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Date: October 11, 2022
Mary and Jack, 22 y.o.
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he was curious? why? of course he just wanted to flirt with others, why would he want to do that in a healthy relationship? listen, he cheats on you, if not physically (yet) then emotionally. I honestly don't know if I would want to save a relationship with someone who is obviously bored and unfaithful.
Run fast and run far if she is an addict she will continue to do this, get STD tested because you have no idea what she has been exposed to.
Why do you seek validation from others. Even if it’s from a SO you should first feel worthy on your own before expecting others to show/tell you of your worth. You need to go to counseling about this.
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Absolutely. I’d feel livid too at first, but she handled it in the best way possible. She’s a keeper
The raw hurt subsided. But you will always occasionally miss something that was part of your life and that is okay as long as you don’t obsess. We all miss people from our past.
The fact that you are mad about your mom coming in makes you a bit of an asshole, I feel bad for her. And if you need the internet to figure out “hey mom, thanks for the food but I would appreciate you not just walking into my house. I just want you to ask and not barge in”, makes me wonder if you’re old enough to be married or even have a kid.
Well, you have repeatedly make her understand your job will always come before her birthday. Btw do you work entire day or does her birthday celebration take entirety of the day? I don't understand why it is such a big problem in the first place.
I will assume you have difficult material situation (so you couldn't afford for example fake illness or just ditch job on that day and go spent her birthday with her regardless of what employer might think, like some people do), however you do know how important it is for your girlfriend.
It might just be that in the place in your life you are incompatible. She expects your plans and events to come before work and perhaps you can't afford it (if you can and just do it out of loyalty to your employer she should leave you btw). That is just how it is, she already knows she can not count on you adjusting your work to her plans so she will not adjust her plans to you when you suddenly have decided to grace her with your time.
She is likely going to leave some time in the near future.
What the hell is it that you think relationship therapists do?
That’s the hard thing I’m accepting.. I don’t think he ever meant to be emotionally abusive or gaslight me. I think we have two very different ways in viewing relationships and the moment I tried to take a step back and try to be independent again (to be interdependent) he couldn’t even go a whole day without texting each other because it’s a sign of “respect” when I just wanted one day to myself. I know some people would be so happy with a partner like him who wants/needs daily communication but I just couldn’t dismiss my needs anymore.
You’ve tried everything to appease him apart from completely surrender your free will and live! in a box in his room.
Assuming that’s not on the cards, no. The more you give, the tighter he’ll grip.
What you should have done on Day One is laugh in his face and say “that’s ridiculous! Of course I’m going to see my friends/family/movies/hiking/gym classes and study dates! Don’t worry, I’ll see you when I get back and I’ll tell you all about it!” It’s a bit late now but even if you charitably put it down to anxiety rather than a love of control, you have to learn that you can’t sacrifice your life for someone else’s mental illness- by definition, it’s not rational and the demands it makes aren’t rational.
I don't want for him to stop seeing his friends. I also don't want to break up. I love him very much. I know that I'm being unreasonable so I've never asked or would ask him to stop seeing his friends. But I still think that sometimes he is acting weird. From what he has told me some of his going outs resemble dates. For example once he told me he wanted to go to a certain place with me. The same night he goes out with his female friend and goes to the place, them bowling then went for hard chocolate. It sounded a lot like a date. But most of the time he doesn't tell me what they do. Like for example I ask how the going out went and he just says fine. But it's possible that he is just bad at communicating.
Oh fuck no.
Your Mother stays as far away as possible from your child.
And tell your family, especially your AH of a grandmother that if they even breathe a word about you or your child to her that you will cut them out as well.
When they complain, tell them that you have no problem making sure everyone knows how horrible they were, and how they cared more for their image than they did about you, and only stepped in after you nearly killed yourself.
Well consider this a woman who doesn't. You're too much.
Please give the dog away. Poor dude has to live! with this terror.
Maybe its not your bfs fault but there is absolutely no excuse to let this situation go on. And if you watch him mistreat the dog without doing anything you are as bad as him with animals.
Sorry you wrote all that but I am not reading any of it because op is an AH commenting like an AH. He’s on his own
OP, your fiancee is trouble and her son is a tool to not say a victim.
how many argument have you had with her ? how many have been smoothly closed ?
Go take care of her tv problem and don't charge her in any way or form. Of course, if she puts the moves on you, and she says she's sure, you're free to act.
Take condoms with you, but don't mention them if she doesn't make a move.
Flip genders and people would be calling the wife a saint and the husband an asshole
Some people feel like they never have to face the realities of their actions if they don't admit it.
Some people feel like they need to have some control over other people.
He may never admit it, and you may never be able to make him. But until you end the marriage, he is right, he won't have to face the music.
Block his number and talk to your lawyer.
Of corse he cheating again, no one is that enthusiastic over a women they just met at bowling ?.
Don't let him in the house. Tell him he can stay out until finances are sorted in the divorce.
Don't let him down play your feelings, who the hell asks a women while out for there number while you have a wife.
Something happened that night.
Keep strong and block his number so you don't have to deal with him, say all talks will now be through my lawyer and so will arrangements about him seeing the kids and make drop off picks ups by third party I.e your mom/sister/friend
I mean comparably it's much easier for a man to feel safe in these scenarios anyway.
Regardless this is not the only way to show compassion or help others in need.
Rude of him to disregard your traumatic experience.
Sounds like you've always been down to help people, and now you help in different ways.
Are you going to wait until he punches you in the face? Because that's what's going to happen. One day he'll beat you, and then tell you it's your fault.
You don't need proof – her behaviour is insanely inappropriate. No contact, at all, with affairs partner is an absolute minimum standard. Her obvious gaslighting of you leads me to believe she's still at minimum emotionally cheating.