This is why you don't take back cheaters. You will never get back that basic comfort you get from being able to give them the benefit of the doubt.
Think about 6-7 years down the line, when she wants to go to vegas for a bachelorette party or something. You won't ever be able to say “Well she's never cheated before.” Every time something somewhat sketchy happens, you're going to come back to “Is she doing it again??”
Ugh he’s a hot mess. And as someone who’s dated and married older men… I’m 40 now and wouldn’t want to be with someone who is older than 50 now. When I was twenty I didn’t mind dating someone who was 40… just putting it out there
I was feeling really upset reading all these comments, nothing wrong though. She asked my why I was upset and I explained to her the entire story of how I’ve been feeling basically described here.
She told me it’s very difficult for her as she’s never been so close to anyone before and lived all her life being extremely private. She said she’ll try to make efforts to stop doing the things mentioned above and being more transparent. I hope it gets better, at least she understands now.
I just left Thailand three weeks ago. You should be worried.
This is why you don't take back cheaters. You will never get back that basic comfort you get from being able to give them the benefit of the doubt.
Think about 6-7 years down the line, when she wants to go to vegas for a bachelorette party or something. You won't ever be able to say “Well she's never cheated before.” Every time something somewhat sketchy happens, you're going to come back to “Is she doing it again??”
Ugh he’s a hot mess. And as someone who’s dated and married older men… I’m 40 now and wouldn’t want to be with someone who is older than 50 now. When I was twenty I didn’t mind dating someone who was 40… just putting it out there
I was feeling really upset reading all these comments, nothing wrong though. She asked my why I was upset and I explained to her the entire story of how I’ve been feeling basically described here.
She told me it’s very difficult for her as she’s never been so close to anyone before and lived all her life being extremely private. She said she’ll try to make efforts to stop doing the things mentioned above and being more transparent. I hope it gets better, at least she understands now.