Then he should find a partner that has those priorities, instead of harming his depressed gf that is already having a tough time and might have mental health more as a priority right now than physical health. And if she is doing nothing to handle her depression and only keeps drinking, that really sucks and it is okay to step out if he can't support anymore. But it is kind of stupid he doesn't recognize that someone with depression might not prioritise and choose his lifestyle, when she made it very clear he needs to stop.
She's either admitting to you she's a pedophile by projecting her self guilt on you or trying to emotionally manipulate you into feeling a need to “get back into good graces”
Could you get an IUD? Don’t have the same chemicals as the pill does obviously but if he isn’t going to get snipped and he doesn’t want to wear a condom then this is an option.
Just leave, been there myself, still regret not leaving sooner.
Then he should find a partner that has those priorities, instead of harming his depressed gf that is already having a tough time and might have mental health more as a priority right now than physical health. And if she is doing nothing to handle her depression and only keeps drinking, that really sucks and it is okay to step out if he can't support anymore. But it is kind of stupid he doesn't recognize that someone with depression might not prioritise and choose his lifestyle, when she made it very clear he needs to stop.
She's either admitting to you she's a pedophile by projecting her self guilt on you or trying to emotionally manipulate you into feeling a need to “get back into good graces”
Could you get an IUD? Don’t have the same chemicals as the pill does obviously but if he isn’t going to get snipped and he doesn’t want to wear a condom then this is an option.