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I don't understand why you are getting downvoted here. Using people is fucked up. No matter the background. People aren't tools to be used to facilitate your life.
My daughter sleeps in a bassinet NEXT to her, not actually in the bed.
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First off.. if you're in a relationship, you're in a relationship.
If you're polyamorous, you're not in a relationship, you're a on-line in FWB, meanwhile either 1 reaps all the benefits, as it mostly benefits women, and why men don't want them. The only reason they agree is so they can shop around for the replacement of the woman who asked for the OR.
Secondly…. if you actually wanted him, you wouldn't have asked for an OR.
You only started wanting him when another woman found what you failed to notice.
Life expectancy is around 80
yes i agree thank you?!
and i thought i was the problem. thank you?
When you mean by him getting help; do you mean therapy or AA group or where should he start? I fear the therapy with his mindset of just not drinking during the week won’t be enough.
Exactly this. “I was throwing signs at her” okay?? Should've thrown some words at her, my friend.
At the end of the day, you hurt yourself by not talking about how you felt and she assumed it would be like the last couple of times.
Are you upset with her or with yourself for not speaking up sooner? Also…how are 2 ons before you got exclusive going to impact your relationship? Idk
While I would agree on selling the house and moving somewhere else, that unfortunately isn't really an option. Rent in my area is almost as expensive as my current mortgage, and the market right now isn't really optimal to sell. Plus I'd be putting her out a good sum of money if we break up like that. She has put a decent amount of money into my house as well, funding some fairly permanent additions. If that opens me up for legal ramifications, then that's something else I'd rather wish to avoid.
Hand-me-downs are definitely something to consider. Maybe a friend or two that's tired of living in an apartment would be interested.
So she doesn’t trust her partner enough to be open and honest and this is somehow a positive?
Talk about mental gymnastics. They had the initial conversation together so why couldn’t she admit she changed her mind to him?
I doubt she is doing so for any real nefarious reason, but at the same time she is also not really helping her son.
She is trading the short term satisfaction of him winning with the long term benefit of actually learning and building skill in the game. She isn’t doing him any favours.
It doesn’t even sound like she’s trying to teach him, just self sabotaging so she loses.
But the worst of it all is that she is lying to OP, it is a big red flag and will likely harm his ability to instantly trust her in the future. Especially if she continues to lie about this.
I really fail to understand the defending of the wife. I am curious as to why she has gone out of her way to actively ignore her partner and even go against wishes they had previously both agreed on. Unless OP is purposefully leaving some incriminating evidence against themselves out this seems like the issue is in his partners court.
Maybe she just can’t stand seeing her son lose, or maybe there is more to it. Frankly I’m leaning toward the latter, because why blatantly lie to OP?
ITS NEVER BEYOND YOUR CONTROL! If he doesn’t respect a no BLOCK him everywhere. No one should pressure or guilt you into meeting up with them.
Even though she’s of legal age, if you do this then your best friend, your best friend’s family and all your mutual friends will think you’re a pervert who’s been lusting after (or even grooming her) for years.
And it won’t matter how much you tell them that isn’t the case or that she came onto you, the fact you’ve known her for years as a teenager (and I presume also as a child) and then start banging her as soon as she turns 18… there’s no chance they’ll believe you.
So you need to ask yourself, is it worth it?
I can speculate, but I'm not a man so there's that.
I think it starts with the idea that if only I had X I would be happy. And this kind of works. If only I had cheesecake, I'd be happy. I get cheesecake, I get some dopamine. I'm happy. Until I eat too much cheesecake.
Anyway, constructions of masculinity tell men that they need to have certain things to be happy. One of those things is an attractive girlfriend. There's a lot of pressure on men to be masculine in specific ways, just like women have it. I'm told I'm brave because I don't wear makeup. Like, really?
So, I think this guy is obsessed with you because he thinks that if only you were his girlfriend, he would be happy. His peers would admire him or be jealous of him. He would be successful. He would have someone who loves him. He wouldn't be lonely.
He doesn't see you as a person. If he did, he wouldn't be fixated. He would have taken the rejection to mean that pursuing you would be a waste of time. He sees you as an object that would solve all of his problems. By not doing what he wants you to do, your now both the solution to all his problems and the primary problem.
Just block. Do not engage.
She mostly just had flings that really didn’t get anywhere or a really long time exes. But she really just found this guy on Tinder and they just clicked really well.
You may believe that, but the definition of racism is not exclusion. It’s prejudice, discrimination, and/or antagonism, typically towards marginalized or minority groups. Saying “period” to emphasize your point does not make your opinion a fact.
A lot of people wrote paragraphs in response to this, I’ll keep it simple though. You’re a bitch and a terrible sister. You lack empathy and seem “flabbergasted” by the concept, you need help.
I think you might need to break up with her. She sounds like she's an attention seeker and manipulative.
Trying to control what you do in your spare time is a major red flag.
You might want to take a look at your relationship and see if there are any other warning signs of her controlling behaviour.
Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean that you no longer get to do what makes you happy or continue with hobbies.
Of course you need to be investing quality time into your relationship at the same time. Providing you have a balance that you're both comfortable with this shouldn't be an issue.
“Am I the one who needs to better control their emotions? Is there a way to fix this?”
Yes and yes. You need to control your emotions by not exposing yourself to an assh*** cun** that tries to manipulate you and berates you. And that's easily fixed by dumping him.
Cant explain why you would have tolerated that behaviour for 2 full years.
Just be there for her let her vent cry yell what ever she needs to do. Just support her.
I refuse to talk to him first. I am always the one texting back after a fight to try to fix things. If it wasnt for me he would wait months.
Companies will exploit you for as little as they can possibly pay you. You owe them nothing, they deserve no respect or consideration.
He will not… sadly he is going to find someone else like her.
You haven't had enough sex to know that, with all gentleness. It really doesn't lose all meaning.
I mean it's their relationship to manage. Personally I wouldn't want to know if I was your bff/bf's sister because I'd hate to get in the middle and hear about drama/gossip that's one-sided. It could taint my view of you or my sibling but that's just me.
You've voiced your discomfort but there's not much you can do about it, given as someone else said, you're in the middle of a close-knit dynamic. And siblings have a close bond, so…