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I’d be gone so fast
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Wow, I didn’t even realize I said currently twice when I shouldn’t have said that at all. I was honestly expecting all the advice to just be “the grass is greener on the other side” stuff but your comment really has me thinking about it differently now.
Yep this is what I mean in my original comment. Sorry for generalizing but this is so common for men to not really get how to network and share/be vulnerable in appropriate ways to build nonromantic bonds. Gotta work on that homie…
Weird. I don't think becca would setup me up or accuse me of rape
I think he knows that. He simply doesn't want children. Not now, not ever, and he's agraif to tell you, so he's trying to postpone with very thin excuses. You have to make a decision now.
Exactly this. People being miserable here because of their shitty partners who they love so much that they’re slowly dying inside and then come to this sub to find some kind of magic spell which will turn them into amazing partners they wish for. Those don’t exist.
Let’s be primitive. Write a simple pros and cons list, but I dare you not to write one pro side on sixty different ways so you get an illusion of healthy love. People are wired to do that, but if you are aware of it, you should be able to rationalize what’s your next move.
And if you love him so damn much, then deal with it. I don’t mean to be rude, but that’s the sum of it.
So.. No he didn't give you permission to unblock exes but yes he gave you permission to do anything with his social media?
So is it yes or no? Cause that's contradicting. Regardless, you don't trust him.. I doubt looking for evidence is going to help this relationship. I'm sorry but a relationship without trust is doomed.
I don't know what social media is it. Does he use it a lot, does he chat with a lot of people? Or does he only chat with a handful. There's many reasons the chat could be in the box and it doesn't always have to be recent.
I have a shopping list of facts I'm curious about: – How old is he? – Is this other female a relative, friend, or former romantic partner? – Is there any romantic attraction between the two of them? – Have the two of them been through any traumatic experiences together? – Would you describe them as emotionally similar? – Are you emotionally similar or dissimilar to your boyfriend? – How long have you and your boyfriend been together?
Just be glad you found out who she was before you made kids with her.
very true feel like it's my fault for letting the red flags go by and for not thinking of therapy for him cause deep inside I feel he has more but just doesn't tell me
there’s nothing they have in common
What exactly does your 34 year old bf have in common with you? The average 30+ year old has zero interest in any 20 year old. Different life stages, different timelines, a maturity and life experience gap.
Weren't you two both around 16 when you got pregnant? She may be making some connection to that in her head.
Put a restraining order on your mother edit: I’m not joking.
Just one bit of advice: take all the time you need to heal from this.
You did all the right things. Make sure to get yourself tested for STIs, as there may hav even other exposures.
Go no contact. There isn’t anything to discuss at this point.
Remember: his infidelity has nothing to do with you. It was his choice, and he can live! with the consequences of your absence.
Be gentle with your heart, and give yourself some time to process it all.
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Oh, then I came across to strong giving reasons why I'm interested in this working, I always saw her as overly dramatic and sexually aggressive, part of why I ignored her, I had a crush on her when I married means more I wanted to stick parts of me into her because of her body, especially at the beginning I really had a low opinion of her it was towards the end when I noticed that she had began to be able to read my emotions that I became interested, and when we got to the point we started waving and talking about work related things, I noticed she was trying to know me instead of use me for my body, at that point my two weeks was already in and I didn't really get a chance to talk to her before I left, I don't think we'll ride off into the sunset together, more that I misjudged her, and want to try and see if it can go somewhere sorry I re read the original post and see the point your making, I hope that clears it up, also I appreciate your replying to the post I don't social media much, so I'm bad at getting thoughts in writing sometimes, but you've been very insightful and fun to talk to
Did you not see the part where he used HER debit card to buy her gift just today? With her in the car while he ran into Best Buy?
Wait, you paid with your own debit card even though he has a job?
Hmm what do you mean by unscathed? I doubt we’d get into a physical fight but I can see her doubling down. I think I’m capable of confrontation and don’t really want to have a rage at her if that’s what you mean
You knew this guy less than two weeks, never met in person, never even video chatted (?) and now you're
Now I can’t stop crying
Respectfully, grow up. If you cant handle someone ghosting you after barely 2 weeks of being pen pals, then you're definitely not ready for dating. Get a grip and get some therapy for your issues.
bcs you’re literally a booty call to him
I honestly can’t believe your boyfriend hasn’t broken up with you. There is no way I would believe you when you said there is nothing going on between you and Ed. Even if you haven’t physically cheated with Ed. You have been emotionally cheating on your boyfriend. You do realise that the only reason Ed is hanging around with you so much is because he wants to sleep with you. If you don’t believe that you are very very naive
Has he cheated in the past? Has he given you any other reason other than this to be suspicious of him? It seems a bit extreme for you to jump to this conclusion if he hasn’t. I can promise you, if our babysitter, who we trust with our children’s lives, was in a serious accident on her way home from our home, I’d be feeling the same way he is.
Vaginismus.
Book a consultation with a gynaecologist.
You said she “consented in the beginning” then you said she withdrew her consent. That is rape.
I never met their parents because we live in different countries. My ex parents know about me, we facetime before. But my current bf parents don't know about me.
She needs a lawyer asap! The boyfriend almost certainly has access to her ssn and personal documents.
This is not his only debt. OP needs to make sure her name didn’t get on any other loans..
In fact, why have a relationship subreddit at all, given that it boils down to asking a bunch of strangers for help, and asking for help is a no-no?
We just solved every relationship question forever: GROW UP AND TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY YOU LEECH. There, that was easy.
Marry her then the allowance is justifiable.
Think of it this day if you will: in ancient Roman times, there was no such thing as gay or straight of bisexual or other indentifications we are given today. The Romans often explored sexually, where younger men would often engage with an older, experienced man in order to learn about the pleasures of the world and their own desires. A man was simply a man, no matter his tastes (granted there were certain “rules” and such that could damage a man's image, but he was never labeled a gay man or what have you). I've always wished we followed the Romans in this to an extent, because labels seem to often be used to divide us, a system that can be used to discriminate.
The point is, who cares what the world would label you as. If you enjoy being with your friend then do it, and forget about whether or not you are gay or not. You are you, a label shouldn't define who that is.
Thank you for commenting. I see that I am the problem in this case… I think I am being paranoid maybe, because of bad examples I see live! etc. Just the other day I saw a post like “AITA for admitting my crush on my best friends bf” for example. These kind of stuff makes me paranoid, scared that there are people who can do anything to ruin something beautiful that I have. Can I ask your opinion tho; wouldn't you think he would at least put a little distance between himself and these people, for my sake? Not too much to hurt his job or his friendships, but to me, it looks like a little distance wouldn't hurt anything and would make me feel better.,
Im a little confused. Can u tell me more about this? We’re very playful and all, but the actual act just doesnt happen as much if i dont initiate
The cousin is a bitch.
You just went 0-100 from one question. Interesting.
After asking someone out and getting rejected, give them some space. If you are around them, say hi, but don't ask again unless it's been a while and you're relationship has changed (like you are close), and even then, asking again can make her feel bad or even harassed.
In this specific case, she said she'd let you know. So you can chat with her if you see her, but don't ask again. Or only invite to hang out as friends.
Please don’t shame me. It felt kinda easy to dismiss at first. I felt like the virginity thing just kinda happened and I didn’t really stop it from occurring so maybe he thought I had changed my mind. Then afterwards I just thought he had a higher sex drive than me and the relationship was still new and I was still trying to figure things out. But obviously it’s gotten worse over time now.
Same !! It's good motivation, when I've gained a few I love looking back on photos when I was feeling good about myself to get my ass back to the gym
When I ask that she stops nagging at me so much, she gets really upset and does things like says we won't be having any sex and generally denies it occurs or downplays the significance
This is defensiveness on her part. Google defensiveness in relationships to understand how problematic this is. It could be in reaction to how you bring up concerns (calling it nagging often triggers people) or issues she has with you (if you threaten and dismiss her concerns it increases the chance she’ll do that to you) but even if it was, her threatening no sex is just straight up shitty manipulative behavior. So that’s bad enough that it warrants couples therapy. Keep in mind though being as defensive as she is, couples therapy might not even work. And just putting up with it isn’t a good idea either as all that does is enable it to get worse and chip away at your mental health and the relationship overall. So do give therapy a try, and in the mean time enforce boundaries. If she doesn’t ask nicely, leave the room, if she threatens, leave the room, if she calls you childish leave the room. If you can’t discuss the problem so you can find a solution you’re both okay with and since she upsets you to the point you blow up, best option is just to leave right away when she starts in on you. You can’t control how she talks to you, but you don’t need to stay and listen to it.
There are loads of therapists out there with MSWs unless rhe entire profession has changed in the 5 years I've been out of the US.
No but she acted weird and she didn't tell me even I asked her 3 times she lied .she panicked and start to talk about other things when she knew that I found out
Run! You're in danger! Seriously leave right now.
Have you ever been to her place? Is it gross? Maybe she's just…not into hygiene and cleanliness. ?
I would empathize with him if he was doing literally anything to improve his situation
Ah I see, sorry for the confusion.
Then reverse it, make up something like “if you’re still heading to mine for coffee later, there seems to be some traffic around the city” or check the weather and say “looks like a nice night tonight, hopefully won’t need an umbrella”. Any casual observation that acknowledges the date and gives her a chance to say “oh cool, I’ll leave early” or “oh snap I forgot about tonight” will give you an answer.
But it changes the entire context of your post. The valentine's day stuff is the least of your worries.
That's really all that's needed to be said
Don't listen to this person regarding supposed “misogyny”. As someone very much on the anti-woke end of the classical liberal spectrum, who has a good social group of likeminded individuals, I've honestly never known a more decent bunch of fellows. Very committed to treating people as individuals, on their merits, regardless of their genitals or any other superficial attributes.
I suspect the above commenter has little personal experience outside of their bubble, and is repeating denigrating stereotypes designed to poison the mind against outgroups.
For a moment I forgot which sub this is in and I was ready to type, YTA!
A few things…
Firstly – she's right, it's not OK for you to tell her what she can do, where she can go and who she can spend her time with. However, it is ok for you to define your own boundaries and values, and choose towalk away in the case that they are not compatible.
Secondly – you're right, going clubbing on her own as an 18yo woman is not particularly safe. However, in your replies in this post, you've stated she didn't actually go out on her own, it was with a group that included her mother and mother's friends. So you've mischaracterised the issue, it's not that you don't like her going out alone, it's actually that you don't like her going out without you. So I don't think you're just worried about her safety, it's actually related to trust and/or jealousy.
If it's that you don't trust her: I would ask, why? Has she ever done anything to give you reason not to trust her in situations where she is out getting attention from other men? If not: ew, stop that. If yes: you guys need to talk about that, and get in the same page.
If it's about jealousy: ew, stop that. It's not attractive and it's not a nice trait in a partner. You have no right to be annoyed that she gets attention from men, unless she is absolutely going out if her way to play it up and lead them on.
And it it is genuinely about safety: yeah, imagine how it feels to be a woman! The world is full of creeps, we don't need our boyfriends to punish and victim blame us for things that asshole men do. Rather than trying to control her, how about you talk with her productively, eg learn what measures she has in place or what she plans to do if something happens. For example you could talk about protocols that make her a little bit safer, eg only drinking from bottles/cans, only going to bars that have 'ask for amber' style women's safety programs, or calling you or sharing her live! location the moment she feels threatened and is trying to get home. Be her supporter, not her controller.
Final reflection for you: I'm a 31yo woman, the only relationship I've had where my boyfriend told me where I couldn't go and who I couldn't see was abusive and very toxic. You should not expect to change her, you have no right. You can either find a common ground, or realise there is not one and that you are incompatible.
ok, thanks for your input. I'm not a troll but feel free to believe what you want.
She owned the house before we married. I have no rights to it. If I left she could change the locks and prevent me from coming home.
You broke up. Of course you both dated new people. This was 100% inevitable.
Stop getting back together with exes. Manufacturing this needless drama is the inevitable consequence of getting back together with your exe.
Your sister sucks and did exactly what she wanted, to sabotage your relationship.
She is entitled to her decision for any reason or no reason at all, even if her marriage ends as a result.
Move on ur not at a stable enough point in ur life to be in a relationship. Get ur shit together and focus on urself for a bit
Great information for all PIV sex-havers really! Sexual education is pretty terrible on the global scale. Of course, the first priory is preventing mistakes, but it’s vital to know how to recover from them.
It sounds like you're not compatible. You can't win him back and you can't convince him that this isn't a lot.
Like anything that could be a dealbreaker for a number of people, it's good to make sure that potential partners know about this at an early stage, so that you don't waste time getting attached to someone who is ultimately not right for you.
This is some great information for all you ladies to read.
Therapy. This would be a question you need to worth through with a therapist.
Don’t torture yourself. You’ll be forcing yourself to relive stuff, and what is the likelihood you’ll get a satisfactory response or update? Sometimes we think the knowing will help us move forward, to rationalize things in our mind, but that’s often not the case. No guarantee you’ll get an honest or helpful answer. Play it through in your mind, maybe ask what you would want to hear? And how likely you are to hear the ideal thing.
OK but it's not one tab on the web is it? It's one tab she found, now she knows you're a liar and she has no idea how many times you've lied. And since you've proven to be a liar she doesn't know if it's once every other month or 15x a day. Because you're a liar.
Also you do know masturbation is possible without porn, right?
As an older brother to a younger sister in her 2nd year residency:
CONGRATULATIONS, DOC!! You better walk that stage! And hire a photographer to take some bad ass graduation photos of yourself to look back on!
Also, be nice to your x-ray technologists 😀
Do you wear prom dresses for graduation? Which country are you from?
No surprise if they ask OP for money now that they're becoming a doctor because “family”
Is having an antivax bf a deal breaker for you?
If so, break up, there's nothing else to do and it's only sane – you are incompatible on a very basic level, trust in modern medicine – will you trust him to follow best medical practices if you're incapable of giving medical consent?
If not, then do whatever really – if course setting an ultimatum doesn't make sense, because you already said it's not a deal breaker so you won't leave him over this. You can't fix stupid, so it's very likely you can't convince him, even though you may try. He will continue to ignore the best safety guidelines and not get vaccinated, and you might have to deal with the consequences sometime down the line. I award you no points, and may the Flying Spaghetti Monster have mercy on your souls.
Someone needs to tell her. He’s put her and the baby’s health at risk. She needs to get tested for std/sti asap.
Spot on imo, life is really too short imo to waste it on people like those 2.
Good luck bud. Feel free to reach out if you ever need to.
Uhm I would have never gotten pregnant with a sociopath. He lacks empathy for other people? Disrespects your mom? Yeah I would be very worried. Not good.
Lol bro ur wife sounds boring she needs to find things to occupy her time outside of u and the kids
He's not that into you
This.
You know the saying ….don't stick your dick in crazy? The crazy is you! I hope you can leave it alone this time. Not only did you affect his trust in you because of your stunt. He likely will have trust issues in general.
Holy crap! Um… you were incredibly manipulative. To a point where I’d suggest mental health assistance. That is not healthy at all. And really gross.
Try not juggling guys
Run. This man lives and breathes lies. You will never get the whole truth and you will never know how deep it goes.
At least, that's the process that was required when my ex-boyfriend was dealing with manic depressive episodes and outbursts.
As others have said, you need to divorce your current husband. Get yourself, your son, and the pets away from him. It seems like you've spent your adult life trying to placate unreasonable men. Be single for a long time and maybe get some help to figure out why. What you're attracted to isn't just bad for you, it's bad for your son, so you need to change your perspective.
Honey he won't change, it's the tale as old as time bull cheaters say when there caught, your to young to be standing by a man who cant even figure out human decency.. which is to not fu#k another girl in the car you put money into??♀️
Stop worrying about trying to fix that idiot ex, block him everywhere, because they don't change they just get better at hiding and you will waste your time and energy and come out of it with nothing.
See how things go with new guy, he knows your story about ya ex so he knows your not down for anything to much right now.
Block your ex and live your life
You could always wait til you guys inevitably break up to get more tattoos.
Do you want a committed relationship? It's fine if you don't, there's nothing wrong with you or your standards. Just because your friends are married doesn't mean you have to follow in order to feel like you've lived. Seeking companionship is what you're doing. Take things slow and be alone for a moment. Find out what will make you happy, meet new people without the intnet to date. And no, you shouldn't have to up your standards if you've enjoyed your time with your past partners since there was nothing wrong with them either. Since you're in a new area, try investing in a new hobby- like taking a cooking class or painting. Be with just yourself to truly know what you need.
This. She probably senses you like her and doesn’t feel the same way. Or else she wouldn’t offer to bring her friends along each time.
I don’t want to plant ideas in your head, but have you confirmed you know his real name? Is there any chance he’s given you a nickname or alias and is married back home? Have you seen his social media?
Have you googled his phone number? Maybe it’s attached to some information live!. Like on Spokeo, white pages, or sites like the such. Also search the phone number on social media and payment apps? Maybe you can sus out whether there’s another name he goes by.
Don't think this is a duck and run situation. If this is the first time in that amount of time together I would talk to her about it and put some strategies for next time. Express how it was not okay to treat you like that. To everyone saying this leads to abuse, chill. Sometimes it can and I've seen this. I've also seen within myself someone who has gone through something similar to her, snapped and then reflected afterward and worked on it. It's more likely abuse if it happens repeatedly. For now, talk about it and see if she is sorry and does something about it. Everyone snaps once in a while and everyone is a jerk once in a while. What's important is wether they keep doing it or they work on it.