0 views
Margaux Jager, 20 y.o.
Location:
Room subject:
To Start online video press there
Online Live Sex Chat rooms Margaux Jager
Date: October 14, 2022
The ad code is not a valid HTML code.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
Fix the ad code in the Theme options.
He is a teenager with a very different life experience from you. He just started to be an adult now. 6 years is a lot at your age.
Sorry but i know plenty of Christians who are either gay or allies. Christianity has nothing to do eith it. He is a bigot. He thinks he isnt because his friendship with you was useful. But the second you needed him suddenly your gayness is too much. Absolutely not. He is a homophobe and anyone that practices happily a christianity than believes being gay is a sin are nothing but bigoted cretins.
Hell ive known of gay vicars ffs.
I have had to cut off good friends before. Its very very hot. And youll think of them years down the line still. But it will be less and less as time goes on. The occasional thought goes throuvh your mind. But you know its for the best. Its not his faith thats the issue. Its his bigotry.
For the guilt, guilt is just emotional motivation to make amends for mistakes, to do better next time, and as a guard rail so if you are tempted, you’ll have more motivation to do better. The worse the guilt, the better the guard rail. So as long as guilt is used to motivate making amends, doing better, and avoiding temptation, it may feel painful but it’s actually a super important part of how to be a compassionate and conscientious person.
So use that guilt, make amends, work on yourself so you don’t do it again, help others like you that don’t get it yet. The more you make amends and help others, the more you improve the more the guilt becomes part of growth and that’s where you want to be.
As someone who cheated on a ex before, is it really worth it? There is no better sex than with someone you love, in the end karma bit me in the ass and now it’s doing the same to you, I personally will never cheat again, I was young and stupid at the time and even though I hate my ex I regret cheating on her
u/Accomplished-Snow596, it looks like you're trying to post a throwaway submission. Your account is too young and/or your comment karma is too low.
The right way to do it is to create a brand new Reddit account that begins with ThrowRA.
Please create a new account that starts with ThrowRA in the username and try again. Please note that we will not make exceptions to this rule.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
By the looks of things she in all honestly over thought what she was messaging aaaand just went in on impulse after, it doesnt sound like a threat just an awkward thought salad of things that she wants, but it sounds like she's concerned that you moved on and looking at other relationships and she jumped the gun before you mentioned anyone else in the picture, if i were you and you wanted to start your relationship with her again, basically reassure her how you felt what you intend to do and stuff and see where it goes. Shes in a very awkward position to be in, in all fairness
Oh I definitely won't, it would destroy her. I'd leave before I ever actually cheated. I've been battling this urge for over a year now after many failed attempts to talk to her about this and I've not so much as kissed another woman.
You do realise that you are putting your whole family in danger? You could lose your other kids because of her actions, and your husbands whole life could be ruined. I know you love your daughter but soft YTA
Sorry for all my mistakes. English is not my first language
Sorry, OP. He got caught. I doubt she was a scammer and it's more in line with her reaching out to you– so you know the real sorr of man you're dating. To me it's a blessing in disguise…
What you “had” with him never really was. I'm sorry to state it like that, but that's how you need to view this. What you previously thought about your relationship isn't real.
In a way, it's certainly better for you to know now before marriage, but nonetheless, it's gut-wrenchingly hurtful and so for you, I'm sorry.
There are men out there that don't do this. I know I personally could never move past something like this. Good luck.
Thank you. I appreciate it?
Yes, he's cheating. Get tested for STDs.
That must've felt bad. Defeinitely took a hit on your trust especially as you're a woman. Glad you two were able to talk it through. Maybe it was a bit of a private kinky habit/indulgence that he had from his single days. Hopefully, you guys keep building on your relationship and trust.
Thank you for this helpful comment.
Talk about what his relationship is like with his family. There might be a lot of stuff you dont know about. It can also explain why hes not prioritizing introducing you.
he just gets cold feet every now and then about certain things.
I really hope you guys get into couples therapy asap. Because you say he was 100% on board with you this whole time, but apparently, he was doing it for you (according to him). I've seen many men who have no desire to be fathers but who go along with it anyway. They know they can do the bare minimum and get away with it. The kids grow up with a father completely uninterested in their lives. Growing up without a father who left sucks but it also sucks growing up with a father who doesn't even like you. Talk about what he really wants in therapy and don't try to pressure him.
After all this time and money, I don't think he sounds like someone who will be an involved parent. It's insane yall let it get this far. I don't see why him demanding you choose between him or the baby counts as merely “cold feet”.
Willfully consuming CP is always immoral. All consumption of that content, by a past victim or not, encourages the creation of more content and more children being abused.
It is incredibly insulting to the rest of us CSA victims when someone says that victims of CSA should get some sort of pass for seeking out CP. Also, the sentiment is pretty insulting to any victim who does process trauma later in life by fetishizing abuse. Survivors who choose to view legal content featuring consenting adults in abusive/traumatic scenarios are not the same as people seeking out CP.
So basically your a bit of a over thinker …
Despite all my rage I am still just a cock in a cage…or whatever Smashing Pumpkins said.
Internet mom here. The only thing worse than throwing away 3 years is adding another day to this relationship. Getting married is not going to fix this. It will probably get worse. Touch matters. A lot. Is this really what you want for the rest of your life? You can’t go into a marriage with the expectation that he will change. Either accept him exactly as he is or move on.
Why are you waiting for him to end the relationship?
If you’re no longer happy, break up with him yourself.
The longer you drag it out, the more miserable you’ll get because it does sound like he’s losing interest and doesn’t care about you any more.
When someone cheats on their spouse they cheat on their children as well. Your mother has the right to decide who she wants in her life. You not taking sides is actually taking sides. I’m sure she made many sacrifices over the years and cheating is a massive betrayal. You’re entitled to have a relationship with the man who blew up your family but equally, your mother is entitled to remove him from her life. It’s sad that you had to choose and it’s even safer that your chose your father and the woman he chose over you and your mother.
I get that your father has shown you that you are throw away to him so you feel obligated to hang on to him even tighter. I hope you are able to work through this and his future betrayals. Most of all I hope your mother finds peace and healing.
And you didn't say eff you and walk away? Girl. Leave that jerk.
Question – have you ever gone on a fishing trip the two of you planned?
I can understand but wanting to have you join guy time, it might not even be about you. They may have a girl in the group that always wants to come, they may use the time to talk about really personal things. Or they may just be sexist idiots.
However, if your bf knows you like fishing and won't even go just the two of you on your own trip then he has a problem with women doing “guy stuff” and he doesn't sound that great.
Kick this man out.
If you aren't ready for that, then at least set down some rules for yourself, starting with, there are no “wife things” that ANYONE is “required” to do.
If he wants a partner who will function like an old school wife, well then he should be an old school husband and financially support you. Oh he doesn't want to do that? Of course he doesn't, but then why would you cook and clean for him?
Please, set some boundaries:
ALL bills need to be split 50/50, if he won't pay them directly, then he needs to give you X at the beginning of each month for internet, electric, and groceries. He has to do 50% of the chores, end of story. If he won't do the dishes, then don't cook for him
You deserve better than he is treating you, not just on Valentine's Day, but every day. So start by being honest and calm with him that he needs to step up and be an equal partner, and no, you are not required to do “wife things” for any man, especially one that isn't pulling his “husband things.”
Thanks, I took the 2 weeks away instead of adding them. Either way, dating isn't exact even with an ultrasound and with only 2 weeks between them it requires a paternity test
Someone can just swap beliefs after a trauma like this or just use a non religious reasons as well.
She is probably suffering from PTSD and/or a large amount of mental issues after this horrible act.
Why are they getting married on your graduation day? Yes I understand that it was possibly booked in advance but a graduation is such an accomplishment! Their wedding day can be changed your graduation cannot. They decide the wedding day you don’t decide the graduation day. I hope your brother & your family realized how important it is to be there for you and for you to be able to be there for him. As an aside I would never let my husband miss his sisters graduation under any circumstances.
Congratulations on med school graduation!!! They should be ashamed of being upset that you are going to your own graduation ceremony. If you did go to the wedding it would be to stand in the shade and nobody would even be happy to see you. Choosing the wedding will NOT gain their respect. They just want you to continue dropping everything in your life and bow down to the golden child. They have always expected that from you, and always will. Go to your ceremony. You earned this amazing accomplishment and your family doesn't deserve you.
If you can swing it, I think it'd be a nice gesture to try and make it to the reception and shove your brothers face into the wedding cake.
She disrespected you and your relationship and somehow she's annoyed with you? Oh OP, she has flipped reality until she's the victim. FYI I do not know a single person who would be ok with what she's done without explicit 'permission' in a previous conversation.
Also, she 'probably' wouldn't do it sober? Yeah, you know she would and you deserve better.
It's only going to get worse when the baby arrives.
My ex was like this, I couldn't take it. When we broke up, I felt like I could run a marathon with all the energy I was saving.
Thank you all for the advice. I really appreciate everyone that took the time to read my long ass posts. I know everyone here has only heard my side of the story so I will keep that in consideration. I just really needed some perspective because I often question if I am going crazy. I suffer from chronic pain from ankylosing spondylitis and it’s gotten rapidly worse in the last year. I have spontaneous brain fog and I don’t always think clearly. I also blame myself for a lot of things that I maybe shouldn’t. That’s why I’ve been working on my own mindset and personal growth so much. I will update you all on what happens in the coming days. Thank you all again♥️
Bloke it really sounds like you're too immature for marriage. Take a break to grow up is my advice.
What advice are you looking for, OP? Cheating is cheating is cheating, no matter who she's doing it with. I know you love her, you said as much. Does she love you? Then why does she sleep with other women?
So you must decide for yourself what your relationship deal-breakers are. You're cohabitating with and sharing a bed with a woman who is bisexual. She's inasmuch telling you she won't be faithful to you. This will end up one of two ways.
So this is YOUR wake-up call. You gotta decide what your deal-breakers are. What your boundaries are. What your expectations are, and don't apologize for setting them, or having them.
What advice are you looking for, OP? Cheating is cheating is cheating, no matter who she's doing it with. I know you love her, you said as much. Does she love you? Then why does she sleep with other women?
So you must decide for yourself what your relationship deal-breakers are. You're cohabitating with and sharing a bed with a woman who is bisexual. She's inasmuch telling you she won't be faithful to you. This will end up one of two ways.
So this is YOUR wake-up call. You gotta decide what your deal-breakers are. What your boundaries are. What your expectations are, and don't apologize for setting them, or having them.
Yes, she pointed at someone else. Thank you, I'll ask her more about this
Or put it in the car of his best friend. Then he'll think you are going to his place every night.
You said he walked out before you even knew you were pregnant. You said, “you felt really used.” Knowledge of the pregnancy came after that. So, the relationship, it sounds like, ended due to you “feeling used.” Now you want him to reappear because you're pregnant.
It doesn't sound like he'll be part of the picture except for maybe a monthly stipend.
He's going to continue to treat you and your child badly because of his “mood” and he's shown no desire to change. He's endangering you AND your baby and he doesn't care.
Normally, I'd say leave the loser, but given that you have a child together and you've been together so long, you could see if he's open to relationship counseling in order to work this out. If he's not willing, that should tell you everything you need to know. Do not allow this man to continue to endanger you and your child's lives.