his daughters and it could be that she repressed some memories) she has a lot of trauma from the way she has been raised.
You should leave because she is seriously fucked up and she needs a lot of therapy. She is not in a state to form a healthy relationship now and maybe not ever. Do yourself a favor and remove yourself from this situation.
Don't be daft.
So your in an abusive relationship? And you are allowing your child to be alone with him?
To fufill his needs you need to actually listen to him. Your “help each other resolve family stuff,” is more centered on your beliefs of what you think he needs. You need to take yourself, ideas of what is right, out of the equation.
“You beat me the punch, honey, but you hit me below the belt.”
How many times have we seen someone force their partner to see parents they clearly want no contact be forced into contact? Now your bf is suffering because you couldn't respect that boundary. And instead of thinking how you can support your bf as he recovers from his father's abuse, you're upset he's not calling you by a pet name?! Please let this be creative fiction because if not, you really need to reflect on why you keep prioritizing your feelings over your bf's even when he is recovering from trauma.
They were at a party with drugs and alcohol. Alcohol is not a truth serum.
Kids don’t ‘do drugs
Respect the hustle. But dude needs a decent business plan. A timeline, an idea that will sell. And investors.a laundromat is an idea.
No not at all what I was saying. I was saying I have no clue why he sweats all the time. Working out makes me sweat a lot less on the regular so I was just going off personal experience.
Aybe she feels guilty and uncomfortable? Now you get to tell her not to disclose anymore info.
I really hope not. That would be completely shattering after everything we have been through together. I honestly don’t think I could handle that if it was what is happening.
Then gracefully exit the monogamous relationship so he can do it all he likes
Also pretty much every shit rapper who never made it just goes on about bitches and hoes lol
Rap is supposed to be a form expression and about delivering a message to the listener. The only message he’s delivering is he hasn’t finished puberty and worships the cliche “rapper gangsta” life.
Hopefully he matures as an artist and person but right now its a massive cringe fest.
Feeling confident in clothes doesn't even mean wearing skimpy clothes. It just means putting together an outfit you like and feel confident in.
Go and join r/femalefashionadvice and r/oldhagfashion. Both subs are about body confidence. They take different approaches (the former has a lot to say about jeans) with the people on both being knowledgeable about brands and cost.
Lose the boyfriend, though. You don't need him.
She did stick by you and try to help even when it was hurting her. That relationship is over now and you need to move on in a healthy way.
Hey man, thank you. I hate when people say “all men suck” because I know that’s not true. It’s just hot to find a good man and it sucks. I really thought he’d be one and I, along with all my friends are quite shocked because he showed so much love and was just always with me
Which is cool, but let’s not excuse the behavior because of it.
A more appropriate approach would be to either discuss this with her partner (before bringing in a 3rd) or to leave the relationship
I think too. And that’s what hurts so much.
Get an Italian gf
Blue heelers need a LOT of exercise. They're a working breed.
I think in the future it would also be good of you to take the puppy to puppy classes, learn from the beginning how to correct these behaviors, especially the nipping.
When I got my chow chow as a puppy he was a little ankle biter with some SHARP teeth, and would chew on everything even if we used chew deterrent sprays (he just licked them off ?) but it got better once we figured out what kind of toys would keep him entertained, what to use to redirect the biting, and also made sure to give him as much time to run around and get all his energy out outside.
Do more research about the breeds you adopt in the future, and work with a trainer from the beginning if it shows its going to be a difficult experience.
I hope you don't take that person's comments to heart.
Marriage is absolutely not a “lifelong union” if one spouse disrespects those vows by mistreating the other. I don't know what your husband did to you specifically, but being “treated terribly” for half a decade by your partner is more than enough reason to leave. You did NOTHING wrong by choosing yourself.
This is extremely common for people who have been mistreated by a partner, especially if the behavior was abusive. Guilt is normal. It sucks, but it's normal. I still struggle with guilt for leaving a partner who raped me multiple times years ago, and for leaving a person I dated for 3 years and planned to marry, who cheated on me repeatedly.
Just my personal opinion but sometimes I think we feel guilty in situations like this because we spent so long putting someone else first that it feels unfamiliar and weird to put ourselves first. It feels wrong because we're not used to it. But that's not disrespecting your vows; it's finally respecting yourself over someone else who disrespected your vows.
I'm going to say, this is a two part issue, where the initial question you have is a pretty easy, no, you're not unreasonable at all, shouldn't feel bad, and shouldn't even think twice about your choice.
Giving birth is an incredibly hot thing to go through, emotionally, and physically, and the only thing that you should be worried about during that process, is your health, and the health of the baby, and you being uncomfortable in any way for any reason, is not something to be ashamed of or have a second thought about.
The second part is more difficult, and really I don't know your relationship, I don't know you or your husband, and so I'm not going to say either of you should or should not do one thing or the other. But, my general advice for any relationship is to communicate any and all feelings one has in their head in regards to their partner, and if there is an issue clear it up and work on it. If he is making remarks about your appearance, and it is making you feel unattractive, it is something I think you need to tell him and if he really does find you unattractive, I think it also needs to not be something to make him feel guilty or wrong for, because we as people cannot really control that attraction just like we can't control our feelings. I will also say, while he can't control his attraction, he does need to understand it isn't really his place to control that attraction of you by suggesting surgery, but maybe you can both communicate ways that he can find you more attractive than he already does and how it can be handled in ways to allow you to feel attractive and loved before any discussion is done regarding what you two can work out to be more attractive to each other.
Why are you so sure he didn't already approach it like that. She said she would disown him and if she's that unreasonable then I'm sure that will be the outcome no matter how gentle he went about it.
Yes it was for the reason you first thought, and I have no idea if they brought it up or not.
It may be a hellscape, but the judge said exactly that.
Supervised visitation? Oh boy do they wish. Absolutely gets the kids two days a week, with the option of more if willing to go to a parenting class.
Where is this magical utopia you on-line where things actually work how they're supposed to?
Your mom works and you're in your 30's now, so I assume with significantly discounted rent she should have a good amount of savings.
Just move out and let her deal with her life. Your dad might let her stay in the condo. He might hike her rent. Or she might have to move. But what exactly is your game plan here, to on-line with her her entire life? Moving out isn't gonna get any easier as she gets older, fucking do it now while she's still working.
The trauma may be something you have to deal with, and yes it’s your responsibility to manage that healing process, but the touching itself in a way you’ve shared is triggering trauma for you, is purely a him problem.
Your “healed” self might not like that behavior either. I dislike that behavior as well, and I don’t have trauma around it – it makes me feel like an object for my partner, rather than like a full person worthy of seducing, one whose own desires matter too. Being your husband doesn’t mean he can treat you however he wants, relationships involve two individual people.
I think you need to talk about it, there is many ways to manage finances and I'm assuming you are not married which makes the topic a bit more sensitive.
I don't know what kind of relationship you have, but if possible I would suggest a brainstorming session together where you can suggest a bunch of solutions. Afterwards you look at all the suggestions and talk about them. Hopefully you can agree on a new system that feels fair to both of you.
When it's creative writing, we get the full back story of how OP's parents tragically died when they were 10 and their brother has cerebral palsy and autism and she's studying to be able to find a cure for that. So I think it's real.
She literally did and he still calls that a girlfriend…
Make sure to have someone supporting you ready when you rock the boat or hand him divorce papers. These types can escalate and you need to trust your gutfeeling. If you suspect him flying off the handle then see if you can have a friend in a car parked close by to escape to or call in to de-escalate.
I wish you and your boy all the best.
Not even a little bit.
You don't.
If your story is true you didn't cheat you were sexually assaulted.
You tell your gf her friend sexual assaulted you.
If your GF doesnt believe you, you probably shouldn't be with her anyways.
This has got absolutely nothing to do with your mother. You’re projecting onto this relationship based on little information and your own issues. This isn’t a cry for help from the OP about an abusive violent fiancé.
OP i dont have much advice because i agree with exactly what most are saying here.
As a married woman i could never ever invalidate my husband the way your wife does. I love and respect him. Because he deserves that! You deserve better and don't just stay for the kids.
Unhappy marriages just teach us as kids it's okay to treat your SO like crap. My parents are an example of that.
They deserve a dad that's happy! She doesn't want to do therapy she doesnt want to work on the marriage, she doesn't care about how you feel or your needs.
Please leave this is a fucked up relationship to hve kids around.
I don't have insurance but there are free clinics where I on-line, in Australia, but a lot have closed down. I have found one a free one that I'll try to book into. I've booked to see my GO who can hopefully refer me and put me on to a new antidepressant.
I don't have insurance but there are free clinics where I on-line, in Australia, but a lot have closed down. I have found one a free one that I'll try to book into. I've booked to see my GO who can hopefully refer me and put me on to a new antidepressant.
Happy cake day
He knows how you grew up and has capitalised on it. You now on-line to serve his interests. He has made you feel like you are a problem to be with or around that you are conscious all the time to do absolutely nothing for yourself but cater to his needs. He has primed you to put him first. Next he will say that you not working or furthering your education is easier for him and because want to be easy love and be with will give in. He is mentally abusive. I am sure that if you want therapy he will say that the timing makes things nude for him stop you from gaining true perspective. If you do you will leave him
You are learning a very important part of management. The same team should be in charge of the specific process, otherwise you get shit like your current situation.
I know better and I too agreed to this asinine set up. My god, the amount of shit my wife now uses to prep the easiest shit….
Like others said, going off of % is the most fair and I think your proposal of $1500 is more than fair to both of you.
It's just hot to think of divorce, I do love her a lot. And she's already “allowed” me to sleep with others but I'm not into that. I just want her ig
Not sure why you even want to stay with someone who thinks like your BF does and surrounds himself with like-minded morons.