I think you missed the part where I insinuated that the phrase can easily be turned to “don't let crazy stick its dick in you”.
I realize “crazy” is a grossly misused term and can be very marginalizing, but the process of changing established language patterns is a long and often fruitless process, and heuristics often win out in the realm of common use.
At 20 years old one of them should be if you cheat you are gone! AT THIS AGE you need to decide what is acceptable in a relationship; you don’t always need to be forgiving especially if you are uncomfortable. Honestly, your list sound more like a older sister talking to their younger sibling? Have you asked your bf if rent was going to be 50/50? What if he makes more than you? How will the rent be split then? What about Chores? How long do you plan to live! together before marriage? Is he going to support your future career goals? And you for him? What relationship boundaries do you have? I’m not saying you shouldn’t move in together but you need to rethink your boundary list. If you have to tell your partner not to touch your stuff, have respectful friend over and respect your privacy he’s not the partner for you. BUT this is just my opinion.
Yeah I just noticed that, grooming may have been a part of their relationship. I’m starting to wonder how they meet, like was she his teacher? This may have been toxic from the start. It might be best to end it and get some therapy to figure out life going forward
Most guys his age jerk off 1-3x a day, every day. They can't even fall asleep at night otherwise. And these days, guys jerk off by watching porn most of the time. So he's going to be looking at porn every day, most likely.
You are right, logging into a dating sex site and flirting with other girls on sex sites crosses the line, and you're well within your rights not to tolerate that. How did he justify that particular behavior to you? A “porn addiction” doesn't explain that. I wouldn't trust him either, after that.
I think you missed the part where I insinuated that the phrase can easily be turned to “don't let crazy stick its dick in you”.
I realize “crazy” is a grossly misused term and can be very marginalizing, but the process of changing established language patterns is a long and often fruitless process, and heuristics often win out in the realm of common use.
Tell him, and I say this as someone with breast implants that I love, to fuck ALL the way off.
At 20 years old one of them should be if you cheat you are gone! AT THIS AGE you need to decide what is acceptable in a relationship; you don’t always need to be forgiving especially if you are uncomfortable. Honestly, your list sound more like a older sister talking to their younger sibling? Have you asked your bf if rent was going to be 50/50? What if he makes more than you? How will the rent be split then? What about Chores? How long do you plan to live! together before marriage? Is he going to support your future career goals? And you for him? What relationship boundaries do you have? I’m not saying you shouldn’t move in together but you need to rethink your boundary list. If you have to tell your partner not to touch your stuff, have respectful friend over and respect your privacy he’s not the partner for you. BUT this is just my opinion.
Yeah I just noticed that, grooming may have been a part of their relationship. I’m starting to wonder how they meet, like was she his teacher? This may have been toxic from the start. It might be best to end it and get some therapy to figure out life going forward
Most guys his age jerk off 1-3x a day, every day. They can't even fall asleep at night otherwise. And these days, guys jerk off by watching porn most of the time. So he's going to be looking at porn every day, most likely.
You are right, logging into a dating sex site and flirting with other girls on sex sites crosses the line, and you're well within your rights not to tolerate that. How did he justify that particular behavior to you? A “porn addiction” doesn't explain that. I wouldn't trust him either, after that.