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Do not drag it out. Stop spending time with her family. Definitely don’t celebrate your anniversary or spend Christmas together. Stop giving her false hope. Just rip the bandaid off.
Barbiturates are common for drugging. They treat for those during SANE exams.
I think self love (masterbation) is really important for ones mental health. I also don't agree that any of that behavior is cheating. If he was talking to someone, trying to get in their pants, it would be different. But jerking it to some pics? Not a big deal. Not cheating, in my opinion. Clearly, you don't feel the same way. If you feel it's cheating, you should set some boundaries. See if he can deal with it. But it's not too likely that he will. Since you're trying to control what he does, alone, with his own body.
You don't have to provide her with a, “valid,” reason. Your dissatisfaction is reason enough. Your feelings of disconnect are reason enough.
First, I hope you reported that Lyft driver. And your BF wants a GF but wants to make no effort. That's really not any kind of relationship. What makes it worth it to stay with him – especially after his non-reaction to your Lyft experience?
Don't be afraid to be alone – you deserve better.
He doesn't put work into pleasing you but suggested you put more work into things?? What?
His porn consumption is not normal or healthy and is absolutely the root issue for you guys in the bedroom. I'd talk with him about it, and set firm boundaries. This has to change or I'm out. Of course I wouldn't blame you if you just left! Three years is a long time to go thru this as the partner. A long time of having your self esteem fly all over the place while he's getting his cake and eating it.
He should be bending over(lol) to please you at this point not the other way around.
Really had to make a post because… He got your MIDDLE name slightly wrong? Lmao
In “healthy, committed relationships”, people don't worry about past sexual experiences that their partner has had (unless there are circumstances that give them reason to be concerned). If you're with someone who has had sex before, then part of accepting them as a person is accepting that they've felt that desire / intimacy for and had special moments with someone else.
That's not to say that your feelings aren't valid, because no one likes to think about the person they love doing the things they do with them now with someone else. It's uncomfortable, and that's a natural feeling and reaction. I understand that.
However, the way you reacted to your girlfriend probably made her feel really, really badly, and ashamed of it.
So because of that, I think it would be a good idea to have a conversation with her. Let her know how you feel, that it isn't your fault, and give her an opportunity to express her feelings to you as well. And hopefully you both will find the reassurance you need from that to move forward.
Tummy bug. No one wants someone with vomiting and d…. at a Christmas gathering
Honestly this was such an amusing post to read lol. Just have a good game and match her level of ability so it can be interesting for the both of you. Maybe if she really knows nothing teach her about it a bit. But dont completely wipe the board again and again it will get boring for her fast. Also if yourself is sending pilk memes, just find someone who gets you on that level not someone who thinks it's weird.
Simple, dont waste time or wnergy on cheaters. It sucks being alone, i know, but its worse being with someone who doesnt love you and betrays you.
He’s incredibly selfish. You need to really think about if this is what you really want in a partner.
1st the woman is not your friend at all, never was. Why would she hold on to that message for all these years other than to one day use it against you when SHE needed to feel good about herself? She knew when she came to your house she would make sure to tell you and show you that message because her own marriage failed and she was jealous & wanted to hurt you as bad as she was hurting. She knew exactly what she was doing. Because deep down…listen this is very important……deep down she knew he chose you. No matter what he said back then he chose you. Yeah he may have asked her out but he chose you. He married you. He had kids w you. He built his life w you. He loves you.
2nd we all get cold feet before a wedding. Some of us do stupid things before our wedding. He did a stupid thing. But it doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you or want to be w someone else. He is with you. He still wants you.
I know you’re hurting and you’ve gotten tons of advice but please under no circumstances let your husband sleep w anyone else because if you do there will be absolutely no chance of reconciliation. If you allow him to do that and he does you’ll hate him. So, please don’t get into that. You shouldn’t make big decisions like this when you’re depressed because in that state bad decisions sound good at the time and we can even convince ourselves it’s the right thing to do. So please don’t do that.
Lastly I can tell by your wording that you’re a beautiful person. You write w so much love for your husband. He sees you. He loves you and the 2 of you have been apart for a year. The longer you’re apart the harder it will be to find yourselves again. There has to be some part of you that still loves him. But being roommates is making things a lot worse. Try giving each other one date night. Just you & him. You don’t have to touch each other but just being alone together for a meal. Maybe just small talk. No mention of marriage or what happened etc. just the 2 of you alone to try to start reconciling.
Remember he chose you, he married you and he loves you. The “friend” got exactly what she wanted. She wanted to drive y’all apart. Take back your life from her because even a year later she still has your marriage held hostage. Take it back from her and take her power away.
I truly wish y’all the best of luck and hope y’all find each other again
Just get a bidet you heathen!
Luckily breaking up is a unilateral decision. It doesn’t even require a long conversation. Tell him you’ve communicated your needs in the relationship many times and given him multiple opportunities to change and he’s chosen to ignore them, so you’re done.
If he really wants to make it work, the break up will be a wake-up call and he’ll start putting in an effort. If he doesn’t, you’ll know he was never going to prioritize you anyway.
The slow back-away is just another way for him to keep you on the hook without having to make any changes himself. Sounds like a pretty good deal for him.
Usually when we used condoms they were the free ones planned parenthood gives out ? we have used Trojan in the past but we’d use the ribbed ones which I know are orange. Maybe I don’t trust him, being together for so long and meeting at such a young age we have had our fair share of struggles and issues and sometimes when things are going as good as they have been I’ll start to look for flaws or problems bc I can’t believe it can be so good without some sort of catch, I suppose this condom wrapper was exactly what I was looking for.
He also knows now he can dredge up the past to manipulate her. He can almost literally weaponize his past deeds real and imaginary to affect her.
You should've done it when you found out but… “insert gfs name I haven't felt the same since I found out about your infidelity and I don't want to continue our relationship”
I used to really lash out on her and talk down to her also im not innocent either I've cheated in the 1st year we were together. I just didn't love her then like I do now if that makes sense. I also struggled with drugs and alcohol and she stayed with me when alot of people would have left lol
I grew up Mormon to I would ask specifically what he wants to change. You may not have posted it because she didn’t want us to see it but you need to know what it is that you’re working with
I'm NOT a dude. I am a woman. and if she wants to leave, she absolutely should. People can leave because it's Tuesday.
Being a spinster is better than being with a disrespectful partner.
You could've communicated better with him instead of raising your voice.
You’re all the names you called your parents and more. Did it ever occur to your dumb ass that they want you to be healthy and alive? Man I bet if they gave up on you you’d be a sad little mess. Let them help you, get some professional help. Online your life kid. You’re too young to be wasting away by choice. There’s so much you can do, so much you can accomplish. Stop being a little gremlin man.
Yeah this screams non con kink and these scenarios are pretty much ripped from hentai and doji. It really does depend on how he acts outside of this.
Her feelings are valid to be disgusted and it's her feelings but at the same time the kink is also valid as long as it's a kink and kept between consenting adults.
As others have said communication is key and they need to work out if they're compatible. But this would have to be done safely incase it's not a non con kink but irl non con.
Looks doesn't matter much in a relationship What's the point of a good looking partner if you don't have anything to talk with them and don't relate to them ? Just accept that she see your value beyond this “beauty gap”
That is what Im thinking as well.. I was 35 and my husband 38 when we got married 9mths later, moved in together at 3mth and will be 9yrs next month.. I think that she thing is an issue. Plus, they have no communication skills..
Your wife is either browbeating you through these constant accusations (which themselves may qualify as abuse depending on the emotional turmoil they are putting you through) or is projecting her own situation onto you. That's what this mostly says to me.
Either way, the relationship needs a lot of work. I don't know if therapy is what is needed, or a divorce; I can't say. But this situation is untenable.
Ok I’m going to give you some thoughts from a different angle. Let’s drop the blame game it isn’t getting either of you any where. This is about a lot more than work and a spa day. You say your looking for new housing. Stop
Before you look at new housing you have to fix your relationship and communication. Now without blaming or yelling the two of you need to sit down and discuss what happened. She’s not that upset over 1 day of missed work or going to a spa. She needs to tell you why she’s feeling overwhelmed. In specific terms and without blaming you. You also need to tell her why having that day together, without blaming her or yelling, meant so much to you. What you were trying to accomplish and why you felt her. Without blaming her. All that anger coming from both of you is really frustration and hurt. Why are both of you so frustrated and hurt? That is the primary question. You need to figure that out before moving into a new place or go to therapy and do it. But if you get that new place with your relationship so strained you’ll never make it to the end of the lease and be in a bigger mess.
Either fix this without blaming and yelling at each other or split up.
Honestly, you should get a camera.
But if you want to keep someone from entering so you don't get assaulted again, which is 100% understandable, you can get one if those hook and eye lash things for the inside very cheaply. Make sure they can't open the door at all so they can't undo it from the outside. But also put the camera outside your door so you can see who it is that tries to enter your room.
If it does happen again, do not wash it off the sheets and pillows. You might have some on your pillow right now if it seeped through the pillowcase, actually.
You leave, that's what you do. No amount of trauma in your past gets to excuse you abusing someone else. Her behaviour is abusive, threatening to hurt yourself if someone leaves is abusive. You're 18, you're still way too young to be taking on someone else's mental health issues, and I doubt you are qualified anyway. If you stay in this, you'll end up with issues of your own. Inform the people around her of your plan so they can support her, and break up with her.
I have been keeping a check on that
Does your MIL expect you to do all the cooking and cleaning and get upset when your husband is doing a chore instead of you? Op mentioned this in a comment. It may explain a bit why the wife doesn’t want MIL to see the house messy.
I personally would be totally comfortable braless in front or in-laws only if I had a good relationship with them.
Yea like I said time and time again he is in a loveless relationship with someone who doesn’t love him but he will see it but unfortunately like most of these stories he will see it way too late after his heart gets completely broken. Your story is not something new their thousands of men and women who are blinded by love that they will stay up until it’s too late. Unfortunately nature of humans don’t want to be alone and feel loved just unfortunate he is dating someone who doesn’t love him
Let him break up with you because he’s 10 years older than you but still can’t behave like a reasonable adult.
This is your future.
Do you want it or not?
That is the only thing that you need to discover.
But i believe you already know.
I've just got home from visiting with the friend. it is to late to talk to him now, I will find out more when I confront him. but I dont think it is something as sinister as spying.
I can see why you’d want to question all this especially if you got married. But the fact you questioned the ex wife and basically tried to tell her to move is so wrong. It’s not your place for one but you’re also not even married yet. Jeez.
This is so fucking sad. Your girlfriend feels so lonely and is so desperate for human companionship and connection that's she's chatting to an AI. How are you not ashamed? You should be mortified that you have so completely dropped the ball on being a good boyfriend, and a good partner, not be on here acting like the victim! Holy shit dude
Bro. You're gonna have to toss that shit asap. It's clear as day this dude is making moves on your wife.
I was actually thinking of doing that thank you lol
You already have a child. So my question is, why do you want another? (Meaning him) and it’s not a sarcastic question it’s no maybe help you think about what’s best for you and your child (the one you gave birth to). If he broke into your home the last time you broke up, what’s to stop him from doing worse if you continue to stay? I’m concerned for your child and you. Keep me posted please.
How would she react if you yelled at her for something she did in your dream? Give her a taste of her own medicine or just ditch her.
Please tell me this is supposed to be a shitpost. 9/10 if it is, laughed quite a lot. Divorce your ass if it isn't.
You don't get him on board.
You tell him the terms of the marriage have changed, and you let him decide if he wants to accept those terms or leave. You don't have to have sex ever again, but he doesn't have to stay. It's a two way street, not just “your way”.
Well I mean it's logical. Driving without a license is stupid, illegal, and dangerous. If you insist on doing it, that makes you stupid and a danger to yourself and others. He doesn't want to date a stupid person who is a danger to himself and others. So no, he can't “order” you to stop. But he obviously cares about you enough to gibr you a chance to not be those things. Seems like you're not ready for him.
You are NOT in an unhappy relationship. YOU ARE IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP. You are with an abusive man who should not be allowed around any children and frankly has no right to procreate based on his behavior. If you cannot take care of a child by yourself (that means financially, physically, and mentally) then you shouldn’t keep it whether that means abortion or adoption. You definitely should not keep it just to try to hold on to an abusive relationship.
Having severe mental issues does not give someone the right to treat others poorly. Telling you to kill yourself is inexcusable in the first place, but then telling you you aren’t safe if you leave is TERRIFYING no matter the context. He’s either delusional or was threatening you. I would highly recommend you gather your belongings with someone else present (for your own safely), move out, and block him. Then decide what is best for your life from there.
Ma’am, if you don’t have kids by 30 YOURE the one you shouldn’t forgive. 1. This man has never given you a single I love you but you’re sure he wants to be with you forever. 2. No affirmations at all or displays of love from the man but you moved across the country for him. 3. You work, pay 100% of everything, as well as cook/clean and he guilts you for even mentioning him getting a part time job. 4. He literally told you that you can start trying for kids after you guys move out of the country; an expense you’re expected to pay for! Hes looking for a free ride and you’re giving it to him.
At this point you did all this to yourself, he is obviously using you. You would rather play a back and forth game with him than put your foot down and leave an empty relationship. On top of that, you aren’t mature enough to have a kid. You want to work full time while pregnant up until the day you’re due? Who’s going to pay for bills during your maternity leave? He can’t even cook or clean and you think he’s going to help you with a baby? Grow up and get your life together
That's kind of a stupid take. If he didn't, then it's actually just you that have trust issues and leaving him just means you're not gonna trust the next guy either.
That's not your girlfriend bro
Do with that what you will
It’s quite simple, you break up!
I think that is her way of saying, I love you. If you feel better with it, do your thing. But maybe try a day without it and see what’s she says. Just be yourself. I have a feeling she likes you for you.
How can you expect to have emotional stability with someone who lies to you and has no respect for you?
Words are nice, but they hold no weight next to something you will never forget.
Break up with anyone who shows this level of total disregard for you.
Why is he still your boyfriend? Rhetorical don’t answer that. This guy is 9 years older than you and acting like a child. You are far too young to waste your energy on a loser like this. Things with him will only get worse the longer you keep him around. Dump him
Why do you use 18 in a past tense when you’re still 18? Lol
I don't have many tips for you. It really is your boyfriend job to pay attention to his body and experiment to find things that work for him to pass along to you.
I find a quick handjob with some lube can make it easier to finish than trying to orgasm while having sex.
Tensing up my leg muscles a lot in a specific way as I feel an orgasm building up can also help put me over the edge, and it's easier for me to do that while I'm on the bottom being ridden. Sometimes, i feel it building up, and then suddenly lose it still.
I've also noticed that the more tired I am, the easier it is for me to orgasm.
Like your boyfriend says a lot of the time sex itself is pleasurable enough, and I just don't feel like doing the extra work to hit that orgasm. It can really tire my legs out, and I'd just rather have a relaxed good time.
Adding toys to the mix can help, too, and extra simulation is probably going to give more consistent results. I like having a bullet type vibrator, so not super strong, applied under my testicles/ on my taint area for a prolonged period of time.
Having a medium/strong vibrator applied to my penis for short periods of time makes it more sensitive, and therefore easier to orgasm. If it's applied for too long, it can have a numbing effect, which is not helpful.
Lastly, prostate toys help. I only use them a couple of times a year when I'm really in the mood to orgasm but I'm having trouble. It's not crazy mind-blowing, but it's a novel sensation that is enough to tip the scales in my favor.
To reiterate, these are all things that help me orgasm when I'm having trouble, but they might not work for your boyfriend. If he wants more orgasms, he may not, he will need to actively pay attention to his body and experiment.
First time? You'll get used to it.
Man that’s the guy testing the waters with her, you best make sure he knows that shit is shark infested!
This story is made up. Stop doing this
Hi hubby.
You're being cruel to your wife for no reason.
Your wife is the person who brought your son into the world, she takes care of you every day.
And you think you shouldn't take a moment to thank her for that and make her feel special?
I think that's pretty shameful.
Just don't overthink his overthinking. Sent a simple invite, and if he doesn't respond, it doesn't matter why. Then at least you can move on.
If you feel like you have to “monitor” her, you shouldn’t be with her. Just get a divorce.
Absolutely. These situations happen all the time. OP really needs to seek therapy to learn healthy behaviors in relationships and recalibrate her “normal” meter.
Don't get married until you are ready to get married. She can't force you to marry her.
Trash took itself out
RUN. Do NOT move in with him because it will be a few months, max, before he starts with “work is slow and I can’t make rent, can you cover me.” Soon after that you’ll be stuck with all the expenses, because he has no idea how to handle money and he lies PROFUSELY about his finances. I mean, what he’s telling you isn’t little white lies.
Sounds like a mess. I would delete his number.
Based on your responses in comments, you’re leaving a lot out, trickle truthing, and a really bad communicator.
You waited 2+ years and after a divorce to just level with her on the ring, the messages, and communicate? After a bad reaction you didn’t just sit down and level about everything?
You’re asking for a perspective but everyone is having to drag relevant information out of you. Generally, the sub wants to be on the side of OP until something goes off the rails.
I think you need to take a very hot look at your ability to communicate, or some major elements are being left out.
No. He is experienced a professional set-back and I just haven’t known where to bring it up. It just doesn’t seem important right now
Why not cut it off for 3mo minimum while you both work on therapy and healthy friendships with other ppl? After 3 mo, re-evaluate with your therapist. If it’s meant to be, you’ll be in a healthier place to have new patterns.
Your relationship seems heavily based on misandry, and that's weird. And you're right, cut that shit out, comparing yourself to this misandrist boogeyman is not doing you any favors.
I'd suggest cleaning your whole house every night. Dishes, trash, floor, recycling, wiping down surfaces. And then do a good bathroom scrub on Sundays.