Mom here. Okay. When I have big life things, I write. I don’t think. I just start writing about the topic. If I start thinking then I’ll write what I think I should do. If I just write then the answers appear. I think you could find the right questions and words that you can use if you do this. Give it a shot. I’m a big believer in communicating and asking the hot questions. Could be a big lesson and serve you for a long time.
Her telling you that she loves you are just empty words. That is all they are, just words. If those words were genuine she wouldnt have slept with the other guy. Because that is not what love is. She got her “closure” and now you are the back up. It is up to you if you want to be that. But i wouldnt advise to do it.
This is exactly why she should never see you again, she doesn’t need a disrespectful partner.
Mom here. Okay. When I have big life things, I write. I don’t think. I just start writing about the topic. If I start thinking then I’ll write what I think I should do. If I just write then the answers appear. I think you could find the right questions and words that you can use if you do this. Give it a shot. I’m a big believer in communicating and asking the hot questions. Could be a big lesson and serve you for a long time.
You're right it is, it's actually a serious criminal offence here.
Her telling you that she loves you are just empty words. That is all they are, just words. If those words were genuine she wouldnt have slept with the other guy. Because that is not what love is. She got her “closure” and now you are the back up. It is up to you if you want to be that. But i wouldnt advise to do it.