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Date: October 9, 2022
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Just be smart about it. Don't give her a heads-up…this should totally be something you are totally prepared for.
the dog !! lol, I would put 10 upvotes if I could, made me laugh
She needs to go buy the biggest loudest vibrator she can find and proceed to go to town on herself FOR REAL some night this week to teach him a lesson
She seems flirty—you should try!! I don’t think there would be any real harm in it!
Yeah.. Or to like show off in a sense? If that makes sense ?
Did she know your username? If so why did you think you were safe from judgement?
I unknowingly gave my bf pinworms (most likely) after working as a tutor aid at my college. I was handling a lot of student badges and that’s the only place I could think of where I got it from.
Anyways, there is an over the counter pinworm medicine that tastes like bananas so my bf and I did that. We took three dowsed over like 4-6 weeks. But was also use vigorous hand washing and cleaning the sheets and other frequently touched things.
To be honest, we were still sexually active but we were also following the same strict cleaning routine. Your boyfriend sounds unhygienic. Pinworms can be an absolute B**** to get rid of. I have a feeling that if you stay with him the way he is, you’ll always have a scratchy butt.
Do your friend one last solid and leave her the fuck alone.
Kids don’t have a nap time or something? Maybe try finding out a way to make her less exhausted. If you both enjoyed the sex before she probably just needs help. Can you guys hire a babysitter? Grandparents ?
Don't hang out with that co-worker anymore. Inform HR about what's going on.
Nothing more to do here.
Cut them out. What does your husband have to say about how they behaved?
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Is therapy feasible?
You think they don’t know your opinions. But you don’t have to actually say it aloud for them to understand how you feel. I feel for your sons and hope that if they ever struggle they will find a trusted adult they can talk to. Good luck having them find someone who has and never will struggle with a mental health issue. It’s basically impossible(:
Nobody owes you closure. Even if they did, it's not a debt you can collect. The stupid thing is to make yourself dependent in this way on a person who did you wrong. You need to learn how to close your own wounds.
You offered sex, thus “casual fun sounds amazing” is what he is after.
Good to hear you won't be going. This sounds very scary.
I feel your struggle and heartbreak seeing a friend lose themselves in this situation. The unfortunate truth is that in the end, you can't control her life.
All you can do is be there. Willing to listen. Giving advice and still show appreciation for her. You can try to stop her from making bad decisions. But in the end… it is still her decision.
Dont beat yourself up over it if she decides not to listen. She's going through a difficult phase and she can't see her worth and what to do against these feelings.
Harsh
Don't need to go into details. Just tell him that it is over.
It's this guys opinion and by the sounds of it hes either not that serious about you or its going to be a long time before you guys take the next usual steps in life.
How did she disrespect him? How does she come off as entitled and spoiled? She pays rent, her own bills, and for food, and rarely ever asks them for rides. If Dad wanted a time limit on when he could, “Live out the rest of his days with his woman.” (Ew btw) then he should of taken the initiative to help her become an independent adult while she was still a teenager.
If he didn't plan to still be parenting then, he should have never had kids because a good parent is always a parent. And the last I checked, teenagers don't typically pay bills. I see no teenage behavior coming from her. He, on the other hand, is being petty and immature af.
I can see the argument for both sides.
If I had a choice in it… I would rather not know. I don't know much about my Gfs sexual past and I prefer that way. I am happy with her now, that's all I care about, what happened before me, idgaf, shut my eyes and eyes, la la la la I am not listening. I don't think she would ever do anything that's 'wild'… but I just don't want to know details.
If I were to find out something like that. I know that I would always think about it when this guy pops into conversation. And you can forget about hanging out with him alone. Heck, I don't even know I want you there in a group setting if I am not attending. And those events will be awkward as f.
I think the move is to be 100% completely honest if it is ever asked of you. I don't think you are required to tell him.
This is also valuable… You tell him now. His view on your friend is changed permanently. Always sees him negativity… Let him get to know each-other naturally. Develop a friendship. Hang out in group settings. etc. Somehow he finds out… okay, maybe its not as bad as I thought because I have seen for myself that there is nothing going on between you two.
Additionally, exposing it, you run the risk of your friends reletionship two, the info might travel to his gf and now they're dealing with it.
That is such a great idea I’m stealing it ty ty. We definitely have plenty of mutual friends too so it’s not even out of left field to suggest.
I’m not. And neither are any of my partners. If you weren’t born on the same date and year as I was, that’s a dealbreaker.
I guess that’s true and she is usually very supportive of me… I feel like she just didn’t know how big of a deal my boyfriend would have made it and was ignorant of the whole situation… and thank you so much for your advice, it’s actually very helpful
Why are you considering the Aunt the problem? SHE is not in a romantic relationship with you. Your boyfriend literally f#$ked her in the a$$ when she is mentally unwell. HE is not to be trusted and works like a predator.
After thinking about it, no. I mean, he was a good friend until now, but I think I value my personal safety more.
If dad puts his name on the birth certificate, that should supercede the rapist's genetic link.
Child and family laws are very often state-specific, so there's always the chance it doesn't work that way somewhere and I just don't know it yet.
But the birth certificate is usual the golden standard for who's a legal parent.
Same reason a dude's on the hook for child support if he's on the birth certificate and doesn't challenge that in time. Even if he isn't the genetic donor.
Check outside of where you think you lost it, different random places, the waffle house, the cake factory, wallmart, your car, the olive garden, the club, the hood, pawn shops, the marina, the docks, Harvard, you never know where it might show up
My brethren. You are NOT QUALIFIED to fix what is broken here. If you continue to stay then you will fail miserably and disrespect yourself in the process. Training is needed to deal with the level of insecure and fucked up your gf is. Also, you have no experience with a person that is in the state that she is in so your inexperienced ass is definitely worsening her condition. You are not a therapist or a psychologist, you've not even been in a relationship before so i doubt you understand even how to manage or aid such heavy projections. Do the both of you a favor and leave that situation. Anything opposite of leaving is sabotage. Please don't be stupid. She needs professional help.
He was married in the past, but went through a brutal divorce, and the next partners he had were abusive towards him. Ever since then, he has been closed off. Although we are together every week, every major life event, and he treats me and calls me a partner.
My mind goes to who would leave the note and why- what are their motives? What do they have to gain from this? Also who are they and judging by the picture (kind of screams stalker) is OP in any danger?
You need to leave this situation ASAP. Focus all of your time and money on this. If you can't afford to online alone find respectful roommates. Also leave the guy, he's a total piece of shit.
I like his parents a lot, and I don’t want anyone to bad mouth then in this thread, not that you are, I’m sorry. they are cordial with me, I don’t know where I stand with his parents most of the time. I’m just confused and exhausted to be honest, I don’t know why they don’t understand why I’d suggest/want him to move in with me. I think they think I’m being selfish for wanting this or “forcing” him to move in with me
If we are all being totally honest with ourselves, we as adults can all admit that a grown man and a grown woman cannot be friends.
what. the. fuck.
you are totally wrong and as a 51F if my 20 year old lover started giving me this shit I'd dump them in a heartbeat
she's his EX wife for a reason but often people remain friends and clearly they have if he's agreed to be godfather. Many people these days are secular godparents. It's not that weird.
he's better off without you. He was too old for you anyway.
This has almost nothing to do with you and you're making it all about yourself
or the only person that cannot google on their own
Your feelings are valid. Maybe it’s best if you block this man, delete and truly move on. Seeing all updates online will not help with healing. You deserve better, and sometimes the breakup is the actual blessing. It takes time for us to see it. Good luck.
Have you thought about taking a long break from drinking? (Not being mean just wondering) it sounds like a lot of issues you mentioned stem from drinking. What does your boyfriend think about all of this? Where does he stand
Yeah that makes sense! It’s takes me quite a bit of time to recognize and communicate that something has upset me, so unfortunately I struggle to confront something in the moment. It’s something I’m trying to practice though, because that struggle has been an issue for many people in my life. Hopefully I’ll be able to do this consistently one day!
But how? She did do anything wrong right?
sometimes I ask myself why everyone seems to be or has been in multiple romantic relationships and I haven't. And then I hear and read about all those really problematic relationships and I remember that I would just never settle for something like that. Like I would have been gone after the second insident if not earlier
Thank you for your comment. My feelings never feel validated by him. I needed to post this. I needed all of this input.