If this happened before you got with him, you knew about her and their friendship, they didn't sleep together, became friends when no spark occurred, and his tinder is deleted, I think you can relax a bit. However, you should talk about your insecurities in social settings. Let him know you need his reassurance to boost your confidence.
Make him picture that he could literally be her father…! If this will not be enough, ask him to picture HIS daughter at her age, being intimate with an older guy, of his actual age…!
While this is most probably the correct answer it’s kind of funny because these kind of reasonable comments are not found in reversed roles. Imagine the husband says he would give her sex before cooking a meal on her birthday while she really doesn’t want it.
Then being cold and hurt about her not wanting it.
The shit show in these comments. People really have to reflect sometimes.
It’s clear he isn’t interested in making you happy. You can’t be a team by yourself. Your trying so hot to save a bad marriage. Move back to Miami single.
She's single and living her life. Has she even given you any indication she wants to get back together with you? If not then you're just judging her for no reason.
First, you need to be informed more about anal sex. You seem to like butt play, but are afraid of the consequences. You need to study this issue more, and it makes total sense. You are young and you do not want a prolapsed butthole. Read a lot about anal sex for beginners, etc.
Second, you say “I’ve already told him that I want to try it in the future and how kinda scared I am. He understands that.” And then, he does not. He is insisting, refusing, scared, made feel really sad, ultimatum.
That is not being understanding. That is pressuring and not a good partner. But he is very young, and so are you. Communication is key, and it is a bit messy, but if you want to give him the benefit, talk this with him. But if you don't, you do not owe him anything.
Third. Please both of you look at sex books together, you will find the clitoris muscle, the G spot, the difference between urethra and vagina, the differences in stimulation for women and men, and so many wonderful things. But you will not find that you urine will dye his penis yellow, unless you maybe pee on him.
Good luck. Try not to agree to anything you do not want sexually, if you do, be kind to yourself and figure out what and why you agreed and why you did not like it.
Ah yes a one sentence comment is equal to pissing my pants. When in reality it's just me killing time on the shitter, hence my not replying to every post due to that taking far more time than I care to put in.
Also let me know when you never mention anything negative in your life , since it would be a “waste of time”.
She might not have actually wanted another kid but maybe didn’t feel like she could share that with him. Or maybe she was ok with one more kid but specifically wanted a baby and not a teen. We only know what op is sharing with us.
And what are you going to do when your daughter refuses to come over any more and your wife picks one of the other kids? Because I'd put money on that. Abusers don't just magically get better when their victim is removed. They just find another victim.
And FYI, my dude, you can attend therapy without your wife. You might wanna try that.
Tell your manager a customer has sexually propositioned you. You don't need him coming in and leering at you or making little comments under the guise of being just another paying customer. It's not your fault that your manager is also his daughter. Hopefully someone in this equation will have the guts to tell his wife he's out here acting like he's in a porno.
Also, him acknowledging that he's old as fuck and still going for it like he genuinely had a chance with you gave me the biggest eyeroll.
I don’t know about the situation, but is there not a way for you to get a 6040 custody arrangement? It just really seems unfair for your life to be altered so significantly by his selfish actions. Isn’t there a way to prove that his children seeing him 10 to 20% of the time would cause irreparable damage to their relationship and be detrimental to the children’s growth and development?
Statistically children are better off with their fathers playing a more active role in their lives could that not somehow be used in court to give a much more fair custody arrangement?
Don't go into a relationship expecting someone to change.
You take them as they are. If you don't like them 6 months in, you're never going to.
Find someone that's more compatible.
If this happened before you got with him, you knew about her and their friendship, they didn't sleep together, became friends when no spark occurred, and his tinder is deleted, I think you can relax a bit. However, you should talk about your insecurities in social settings. Let him know you need his reassurance to boost your confidence.
Make him picture that he could literally be her father…! If this will not be enough, ask him to picture HIS daughter at her age, being intimate with an older guy, of his actual age…!
While this is most probably the correct answer it’s kind of funny because these kind of reasonable comments are not found in reversed roles. Imagine the husband says he would give her sex before cooking a meal on her birthday while she really doesn’t want it.
Then being cold and hurt about her not wanting it.
The shit show in these comments. People really have to reflect sometimes.
It’s clear he isn’t interested in making you happy. You can’t be a team by yourself. Your trying so hot to save a bad marriage. Move back to Miami single.
She's single and living her life. Has she even given you any indication she wants to get back together with you? If not then you're just judging her for no reason.
It seems you have several issues here.
First, you need to be informed more about anal sex. You seem to like butt play, but are afraid of the consequences. You need to study this issue more, and it makes total sense. You are young and you do not want a prolapsed butthole. Read a lot about anal sex for beginners, etc.
Second, you say “I’ve already told him that I want to try it in the future and how kinda scared I am. He understands that.” And then, he does not. He is insisting, refusing, scared, made feel really sad, ultimatum.
That is not being understanding. That is pressuring and not a good partner. But he is very young, and so are you. Communication is key, and it is a bit messy, but if you want to give him the benefit, talk this with him. But if you don't, you do not owe him anything.
Third. Please both of you look at sex books together, you will find the clitoris muscle, the G spot, the difference between urethra and vagina, the differences in stimulation for women and men, and so many wonderful things. But you will not find that you urine will dye his penis yellow, unless you maybe pee on him.
Good luck. Try not to agree to anything you do not want sexually, if you do, be kind to yourself and figure out what and why you agreed and why you did not like it.
Like I’m imaging this man stocking up on Japanese Cherry Blossom
Ah yes a one sentence comment is equal to pissing my pants. When in reality it's just me killing time on the shitter, hence my not replying to every post due to that taking far more time than I care to put in.
Also let me know when you never mention anything negative in your life , since it would be a “waste of time”.
Leave.
Pack your stuff while she’s asleep. And leave.
Block her on everything.
This would be a deal breaker, not for the poster, but the complete lack of respect.
I know people that take on another living creature and then actually consider abandoning it because their choice in humans is abysmal.
She might not have actually wanted another kid but maybe didn’t feel like she could share that with him. Or maybe she was ok with one more kid but specifically wanted a baby and not a teen. We only know what op is sharing with us.
And what are you going to do when your daughter refuses to come over any more and your wife picks one of the other kids? Because I'd put money on that. Abusers don't just magically get better when their victim is removed. They just find another victim.
And FYI, my dude, you can attend therapy without your wife. You might wanna try that.
Tell your manager a customer has sexually propositioned you. You don't need him coming in and leering at you or making little comments under the guise of being just another paying customer. It's not your fault that your manager is also his daughter. Hopefully someone in this equation will have the guts to tell his wife he's out here acting like he's in a porno.
Also, him acknowledging that he's old as fuck and still going for it like he genuinely had a chance with you gave me the biggest eyeroll.
I don’t know about the situation, but is there not a way for you to get a 6040 custody arrangement? It just really seems unfair for your life to be altered so significantly by his selfish actions. Isn’t there a way to prove that his children seeing him 10 to 20% of the time would cause irreparable damage to their relationship and be detrimental to the children’s growth and development?
Statistically children are better off with their fathers playing a more active role in their lives could that not somehow be used in court to give a much more fair custody arrangement?