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I wouldnt be w someone who was blantantly checking out my friend, wanting to kiss them etc and then “oop i don't remember that”. like how disrespectful.
Yeah, not good that you went through the phone but obvs something was justified in your mind to check it out.
“Orbiter” nice. I never heard that before. I was definitely that. I understand my mistakes fully now. She knew what i wanted so i was the onlyone affected. Cant be helped now.
Tell her she ha pulled away from you for her experiences and you are losing you love for her and maybe you should split up o she can go be with the other guy she wanted to cheat on you with, oh I mean have an open relationship for.
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The next time he does it, he’s going to pull the damn trigger and you’ll be dead. For what? A man who treats you like shit? A man who mentally and verbally abuses you? A man who points at shotgun at someone’s HEAD? Call the police and leave before he seriously murders you. It’s not a matter of if now, it’s a matter of when will he kill you. Will he wait until you’re asleep? Or will he do it while you’re conscious?
Aside from the weird haircut in the second pick these are very normal looking baby pictures. Either your gf was trying to be mean funny about it or she's actually delusional
Give her some parting advice for her next dating app profile and tell her to include: “it’s more important that you be performative in expressing that you love me publicly than actually loving me”.
If you want to save your relationship, have her get some counseling to deal with her irrational insecurity.
'Listening to him try to blame everything on his bipolar disorder just made me angrier. '
Let's just pause for a moment and think about this. If he has bi-polar disorder, one of the symptoms can be inappropriate sexual behaviour (see Vivian Leigh's biography for an example). However, this is only true if the sufferer is not on any medication. With the correct balance of medication bi-polar sufferers can cope with life just fine.
If, however, he is NOT on any medical regimen, you have far bigger problems than him banging his ex-step sister. Uncontrolled bi-polar sufferers can he literally hell to on-line with (I have personal experience here) Up to and including violence.
So consider the following points carefully:
Has he been correctly diagnosed by a competent psychiatrist?
Is he on any medication?
Has he shown this kind of reckless behaviour in the past?
Is he generally faithful and kind and is this noticeably out of his usual behaviour pattern?
Can you online with the answers?
Living with bi-polar disorder always involves two sufferers – one who has it, and the other who is on the receiving end of it.
Think long and naked before you consider forgiving him and taking him back to try again.
It's funny because I can see everyones concern here but most of us don't download the porn we watch. I feel like it looks worse than it is because dude saves shit. If this is a dealbreaker that's up to you but I can't help but feel like if I downloaded every porn video I watched from a small fry until a few years ago and organized it nicely my gf wouldn't be happy about it, but she 100% doesn't care if I watch porn. Maybe the content is what is throwing you off but that's what I see in this.
If he is downloading 20 videos a day that would say to me he has a problem tho.
But what she really wants is to do nothing. She wants you to pay her bills, cook and clean. You're too old for this nonsense. Both of you should be sharing in the household chores.
Some people have expressed skepticism about my story, and even I will admit that it is a crazy one.
I would barely believe it myself, if I hadn't lived through it, and have so much evidence in the form of notes and Messenger conversations saved. I'm the kind of guy that if I express strong feelings about factual events, I can prove them to the legal standard of “beyond reasonable doubt.
I am still friends with her ex-obviously, he knows it's a true, if horrifying story.
I am also still friends with her mom and stepdad, and they are convinced of my story. They have seen too much evidence. They are like “we tried to warn you about her, but you wouldn't listen.” They have been trying to convince her that she at least owes me an apology. Which would be nice, but to apologize, she would have to admit having done something wrong.
Been there recently. These feelings will continue to be reinforced by his actions as you stay together.
How does he react when you try and communicate your needs in the relationship? Does he interpret it as an attack or criticism of himself? Does that derail the conversation so it gets twisted and he starts demanding his needs be met instead?
Do you look back and realise you’ve been the one doing things that make the relationship easier for him to be in? You are now beginning to resent this and lose respect for him because the effort is going one way.
Selfish people end up in relationships with people who give them the love and attention they believe they are entitled to. This dynamic means they don’t need to “try harder” to get what they want, and therefore dismiss their partner’s needs and wants as unimportant factors to their own wellbeing. They don’t see it as a partnership, the relationship is there to serve them. If the partner stays long-term, this dynamic becomes the status quo. When the partner tries to communicate their needs and wants, it is interpreted as a challenge to the selfish partner’s sense of security and they will react by fighting the “threat” and restoring the power balance that serves them.
Oh my word, he’s a bottomless pit, so if you want to spend your life saving him from drowning, I guess that’s your prerogative.
Black holes swallow everything around them, are you willing to sacrifice your existence for his?
I hope you can get free before you waste years and miss a partner that may actually be an equal partner. The sooner you leave him, the kinder it will be, eventually whatever remains of you will run, but it will take years to find yourself at that point.
How would you explain why this is insensitive and disrespectful?
It's painful to see that OP is asking this, when she has already done so and failed miserably. Like she's seeking the magic formula that will hammer this most basic of principles governing respect into this jerk's selfish inconsiderate mind.
So first of all, yelling is always a red flag in my book and indicates that a lack of communication. I understand where you’re coming from and I would also be a bit uncomfortable in your situation. In the end it comes down to whether or not he acts on the stuff written.
However, you’re in a situation where you’re trying be reassuring that you shouldn’t worry and him becoming defensive and yelling is of course going to have the opposition effect and make you more uncomfortable.
If these are girls he regularly hang out with and they know about your relationship I would find it very disrespectful that they write those things in his shirt.
I wouldnt be w someone who was blantantly checking out my friend, wanting to kiss them etc and then “oop i don't remember that”. like how disrespectful.
Yeah, not good that you went through the phone but obvs something was justified in your mind to check it out.
I literally didn’t even read the post before I knew you should dump his ass. You’re too old to deal with that kind of immature misogynist bullshit.
“Orbiter” nice. I never heard that before. I was definitely that. I understand my mistakes fully now. She knew what i wanted so i was the onlyone affected. Cant be helped now.
Thank you. I feel I'm going to be telling her after Christmas, this whole thing is eating me alive
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Tell her she ha pulled away from you for her experiences and you are losing you love for her and maybe you should split up o she can go be with the other guy she wanted to cheat on you with, oh I mean have an open relationship for.
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Don't worry about the porn. Worry about the attempted deception.
The next time he does it, he’s going to pull the damn trigger and you’ll be dead. For what? A man who treats you like shit? A man who mentally and verbally abuses you? A man who points at shotgun at someone’s HEAD? Call the police and leave before he seriously murders you. It’s not a matter of if now, it’s a matter of when will he kill you. Will he wait until you’re asleep? Or will he do it while you’re conscious?
Not just a carrot, a child they didn’t want in the first place…
Girl… you're spending WAY too much emotional energy on a guy who literally does not love you. Let that sink in. You are so young, please leave him.
A single man had sex with an ex. I see no issue here.
Aside from the weird haircut in the second pick these are very normal looking baby pictures. Either your gf was trying to be mean funny about it or she's actually delusional
Let her leave you.
Give her some parting advice for her next dating app profile and tell her to include: “it’s more important that you be performative in expressing that you love me publicly than actually loving me”.
If you want to save your relationship, have her get some counseling to deal with her irrational insecurity.
I know but i love her and she reassures me she loves me, just her actions confise me
Projecting what?
Yeah, I'd relax. If you're gonna be worked up over little things like this, it's going to be a long trying life together.
I don't trust their assessments of their capability to execute those intentions in different circumstances.
That's the problem. If you can't trust your partner to execute their intentions to not cheat on you, that's a problem.
She’s a cheater plain and simple because she’s only sorry after being caught and it’s not the guilt
'Listening to him try to blame everything on his bipolar disorder just made me angrier. '
Let's just pause for a moment and think about this. If he has bi-polar disorder, one of the symptoms can be inappropriate sexual behaviour (see Vivian Leigh's biography for an example). However, this is only true if the sufferer is not on any medication. With the correct balance of medication bi-polar sufferers can cope with life just fine.
If, however, he is NOT on any medical regimen, you have far bigger problems than him banging his ex-step sister. Uncontrolled bi-polar sufferers can he literally hell to on-line with (I have personal experience here) Up to and including violence.
So consider the following points carefully:
Has he been correctly diagnosed by a competent psychiatrist?
Is he on any medication?
Has he shown this kind of reckless behaviour in the past?
Is he generally faithful and kind and is this noticeably out of his usual behaviour pattern?
Can you online with the answers?
Living with bi-polar disorder always involves two sufferers – one who has it, and the other who is on the receiving end of it.
Think long and naked before you consider forgiving him and taking him back to try again.
So she tested yesterday and 1/3 of the tests read positive but the other 2 were negative so I don’t know what to think at this point
I feel like he’s really depressed right now be issue his family is battling cancer and he has a new job. I just want to help ?
It's funny because I can see everyones concern here but most of us don't download the porn we watch. I feel like it looks worse than it is because dude saves shit. If this is a dealbreaker that's up to you but I can't help but feel like if I downloaded every porn video I watched from a small fry until a few years ago and organized it nicely my gf wouldn't be happy about it, but she 100% doesn't care if I watch porn. Maybe the content is what is throwing you off but that's what I see in this.
If he is downloading 20 videos a day that would say to me he has a problem tho.
He sounds like a complete bore
What an insecure pathetic individual
Feel sorry for him because he has to on-line in that sad little head
You're 19 – in 20 years time he'll be that weird guy you dated for a while
You literally ruined her night by worrying about other peoples experience at the concert.
I bet it feels GREAT!! I am petty and I'd unblock him just for a bit once I found a better partner, just to rub it in xD
But what she really wants is to do nothing. She wants you to pay her bills, cook and clean. You're too old for this nonsense. Both of you should be sharing in the household chores.
Some people have expressed skepticism about my story, and even I will admit that it is a crazy one.
I would barely believe it myself, if I hadn't lived through it, and have so much evidence in the form of notes and Messenger conversations saved. I'm the kind of guy that if I express strong feelings about factual events, I can prove them to the legal standard of “beyond reasonable doubt.
I am still friends with her ex-obviously, he knows it's a true, if horrifying story.
I am also still friends with her mom and stepdad, and they are convinced of my story. They have seen too much evidence. They are like “we tried to warn you about her, but you wouldn't listen.” They have been trying to convince her that she at least owes me an apology. Which would be nice, but to apologize, she would have to admit having done something wrong.
Been there recently. These feelings will continue to be reinforced by his actions as you stay together.
How does he react when you try and communicate your needs in the relationship? Does he interpret it as an attack or criticism of himself? Does that derail the conversation so it gets twisted and he starts demanding his needs be met instead?
Do you look back and realise you’ve been the one doing things that make the relationship easier for him to be in? You are now beginning to resent this and lose respect for him because the effort is going one way.
Selfish people end up in relationships with people who give them the love and attention they believe they are entitled to. This dynamic means they don’t need to “try harder” to get what they want, and therefore dismiss their partner’s needs and wants as unimportant factors to their own wellbeing. They don’t see it as a partnership, the relationship is there to serve them. If the partner stays long-term, this dynamic becomes the status quo. When the partner tries to communicate their needs and wants, it is interpreted as a challenge to the selfish partner’s sense of security and they will react by fighting the “threat” and restoring the power balance that serves them.
Does this sound familiar?
Oh my word, he’s a bottomless pit, so if you want to spend your life saving him from drowning, I guess that’s your prerogative.
Black holes swallow everything around them, are you willing to sacrifice your existence for his?
I hope you can get free before you waste years and miss a partner that may actually be an equal partner. The sooner you leave him, the kinder it will be, eventually whatever remains of you will run, but it will take years to find yourself at that point.
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How would you explain why this is insensitive and disrespectful?
It's painful to see that OP is asking this, when she has already done so and failed miserably. Like she's seeking the magic formula that will hammer this most basic of principles governing respect into this jerk's selfish inconsiderate mind.
So first of all, yelling is always a red flag in my book and indicates that a lack of communication. I understand where you’re coming from and I would also be a bit uncomfortable in your situation. In the end it comes down to whether or not he acts on the stuff written.
However, you’re in a situation where you’re trying be reassuring that you shouldn’t worry and him becoming defensive and yelling is of course going to have the opposition effect and make you more uncomfortable.
If these are girls he regularly hang out with and they know about your relationship I would find it very disrespectful that they write those things in his shirt.