It doesn’t matter what the argument was about. The reaction he had was intense and frightening and it isn’t proportional. It’s exhausting dealing with this from a partner and you never really know when it will happen. I guess it sounds selfish but unless you’re willing to deal with it forever, leaving is best
I think your heart is in the right place and you truly want to help your mum. I think you should have a genuine conversation with her, ask her how you can be more helpful and make her feel more appreciated.
No one is perfect. Everyone has days they are lazy, days where they are not their best. Your mum understands this as much as you or I do. Im quite certain she is not as harsh on you as you are on yourself.
Drop this douche like a naked potato. Views women as a conquest not actual humans
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Yikes, I think this tanked your relationship man. I don’t know how you could come back from that.
Yep, exactly what I thought reading the very first sentence.
It doesn’t matter what the argument was about. The reaction he had was intense and frightening and it isn’t proportional. It’s exhausting dealing with this from a partner and you never really know when it will happen. I guess it sounds selfish but unless you’re willing to deal with it forever, leaving is best
I think your heart is in the right place and you truly want to help your mum. I think you should have a genuine conversation with her, ask her how you can be more helpful and make her feel more appreciated.
No one is perfect. Everyone has days they are lazy, days where they are not their best. Your mum understands this as much as you or I do. Im quite certain she is not as harsh on you as you are on yourself.