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Maddi Avalon, 26 y.o.
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Date: October 26, 2022
Who said I was ignoring advice? I literally said in other comments that I’m grateful for all the advice, and that people are right. I was just too stupid to see it cause he was my first
Divorce your wife. You made a lifelong commitment to her which included not having intimacy with someone else. It's pretty basic as a request. You don't HAVE to act on your desires for others, you simply WANT to. Plenty of people don't ever cheat regardless of having attraction for others. Divorce your wife because you don't respect her feelings enough to care about hurting them. If you cheat, it'll be a much nastier Divorce. If you want to keep your wife, then go get some therapy and learn some self control.
You need to tell him. To be honest, I hope it does break his heart because that means he believes you and loves you.
Maybe I've spent too much time in is sub, but there are so many stories of husbands but believing their wives, or worse yet, agreeing with their mothers.
He deserves to know. You deserve to know what kind of man he is.
I my partner my best friend? I’m broken up but he was and that was nice. Is YOUR partner you FRIEND at all? Cause he throws things at you and tells you to fuck up during regular conversations about normal ass shit. Not very front behaviour.
She clearly intentionally omitted information she thought you may find troubling. Big red flag that she’s more interested in herself than in your relationship
Me and my wife have been together now for 17years. It was supposed to be a one night stand. We ended up falling in love. Neither of us started out thinking it would be a lifelong commitment, yet here we are. At one time maybe that's what it was meant to be. But he fell in love. Odd that he would say that to a kid who 7 years ago was like what? 9 or 10? That part was a bit shocking to me i guess
I'd react like a mentally stable person who isn't a homophobe by…not caring. Do you go to bars?
He is cheating. I'm sorry. You can either put up with it and continue on with how things are (he will not change, so dont bother, accept it). Make an agreement to play house, and just be roommates or split up.
I dunno if you guys like books, but my SO and I have been long distance for 3.5 years and I love to read aloud and he doesn't like to read but likes to listen, so I read to him while he games or paints or just cuddles up in bed. So maybe find a book that both of you want to try and read it together that way!
If you yield to what your parents want, they won't stop there. They will demand that you do more things in the ways they would do them, not in the ways that will be better for your own life. What will they do, select a spouse for you? And what if you don't even like this person, you have to accept anyway because if you don't your parents will cut you off? Also I don't know if you're planning on having children, but if you do, what happens when your parents demand that you educate them in a certain way and you refuse, will your parents again threaten to cut you and your children off? What will your parents do next, select the exact company you should work on and get you the job even if you are miserable there?
Your parents might have opinions but ultimately your life is yours and you have to online it daily. If they want to choose not to be in your life, it's their loss, but you can't let them dictate every step you take, it never ends if you let them do that.
You are nasty and selfish. His kid is and should be his priority and with that comes the mother of the child. Clearly you’re not going to accept that, so you should end it and find someone without a kid as you are obviously not ready to take on that responsibility. Grow up.
This is more of a general statement since we don't know anything about the girl you're talking to, but for some people who broke up amicably, they still enjoy having their ex in their lives for many reasons that isn't sexual or romantic. Yes there's history, but your idea of “moving on” does not have to include cutting out someone in their life that they respect and trust enough to continue being friends with.
And it's disrespectful of you to create a “hypothetical” ultimatum and get upset that she wouldn't want to cut someone out of her life for a guy who's just being insecure. You can try to turn it into a “she cares more about her friendship than her relationship” situation, but will happen is that she will choose the person who didn't make her choose.
Honestly I usually agree with the poster in this one but no. She cheated with his friend while he was serving his country. You say ten years is enough helll no. He found someone he loved and knew what he wanted. Did he go about it wrong sure. Unfortunately everything leads back to Sarah’s own choices.
Your bf is right. Just leave it alone
I think you need couples counselling. You both had terrible birth experiences, you outside the room and unable to see your baby, her inside thinking she’d been betrayed and lied to in the worst way at the most vulnerable time in her life and looking at a lifetime of single motherhood rather than the future she had been planning with you. And it’s not like the relationship was great and she had no reason to believe the ex, you had broken up 3 days before her due date.
You’ve both been harmed by this and need the support, time and space to heal. This is going to be extremely challenging as parents of a newborn, you’re going to be stressed, sleep deprived and anxious. Get counselling, even if the romantic relationship is doomed, the coparenting relationship can be saved.
For what it’s worth, there are a million amazing moments with babies and kids. You missed one of them. Doing the work to build a health co parenting relationship will prevent you from missing even more moments. You have first words, first steps, first smile, school plays, Christmas concerts, etc in your future. If this relationship stays unhealthy you’re going to miss 50% of all the other moments.
What happened to your other post about this?
Well, at this point unless she has a proper yandere snap or something, I don't think I am in active danger. I intend to follow your advice here as much as I actively can. On top of that, Sue will also not be ever alone anywhere with Wendy and my friends who had befriended Wendy as well are all now in “good riddance” mode. Safe to say, she's lost all friends on campus.
social repercussions
No guarantee for the clear on that, sadly
It is hot enough to manage others' feelings towards ourselves.
It's nearly impossible to manage others' feelings towards others.
I highly doubt you'll be able to fix this. At best, she learns to online with it.
To answer your questions:
Are either of you seeing other people? Do either of you have a desire to see other people?
Not at the moment and not on my side. Life's as a single mom is already difficult as it is.
When was the last time you talked about “no labels no feelings”?
When we figured out to be “exclusive”? So, some few years back?
What does he call you to other people? Is there a chance he says “my girlfriend”?
Definitely not, very few people know anyways, might cost him his job.
I really don't think we do that many (if any) exclusively bf/gf things, it's all something I see being done for a friend too. Still, a lot of you brought it up which got me thinking how far things got between us and if he might have changed his mind regarding our nonrelationship.
I agree with this, I will say though, if it becomes obsessive, it's also okay to say, gently: “We've gone through this many times today, I understand you're struggling, I still find you beautiful, but I think we need to change the topic now”. Or something similar. I know I can sometimes circle topics, not on purpose, and I need a reminder that I'm doing it. It's not always helpful going in circles like that.
So what boundary did he cross? You don’t allow him to interact with women at all?
Beer pong at a party is a nothing burger. It is not sexual or intimate at all. It would be like finding him sitting on a couch watching a football game.
You stranding him at a party for this is passive aggressive and controlling.
Your boyfriend is blaming you for being assaulted. He was terrible before, and he's worse now. Please remove this person from your life. So glad you're finally getting the help you need.
If you are unhappy and don’t see a future, leave now. There’s no point in stringing her along. You cannot base your future on the fact that someone new won’t have met your father. Your father would never want you to stay in a toxic relationship because of that. She doesn’t get to control what tv shows you watch, and saying it’s disrespectful is ridiculous. Tv isn’t real. She needs help getting over her jealousy issues. Texting your ex is one thing I can see her being upset about. It’s time for both of you to move on.
He ruined his family; not you.
Hey OP, this man does not respect you. So please respect yourself and leave. You’ll be so much happier for it.
Dude, it doesn't matter if it's only texting. I mean I don't buy that for a second, but even if it's the truth it changes nothing. She cheated! A demand to completely cut off the person she cheated with is a reasonable boundary to set and one that most people would set, too! Her being in any type of contact with him, even most innocent cat memes, is a legit dealbreaker.
Ofc I don’t think my art is perfect but the thing is that I’m not a professional, I’m not planning to be a professional and in a situation when he asks me to show my works and says stuff like that, for me, it’s the “but it’s you who’s calling” situation
I never got an STD but got an infection and the girl was denying she had anything, probably too naive to know some infections aren't ” standard ” . If you got chlamydia it's 100% him and he is bs you.
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Men don’t leave the relationship because they don’t value the other person’s experience and because they’re satisfied having the wife roll adequately filled; they don’t want to manage their own domestic life. That’s what women are for, right???
“Shock me once, shame on you…shock me twice….”
So, you want a fuckbuddy but are scared to tell the truth just so you can use her?
So, you want a fuckbuddy but are scared to tell the truth just so you can use her?
Absolutely. It’s been very hot finding a woman who I find attractive AND shares values for the future. I was hoping to get some advice to at least confront this aspect of this relationship and see if it’s something that can be worked on
Offer her the choice then accept her answer whatever it is. All you can do
Can't say I'd recommend telling him ever, but you seem to already be pretty far in the deep end of things I wouldn't recommend.
i had this surgery couple of years ago, i recommend it 100%. it sucks to wait for sex after the surgery but it was worth 100%. i cant believe he dont want to do it. befor the surgery i pretty much lost all interest in sex cuz there was a 80% chance i rip myself open.
and i didn't lose any feeling in my penis, so there is no worries at all. if anything the worst part was the needle for numbing my penis. that was really painful.
Try r/cooking subreddit real nice ppl over there. I am 31M and had the same issues starting around October of last year. Doctor put me on paleo diet (google will help better than I can explain) and my gf is pescatarian so now I eat mostly fish instead of meat. Very few stomach issues as of late. Mushrooms really helped my guy I eat portabellas almost daily. Kind of exciting learning experience for your husband wish you both the best
I want to call the police on you. Youre an abusive rapist.
I get her point. She’s non-confrontational and this was easier. She told you. You shouldn’t be upset.
Wow, his is he to know what you needed? No empathy form him, all his actions point to him being selfish. All he cares about is his camping trip, his birthday and not your health.
2 years even 20 years, you don’t have to take this kind of disrespect. Ask yourself if this is what you really want in a partner. This is his behavior when he says he loves you, what would it be if he didn’t?
We spoke before and we ended up breaking up he admitted to his crimes ??
How can you say he doesn't like her more than you? You're speculating just as much as everyone else, only difference is no one here is thinking about telling the friend. You keep saying you're not jealous, which might be the case, but you are very full of yourself.
If she's attractive, then that's what you get for being image focused. My partner's parents did something similar (very image focused, she has fake tits, everything is very fake (I'm more referring to their lifestyle, not how she looks. They spend a lot of money just on pretending to be rich and happy). My partner's mum and dad met when she was pregnant to another dude. They raised the child as her husband's, and told everyone, even the child that the husband is the father. He was 34 when he found out he had a different bio dad. None of the sons speak to her anymore. It seriously affected even my partner's ability to trust women
I’d be annoyed by you too
Firstly, it's essential to acknowledge your conflicting feelings and desires. Wanting to experience single life and personal growth is a valid aspiration, but so is the desire for a committed relationship with someone you care about deeply. These desires do not have to be mutually exclusive, but it's crucial to determine which one you prioritize more at this point in your life.
Secondly, it would be helpful to talk to your girlfriend about your internal conflict. Communication is critical in any relationship, and it's better to be open and honest with her about your thoughts and feelings. If you're unsure how to express your thoughts, consider speaking with a therapist or counselor to help you articulate your emotions and thoughts better.
Lastly, it's worth considering how your decisions may affect your girlfriend's feelings and the future of your relationship. If you do decide to prioritize your personal growth, it's essential to discuss how that affects your relationship with your girlfriend, as it may change the dynamics of your relationship and her future plans.
Why are you involved in her sex life at all? How do you even know this? You need to find a different hobby.
report ur car stolen, kick her out of ur life
People on Reddit are simpletons and lack critical thinking most times.
Yes. One time on the 5th floor on the other side of the hallway, it sounded like somebody with high heels was walking, but when I looked to see who it was nobody was there.
are you insinuating she is trying to manipulate him? im confused by ur comment and testimony
Girl, just leave. He doesn’t respect a reasonable boundary.