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Date: April 4, 2023
True, it isn't clarified as to when it became ok for her to stay so very hot to know. Just seems like playing with fire to me.
Okay, I will, because I definitely understand that.
He comes from a family where FIL was abusive and paranoid.
The apple is getting pretty damned close to the tree.
Okay. I am officially giving you permission to break off your engagement. I do not think it is a good idea to marry the only man you've ever dated when you have only lived together 6 months, been together for 2 years, and he's rushing the marriage and backing up his family instead of you when you say you want more time.
I think couples counseling could help, but I'm also worried that counseling will keep the relationship just good enough that you don't feel like you're justified in leaving.
Hi! First, I want to point out the 2 week timeframe. Is there anything stressful or drastic that happened in the last 2 weeks? If yes, feel free to respond and we can chat about it.
But if you haven’t experienced anything abnormal in the last 2 weeks…Maybe there’s a mannerism she has that triggers your anxiety/dread? Are there any repetitive noises she makes that annoy you? Is there something she does/says that brings back weird memories? It seems like there might be something subconscious that is triggering your bad feelings.
Is there something on your mind that you want to tell her?
Do you feel comfortable opening up to her? Lack of communication can cause major misunderstandings in relationships and often leaves both parties feeling low. I encourage you to start working on your communication with your girlfriend because it will help both of you grow as people and as a couple. You need to have strong and honest communication with your partner because bottling any bad feelings/thoughts will not make them go away. Try to approach your girlfriend with a nonjudgmental attitude and share your true thoughts and feelings.
It's funny isn't it? Because if I caught my wife, disgusted is not the word I'd use to describe my feelings
Wow, I've never seen the trash so thoroughly take itself out.
Also, this confirms a previous comment of mine, this HAS been happening in all her relationships. He pushed all her boyfriends to this point and she's incapable of accepting the truth.
Which tells me two possible things – this will happen for the rest of her life if she doesn't eventually realize what's happening.
OR
She's fucking him. I mean, I think at this point it's entirely possible she's been cheating with him in every single relationship which is why she defaults too “you're controlling” and then IMMEDIATELY bales.
Buy her one, when she wears it tell her how sexy she looks in it and give her the best sex throwdown you have ever given her. If you give her the best you can give, i guarantee she will wear it often.
Enh, the apology sounded pretty half-assed to me. I don't think OP understood that she did anything wrong, though I hope she does now.
Have you ever cheated on someone?
I'm saying this because generally a person who is dating another person typically wants to be around them at least a little bit. I don't want this to sound harsh, but it sounds like he really doesn't. You didn't ask for much, just two days of spending time with him (after not seeing each other for TWO WEEKS) before he leaves you behind FOR SEVERAL MONTHS. I get that he has a busy schedule, but surely he could have scheduled a day with the boys before this went down. OR he could have asked you to come along. Instead, he took the childish route of lying to you and completely abandoning your plans because he thought spending time with his friends was more fun than keeping a commitment to his partner.
Just because his family knows about you doesn't mean he's serious about you. Being serious about you normally means that he would be hoping to work towards a more permanent state of relationship, whether that means eventually getting married or even just moving in together. How is that supposed to work out when the two of you will be in an LDR and he is actively prioritizing his other relationships ahead of yours? If you only see him once a week or less when you live in close proximity, I can only imagine what distance will do.
You don't have to take Reddit's advice for anything. Maybe you are equally as uninvolved as he is, maybe his lying will be resolved by being brutally honest about how this hurt your feelings, but maybe you should consider whether this is a one-off event or indicative of a pattern. Ask yourself this: if you were to stop messaging first, how long would it take for him to reach out to you? If you weren't making plans to spend time together, how long would it take for him to want to see you? In short, who is keeping you in contact?
If it's 50/50 then this situation can probably be resolved with better communication, because let's be real, this is still a huge problem that he needs to take accountability for. HOWEVER, if you answer that you do most of that, and that you probably wouldn't be seeing any of him if you weren't the one pushing for it, then maybe you should take this as a sign that he doesn't feel as strongly about you as you do about him. Again, a stranger on the internet wouldn't be able to answer this for you, but you should take the time to evaluate that for yourself.
Yeah just move on, at 19 and getting all these glaring red flags. She's got a lot of maturing to do that you don't have time to wait around for.
Okay, first of all, this is NOT NOT NOT because of you. He made a shitty decision. It was not because of you, it was because of him. He fucked up, and he decided to do something shitty when he got a consequence of his other shitty actions.
The rest of this post will be based upon my personal experience with my brother trying to take his life in December. His method was hanging after doing a bunch of meth and downing a liter of vodka. His heart stopped for several minutes and he had a stroke. A police officer resuscitated him on-scene. The brain damage has left him with the mentality of a child. They did not expect him to leave. His ex-girlfriend caused some absurd problems, and had a shady lawyer. So it's been a nightmare and a half.
Second. Please speak with the hospital's social worker. Let them know that you had a complicated relationship and that there may be conflict from the ex-wife. Do this as soon as humanly possible.
Third. Remember to drink water and to eat. Remember to get enough sleep. He's on life support, and you do not have to physically be there every second in the MICU. I would suggest to speak to his medical team twice a day, or once, in person. They will give you status updates easiest this way– while they may call, things get busy. Best to give them some grace. You are NOT required to be there every day.
It will be up to you, most likely, as to whom they give updates to. Be sure to get that squared away now; you can give a password, or you can share what you want with whomever yourself, or allow a list of people to speak to medical staff.
When/if he wakes, do not expect him to be cognizant of anything– do not expect him to remember what happened or why. It may take weeks, or months, to even know how much damage there is. They will do multiple CT scans, but they're going to be spread out, probably once every two to three weeks. Do not be surprised if there is no more than one in the first four weeks if he does not wake up in that time. It took my brother well over a month to wake up and longer still to figure out how much of him was left. He has no idea what year it is; it's complicated.
They are going to ask you questions about his medical history. They will ask about resuscitation while on life support. They will ask about advanced directive and medical power of attorney. They may ask about end of life plans such as organ donation. If you get confused, or need help understanding– just ask all the questions you have. Write them down when they come to you so that when you are facing a doctor you can ask them.
You are not required to bring him home after this no matter what happens. He will spend months in rehab after this, even without cardiac arrest, though it sounds like your ex-fiance did in fact have an arrest, since, life-support; else they put him in an induced coma. Even if it's induced, that's months of recovery in-hospital. Re-learning everything from speech to walking to feeding oneself. This will be done in rehabilitation hospital facilities that specialize in things like physical therapy and occupational therapy.
You get to choose how active in this process you will be. You can keep distance if you need it, and you can do the opposite if you need it. But you do what you need to do– and do not do it for him; do it FOR YOU.
If you would like to ask any kind of questions of me in DM, OP, please do not hesitate.
I don’t want to “talk to” my ex…the reason she isn’t blocked is because she had me blocked so I didn’t need to. Also didn’t expect to be unblocked after 7 months.
And my girlfriend never mentioned I block her, she basically said if you just don’t respond she will feel embarrassed and not reach out again. That’s why I created this post.
Almost everybody has mentioned to block her and I too think that’s the best idea. Thank you (and everybody else) for your input!!!