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Fuck me [Goal Race]
Date: October 12, 2022
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I'm sorry to hear about your break up. Break ups are always difficult, especially when you have been together for a long time and have strong feelings for each other. It sounds like you are feeling a lot of pain and anger right now, which is completely normal. It's okay to feel these emotions, but it's important to remember that you can't control what your ex-girlfriend does or feels. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to focus on your own well-being and try to take care of yourself as much as possible. This may mean taking some time for yourself, spending time with friends and family, or even seeking professional help if you feel like you need it. It's important to remember that you are not alone and that there are people who care about you and want to help you through this difficult time.
Fuck no, that is all!!
Not a red flag at all, she handled it exactly the way she should have. It’s up to you if you’re comfortable going forward, but she did nothing wrong.
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So couple clarification points needed:
how did he “throw” the cat? Like actually throw or more push?
why does he not like the cat? Has it attacked him before? Is he allergic? Is he just an asshole?
you likely won’t get in trouble, but try to control yourself; yelling and scolding him and kicking him out is fine, actually throwing shit at him is not.
She left him
Yes, it's totally possible that you're just going through a depression. I hope you get some help with that.
Just fyi though, both people I know with asd are the most intelligent and social folks I've met. Well spoken, lovely people. Great at conversation etc. Asd is very much a spectrum and not all folks with asd exhibit the obvious, commonly reported 'symptoms' – I say this just to inform, I'm not pushing the narrative on you, I just recall a time when I too thought of asd as you do.
Good luck anyhow, I hope things look up for you soon.
I'm by no means an expert on any of this but is there any chance that he could be on the autism spectrum? They way you described his behaviour towards people, is he aware how he makes them uncomfortable? And the things that he says are u appropriate? Also, when you mentioned he sleeps on the couch, that might be some sort of symptom that he is on the spectrum too. He has built a routine of sleeping on the couch and it is just normal for him. Might be worth getting him to speak with a Councillor, although from what you described I don't see him doing that.
Either way, it seems like you're unhappy in your marriage and should do what you need to do.
There’s a difference between beliefs and a legit mental illness
Nonsense.
Hopefully one day you will be able to handle boundaries and being told them.
There is no threat. There is a reasonable consequence. Your life is lucky to be so soft to consider stopping an activity violating a boundary a threat.
I apologize if I’m wrong about this, but my initial thought is that she may have developed feelings for you and is being really weird about it.
If this ends up not being the case, there may be some other reason she has distanced herself from you, and this could even mean that she may now be in a relationship and doesn’t want to be friends with you.
Another possibility is that something you might have said or done could have made her uncomfortable.
Honestly, the only way you’re going to know what’s going on is to ask her, but whether you ask or not, I would just lay it to rest and give her the distance she seems to need. I wouldn’t bother talking to someone anymore who doesn’t want to talk to me.
I’m sure she’ll eventually come around, but I think you should move forward with your life and try not to worry about it. This is something going on with her and may not be something you did.
I did this in November. I told my ex that I wanted things to be over and that he had thirty days to leave. Give him an eviction notice (you can download templates online) and check your tenants rights laws in your state – you may have a give notice on the 1st of the month or something. Document that you handed him the not.
If he is violent, you will need to get the police involved.
I wish you the best of luck.
I don’t want to break up with him but I feel absolutely zero romantic connection to him anymore.
What? Why are you staying if you feel nothing for him anymore?
The holidays sound awful. Brutal. What does your bf say when his family gangs up on you like this?
You also say that he “insists” on going there, and you're stuck. You know you don't have to go, right? You can stay home alone in blissful silence, or see your family, or be with friends.
Now you're adding a complicated layer with the ex bf.
Have you considered just being single and letting them all go? If you're afraid to be alone, being single is the best thing for you. Learning that you can be alone means you know you'll never have to settle.
No, pixels will not give notifications for apps you don't have. That said, I'm sure he's deleted it by now. Check the play store to see when it was last downloaded/used
You leave your bf because you can't have him and college and an education at the same time. You and he are in very different times in your life. You need to make sure that you prepare for your future. His future is on him. Yes, trauma is horrible. It is on him to online his life in such a way that his trauma does not spill onto others.
I would think again about the psychosis due to alcohol. It mostly happens with long time alcoholics. He's further into the disease than you think. There is no such thing as mostly sober.
You don't leave him because of the current trauma, you leave because you want to avoid more trauma.
Because this is Reddit, I have to point out that the age difference is alarming. Why isn't he with someone his own age?
Jfc. You aren't mature enough. You can even advocate for your own needs in a relationship
Is he getting sleep? Sometimes when we have these big events coming up (like weddings), we cut into our self-care. If sleep gets disrupted enough for long enough, you can start to get more anxious, more irritable, more depressed, just generally more reactive. After a while, it can start to look like you're a whole different person. This can also happen if your sleep is being decreased in quality due to health issues like sleep apnea or more general issues like being repeatedly awoken during your sleep cycle.
If sleep isn't the issue, I think you could let him know how much you support him but how different he seems than he has for the 10 years prior in your relationship. Have the conversation during a period of time when he isn't already upset, but be prepared for the possibility it might be triggering for him. It's probably worth being clear that he scared you in a way he hasn't before. And it's definitely worth explaining that you want to be there to help him. It might be good for him to see a professional. Maybe a therapist, maybe a psychiatrist, but also it may be appropriate to see a medical provider if this is part of a BIG change in personality you are seeing and to really push for neurological imaging.
I'm uncomfortable handing out detailed roadmaps for social interactions to fully grown adults who I don't know, but if you think there's value in that don't let me stop you. Why you feel the need to interrogate me about my experiences before you can give the op guidance is beyond my ken.
That's an easy “no”. It might work “perfectly” now, but it'll come crashing down at some point. Probably sooner rather than later.
Genuine question. Why would you want to online your life this way? Constantly having to check up on your partner?
That's much more of a verbal clock cleaning than I expected. I know I'm asking for advice here, but I don't think I appreciate how final you're being.
If I can find a way to make the changes I need to, I will. I'm not unwilling to change. I've been unable to figure out why I hadn't been changing and was demoralized from trying (the wrong way) for years.
I will take what you've said with the grain of salt assumption that you were trying to help.
People are saying this is a great defense against men but it really isn't. Yes if you have been cornered say anything you need to, to get out, but that is usually “i have a boyfriend”.
This sets a boundary – that she has said no. Accepting the number is accepting the behaviour. If she sees him again he'll ask – why didn't you call?
Any man who would take the message of not being called would also take the message of her being engaged so im not sure what the risk mitigation is here.
The idea that its so dangerous at the gym you need to accept random hot gym guys numbers or they might murder you there seems unrealistic.
If she was really trying to fuck someone else at the gym, she wouldn't tell you about it.
You're allowed to feel some type of way about it, that's fine. But if you have an otherwise good relationship, don't self destruct over this. Imagine if this was the only thing she felt was safe to do. Would you rather she be unsafe about it? Or to take his number and not tell you?
Best of luck working through this.
Accept its over. It takes two people to work on a relationship and one does not want anymore.
Focus on you and your life now.
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ere is the thing. You deserve a partner who can match your desire. She is out there. And if you're with someone who is limiting you and that way? you can both love her and wake up with her with a kiss on the cheek and a wish for her happiness. Before it gets ugly. It will! Probably. You deserve to have your desires match. You do. That's all I'm saying. All the best.
Fertile or not fertile days, cum or precum, when the sex is unpotected, there is always the danger of pregnancy. If you do not want to become a parent, then stop having sex with her. It might be feeling better, she might be more turned on like that, but is it really worth it to go through paranoia and overthinking every time you have sex? The fact she doesn't want to use condom isn't a red flag to me, it is a preference and that is her right. But the fact that she doesn't respect your wishes, doesn't take into consideration your worries and guilt trips you into having sex without one, yes it is a big red flag.