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Date: December 19, 2022
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with two amazing small kids
Our sex-lives even before kids was quite slow
She claims it's “only sex, nothing serious”.
Have you done a paternity test?
See thats the thing i dont get. If she isnt that into me Why would she go on 4 dates and saying that she want to get to know me (but slow)
sounds like u are falling for him. embrace it and just go with it. Listen to ur brain if it's sending warning signs. but if it just pushes u away from him with no apparent reason, i would assume it's fear controlling ur brain trying to scare u away from him.
Babies should not be born with jobs.
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It's fair for a person to take their time to 'get over' someone, it doesn't always just end. If he told you he was still getting over someone that's fair as well, means he doesn't have much to hide.
If after all of that his eyes were on you, then I don't seem to understand the problem. Seems like a decent person to me.
I wish I could give you a big hug right now. That’s the first time I’ve ever said something like that on Reddit, but I think you need one. You’re doing great. No one is gonna abandon you, no one is gonna hate you. I’m sure your parents and friends love you very much, but they may not know how to express it the best. I don’t think you’ve got anything to worry about with them.
As for your boyfriend, you’re doing a whole lot for him and it doesn’t seem like he’s doing much in return. Seems pretty unfair to me. I can see why that’s getting so exhausting. As scary as it may be, I think you need to tell him you expect more from him, because you definitely deserve more effort.
usually its some sort of fetish… in this case i have no idea
Your vehicle- your right to use it at your own discretion. Take all the emotion out. Tell him so long as he is using your vehicle you have the right to know where it is and when it will be available for your use.
Then watch HIM get emotional about not having control.
If you're still interested in getting to know her and possibly pursuing a relationship, it might be worth reaching out to her and seeing if she's available for a date. You could simply send a message saying something like, “Hey, I know we haven't been able to coordinate a date yet due to some unforeseen circumstances, but I'm still interested in getting to know you. Are you available to meet up sometime in the next week or so?”
Thats ridiculous. So, she's supposed to tell someone no when they buy something worth thousands of dollars? Let alone a friend? And leave him in a position to try and figure out what to do with it?
OP bought a literally life changing item for her, with no regard for the finances required to maintain or keep that item, no regard for their financial status, no regard for her husband, and no regard for the amount of pressure being placed on her to accept the gift. What if she hates the car? What if they were planning on getting a loan to help their credit? What if they had a car picked? What if her husband was saving to buy her a car next year?
To go out and buy something like that with no communication is fucking idiotic. Its like buying someone a dog without even bothering to find out if their apartment accepts pets. Its fucking stupid and selfish, because lets be honest, he wasn't buying something so expensive anonymously, he wanted recognition for this outlandish gift, so there is definitely a degree of selfishness to it.
At the very least, if you're buying a friend a car, then you better be paying for registration, insurance, and maintenance on that thing.
I don’t think you can just take blood from someone without their consent though
Yea it sounds like him and his new squeeze have a date night
Leave, there is ho coming back.
Side piece that’s being toyed with, to add!
I think she's primed to be upset. It makes people afraid of her, and helps her get her way. She calls you bitch to assert her dominance over you. You either like it or you don't.
I don’t even have to read this whole post for me to see the issue. A female who you’ve been more than friends with, why do you need to contact her? After your wife asked you not to? There was no reason at all to reconnect.
I agree with your reasoning, but this is really about him wanting to make her feel safe.
It's absolutely not her place to tell, this is EXACTLY why people carefully vet who they tell. Jesus dude, you fucked up.
Literally like teaching a child or training a dog.
My minds pretty much preparing for the worst. Tried to take these last few days to give some space and not call or message. I’m really close with her family so sent a text to her mum just checking in making sure she’s ok, got a pretty positive response and it seems like she’s in the right place surrounded by loved ones.
The conversation with her mum obviously got back to her because she checked in with me but I’m just putting in a front and wanna make sure she’s in the right mind.
Feel like it’ll be a few more days and then a real serious talk
I worked at a strip club and witnessed things like this. They also absolutely did have sex for money/drugs in the staff washroom.
It's been 4 dates, but we chatted online about a month before meeting. We are both single parents to 6 years. I just don't want to seem pushy if he is a bit guarded. I have a son he has a daughter.
I feel like a bit more than cuddling may have happened. Otherwise, why the pact of secrecy?
We had the exact same amount of support? How did you read what I wrote as I had less than the support she has? I’m not being judgey nor bitter.
If you like her and she's clearly left two people for you… the relationship is already ruined. Either you decide you want to be platonic and no longer remain friends or you take a chance and see how dating goes. You're old enough to have a pretty good idea of what you want, and you don't have much to lose. Don't worry so much about coming out or labels or whatever. If you like her as more than a friend and see relationship potential I'd say see where it goes. Life's short
But you knew each-other for 30 days and then official for 10.
Well, then she shouldn't gave told OP she will be his gf.
She definitely at least entertained the idea of cheating on him.
you are completley out of your mind.
Updateme!
you're probably right. i couldn't imagine living my life constantly hiding things from my parents, yikes!
How do you plan on doing that?
he has cheated on me
Learn to respect yourself and quit being the side piece. Why do you like being demoted to the backup plan? This is not a person that has any respect for you.
I get what you're saying and I agree to an extent. The issue isn't only “does OP want to be married more than they want to stay with him”. The way I see things, the issue is OP's boyfriend is not communicating with her, downright lying and springing her along for years. The question is “does OP wants to be with a partner that has no care, consideration or respect for her?”
OP, you seem to have communicated your needs and wants. Your mother is sick, you want her to be able to experience your wedding day, which is also something you've made clear you want from the get go. With your words and actions. Which cannot be said about him.
Personally I think ultimatums in this case are harmful and downright pointless. I feel you are falling for the sunken cost falacy. Instead, maybe think long and hot on what you want from your future, as well as what you want from a partner. I'm sure you'll realise it's not this.
I am telling you this as someone who married her partner on our 12 year anniversary. That was because we met young, and we had specific priorities and plans in place. But it was always in plan. I was actually the one to propose. And I had the confidence to do that because I knew he wanted that as much as I did. And I knew right, because I don't remember ever seeing him so happy and excited than when I asked him to marry me. And that is what I wish for you too!
They had some problems in the past but now they just don't talk to each other. I mean, they're cordial in each others presence but they aren't best friends.
Pancreatitis has been my worst– you vacillate between feeling like you're dying and wanting to die ?
Something tells me she'll have way less headaches without him
You've already broken up 8 times. You are adults now and you are still stuck in this teenage drama. Just break up for good and move on.
Date someone that doesn't have an issue with porn.
So if it was an intended lie, I still shouldn’t be upset?
If you don’t want that and he refuses to change, all you can do is leave and go find what you need.
Killing babies is not a choice
Don't do a sit-down talk. You don't owe him anything. Tell him it's over and you're not interested in talking about it. He needs to find a new girlfriend and move on.
Every person has boundaries and certain rules for relationship. If the other person doesn’t fit in them its better to break up and move on
I wouldn't say it was a “decision” to lie exactly, but you're not wrong. I'm really ashamed that I lied and while I do have reasons for it (based on past behaviour) that doesn't make it anywhere near ok.
Think of it this way, you probably expect him to treat your future serious partner as family even though he’s/ she’s not blood related? Right?
So to be fair, can’t you do the same for him?
This is how I think of it with my dad’s wife. She’s important to him, so she’s family to me. The same way my dad treats my partner like his family.
Hey man. I feel for you so much. I lost a partner about 9 years ago. After 5 years, I wrote this about the experience. It’s called “The Loss”
At first, you are numb.
The numbness offends you, and it will be shameful and punishing until you can manage to make some tears. Then you are inconsolable. It goes on this way until you’re aching and praying to somehow amputate the invisible, septic limb inside of you causing all of this agony. You will feel comforted by the warm blanket of justness that you cannot.
You will wonder if you will ever be okay again. The swampy fog of your new loss will be too opaque to squint past, and you decide that you will in fact NOT be okay, and it will be a lovely and dutiful tribute.
But… you will be. It might take years of crying every time you take a shower (or hear any and all kinds of running water including but not limited to sinks and other bathroom appliances, lawn sprinklers, drinks pouring, the ocean, and precipitation because it embodies and replenished the intrusion that this is how things are and forever will be and you cannot help but melt too), but eventually, you will be okay. It will not be without guilt, which will serve as a sweet afterglow of the promise-tribute you once made.
And you will gaze into the vast, mysterious sky of what tomorrow holds, which may very well be a you that is unabashedly, guiltlessly, and actually okay. You will be simultaneously sorry for and a little afraid of them. You will go to sleep, well-spent, and with no mistrust for whichever you will greet you at the tomorrow’s door. You will be too tired to refuse your visitor.
Yes, you need therapy. If a regular everyday activity executed by your girlfriend has you so upset that you ask her to not do it again, you need therapy!
I know it’s hot to be assertive with family but it’s your wedding. If someone wants to be shitty about one of your decisions they are welcome to not attend. If someone attends and is unhappy about your decisions or says something at the wedding they are welcome to leave. We had some concerns at our wedding and I briefed a few of my groomsmen on the issues so they’d be prepared to help escort anyone out that we needed to escort out. This is an adult thing you are planning and you should just be able to talk to these people like an adult.
All these people are straight up glossing over the fact that OPs bf was presumably grabbing and sucking on those titties for a year.. if it was SO obvious that they're fake (especially with clothes off), this would not have been the bombshell it was to him.
The ego here is wild. Like, I promise you don't lose anything by admitting you can't actually tell fake boobs from real boobs a lot of of the time.
Well sounds like its over..on to the next one..Before you ask, its not about your looks thats the problem.
How about religion in the Middle East? Or Africa?
Break up with him. He's a cheater. You can't do anything to fix that.
No, I'm saying his mother may be responding to something. Or maybe she's using her own experience to warm her son. Mothers provide advice to their daughters all the time without a single complaint from the hoi polloi. But here is a mother giving advice to her son and all of a sudden, he's somehow a child and not a grown man.
I'm having a very hot time understanding what you did wrong. You didn't misrepresent yourself, you told him that you read a variety of genres. I wouldn't say that was a lie, he just assumed that you only read intellectual material because that's what he does.
You are absolutely allowed to wind down with whatever book you see fit. Your life doesn't need to be super serious 100% of the time. Why didn't your boyfriend ever show an interest in your reading? Why didn't he ever ask “what books have you read this week babe?”??
Girl.. you didn't betray him. He just never actually took an interest in the things you read. Don't you even think of begging him to forgive you for that. If this is that huge of a deal to him, then he clearly only cares about women that fit in a certain box, in a stereotype.
Can't comment on the response cos I'll get a ban. There is nothing wrong with having time apart. It's good for a relationship actually. But this goes way beyond that and if your husband would be OK with you doing this then fair play to him.
I'm in favor of just telling him to piss off. This is what you're doing and if he can't handle it, he can piss off. It's been a tradition longer than you've been a couple. The manipulation using the kid is where I'd draw the line tho. Fuck that noise.
I'd only suggest compromising on time once he can go 2-3 months without crawling up your ass about this. What about once or twice a year doing it as a family unit?
basically In the first month of us dating me and my friends were out and they suggested we go to meet up with girls and I said no I have a girlfriend, I had a panic attack and my girlfriend was on the phone talking to me and he told her don’t talk to me because I’m having a panic attack and then hung up on her.
If laundry is such a stressful issue, you need to drop your standards and make the job easier. It's a repetitive task that will need to be done until you die so you need to come up with an efficient system.
My wife and I have individual draws for socks underwear bras etc. And enough draws /hangers for tshirts pajamas and formal clothes. If you have enough allocated areas for clothes then you won't misplace or lose stuff.
You and BF should also stop worrying about how clothes are folded…. Life's too short for that
I understand that people have past. I do too.
However I can’t shake the feeling of it being dirty because it’s my friend? And now I want both of to disappear from my life. I feel so gross.
I agree, I'm really confused by the people saying this must all be coordinated. People know when and where to show up, and beyond that are responsible for themselves. Sounds way easier than trying to coordinate everything to me. There's much more that can go wrong if you start assigning group tasks to people imo.
I basically told him I was sad and a little bit depressed as my job hunting was going a bit difficult
Thank you for sounding it out
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